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rogueangel4 -> Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 2:11:45 AM)

i would love to hear from people about their experiences, successes and failures using extreme cold on the surface of the skin and applying sensation as the numbness dissapates, and also using heat in the same way. Also, if anyone knows of any techniques for temporary branding, especially using cold, i would be most grateful to hear from you.



pompeii -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 7:17:20 AM)

I often apply ice cubes to a gal's erect nipples, and even pop a few into her warm kitty ... just to get the 'ooooh' reaction out of her ... yummy ... 



LadyPact -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 7:19:37 AM)

Funny timing on this one.  I'm doing a demo that has already been titled "Fire and Ice" next month.



coyotedc -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 11:20:52 AM)

I am relatively new to the BDSM scene and to this list, but I do have a little experience with ice play.  A top that I know keeps a big bowl of crushed ice in his freezer.  Once I am pantied, blindfolded, and bound securely in a wooden chair, he applies the ice wherever he wishes.  The sensation is fantasic -- especially when he packs my panties with shaved ice and watches me squirm.  As always, there are safety considerations -- no one wants to go to the ER with a frostbitten cock -- but with due care and concern it can be great fun.



batshalom -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 12:07:27 PM)

Ice on the clit for a few minutes followed by a pea-sized drop of mint toothpaste, or vice versa. Omg, it gives me chills and shudders just thinking about it. It's so cold that it feels like fire.



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 12:29:37 PM)

And ice cube on the clit at the moment of climax is pretty awesome too!!
 
Jewel



CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 12:41:25 PM)

My colleague is into ice play, and finds it quite enjoyable to use ice and sharp objects to inflict pain. My preference is fire play. When I do fire-play, I use 'cupping' for increased sensation play -- We recently saw a cupping demo at an event that I loved. The top set up a "cupped" drum-set on the bottom's back and hips, using different diameter cups and different amounts of suction/tension under the cups to regulate the sound each cup made. He then proceeded to "play the drums" on her -- it was awesome to watch, and according to the bottom, increased the intensity of the cupping session.

I enjoy using flash cotton, and following it with drops of ice cold water, or placing ice on top of areas where I've dripped wax. I don't tend to do anything on skin that I've been fireplaying on that uses blades or pricks the skin, since my mentor had a couple of occasions where very sensitive individuals' skin blistered after a relatively short fireplay session followed by cutting, and the cutting opened blisters. The blisters got infected in one lady, and though it wasn't horrific or disfiguring or anything, she was -really- uncomfortable for about a week -- so I tend not to take a lot of risks and choose not to combine cutting/needle/piercing play with fireplay.

Firestorm



proudsub -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 3:08:29 PM)

The one time i did hot wax play, ice was applied first then the wax dripped on the same area, loved the sensation.[:)] 



ProtagonistLily -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 4:32:05 PM)

mmm...fire! Oddly though I am a fire play slut, I detest wax play, and thank god Sir isn't particularly into it either. It trips neither one of our triggers, but fire rocks my world and can put me into space like almost nothing else except needles.

Ice...eh, take it or leave it. If it's used creatively, and as part of a larger thing and not just ice for ice's sake, it can work, but it's not a huge turn on for me.

PL



subbisherri -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 5:00:13 PM)

Hot sauce as harsh treatment; and I mean in the mouth, not elsewhere. Plus nothing to drink for awhile.



ProtagonistLily -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 5:14:24 PM)

I've been tortured with toothpaste, not in my mouth, elsewhere LOL.

PL



SurrenderForMe -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/10/2008 5:37:17 PM)

Take a needle and heat it, not to red hot, unless you want a scar.  Play with the heating time for different results.  Temporary brand for many.   The thread end, dots, names, designs.  The length for lines,  criss cross, etc.

Some people scar easily and nothing is temporary for them.  Try a spot that is not obvious for the first test.  Have some burn cream and ice on standby if the subject is new to this and does not know their tolerances.  I, for instance, react badly to even a minor burn.  It hurts for days.



rogueangel4 -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/13/2008 6:28:17 PM)

Thank  You both Pompeii and LadyPact for Your replies. LadyPact, i would be most interested in attending Your demo! i've had a few people mention going to certain lecturtes or demos, how do i get in on these!?



rogueangel4 -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/13/2008 6:55:26 PM)

Thank You veryone who has come back with their suggestions and experiences, there are certainly some intriguing ideas put forward. One must love the creativity of what WIITWD :)

CallaFirestormBW, could you possibly give me some more info, or reference to where i might get some info on cupping? i would be most grateful if you could.

ProtagonistLily, please excuse my ignorance, but how does one do fire play sans the wax?

Thanks again everyone




LadyPact -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/13/2008 7:06:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: rogueangel4

Thank  You both Pompeii and LadyPact for Your replies. LadyPact, i would be most interested in attending Your demo! i've had a few people mention going to certain lecturtes or demos, how do i get in on these!?

Well, unless you're flying to the states anytime soon, I don't think you'll be able to make it to this one. 

What I might suggest to you would be to get involved in your local BDSM community.  That is the best way for you to get information on munches, demos, and events close to you.   It never ceases to amaze Me what a wealth of knowledge is here, right in My own backyard.



azropedntied -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/14/2008 10:12:14 AM)

When you state heat and cold the first thing that came to mind was a mummification ,i so enjoy most forms  but this is the next level for me . It takes alotta prep time and material but so well worth it . You get a roll of clear plastic tube , i like about 80 feet or more , and plastic cling film , then get a decent pond pump a few zip ties ,the zip ties  for the hose end connections . and of course the must have  duct tape . I start at one foot and work my way around wrapping the body in the tubbing  coiling it around and ending on the other  leg , Attach the one end to the pump for a recirculation effect , then wrap your mummy in cling film for deprivation and immobility .now that you have  the person where you want them  or perhaps you where you want to be , hook up the hot , warm then chilled water and let it  circulate for added sensation through the hose and pump .If you want  some  better visual effects , add color to the water , and clear wrapping , I have even used glow additives and black light for some visual effects  in demos .You need not use boiling  or ultra cold water for this for obvious reasons .     



LPslittleclip -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/14/2008 7:19:06 PM)

for a temporary brand my M'Lady has used a coat hanger heated in salt water on the stove top. the coat hanger is shaped in her initials LP. the brand lasted for about 3 months before it had to be redone. the coat hanger was a thick gage since the thin one that was used first it didn't work very well. make sure the end of the hanger is flat and close to the flame. i enjoyed the sensation very much. as far as using cold to leave a mark it wouldn't work very well as it would be to diffuse to be of use. further it might cause deeper tissue damage.



afterforever -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/14/2008 7:59:01 PM)

I once saw a brand on a sub friend of mine done with one of those liquid nitrogen sticks you use to freeze off warts and veruccas. It didn't last very long (just over a week if I recall) and looked a bit weird, but I wouldn't recommend it anyway unless you worked up slowly from doing it very lightly, to make sure you weren't going to do any serious tissue damage. I guess it was creative at least.



WhisperSupremacy -> RE: Playing with heat, cold and sensation (7/14/2008 7:59:54 PM)

My girlfriend came up with the idea of punishment by throwing me out on the balcony in my boxers for several minutes (it was the middle of winter and it was snowing...and I am a person who litterally HATES the cold.)  Then, the idea of being warmed up by her made it even more interesting,....however, as great of the thought sounded, we never tried it because she did not want me to catch a cold.  The idea was neat, but not worth trying.



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