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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/13/2006 8:49:14 AM

LadyMorgynn

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My slave is both allowed, and expected to have opinions, and to express them (respectfully, and when invited to do so). Furthermore, I treat my slave's opinions with respect (I did, after all, request him to express them).My only requirement are that said opinions are to be honest and thoughtful.

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/13/2006 4:37:39 PM

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What kind of stupidity is this? Lets keep moronic babblings to a dull roar. What an idiot thing to post.
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it's the kind to warn buttheads that some of us dont take shit off no one just coz he calls himself a dom..
SOME people need to be taken out of the gene pool.

hint!

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/13/2006 10:23:22 PM

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Ok, lets see....this is under the forum, ask a Master.....that would seem to me to say ask a Master his opinion of whatever....a Masters opinion would aply to his house only and would be stated for the benifit of others, not as a rule....if that be the case, and I think it is....then your comment is somewhat out of line...if you don't want a Masters opinion, then why not go to ask a mistress, that would seem to fit your need best..... but then, that is just my opinion.

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/14/2006 10:33:48 AM

veronicaofML

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these forums...are for ALL..................

so NO...it is NOT out of line..anyone can post anywhere.
k?

it bothers ME--------that the rest of you all so-called honorable doms arent jumpin his shit coz he says all subs are non human...
who in hell does he think he IS?
if he ever..hurts a girl because HE thinks HE is god..and goes to jail or prison...
THAT gives the REAL doms a bad name..one more damned abuser...
why am "I" the only s.o.b. man enough to stand up to the fool???

am i the ONLY real man here????????

i am ashamed of ALL of you so called doms if ya aint got any backbone to SEE this..and call him on it!

it is pitiful.

i am SO sick of group think...

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/14/2006 6:54:53 PM

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Ok, I looked back on the other post to find out who and what you were standing up to...who was this danger you spoke of...I have yet to find it...I found a post where someone stated that a whip would be used if his spoke out of turn...not an unusual statement...harsh maybe...but not as far out as a person living without outside contact, not being able to leave the property, sleeping on the floor of a computer room, seems much as a prisner to me....all I found was you makeing a cyber threat about useing a base ball bat on a sleeping person...now that is honorable, isn't it....or you telling some one that some should be removed from the gene pool.....yes, I stand by what I said, that is, in my opinion, out of line.....oh and yes anyone can post any where, but seemd that someone posting here would be asking a Master for advice and Master's should give their advice..it's up to the ones seeking it to decide what they accept....but then, that is my opinion.

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/14/2006 9:56:22 PM

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....but then, that is my opinion.
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and of course,,,opinions are like what now???????

yeah------------like it matters in the bigger picture to me????????

what would be YOUR guess?

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/14/2006 11:14:23 PM

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For as long as I desire to own a human slave that chooses to serve me--that human slave will have opinions. All humans will always have them. As a dom I choose to nurture her choice to serve me. With pain, with pleasure, guiding the relationship to become something better all the time. With guidance the right slave for me will know when it is appropriate to express her opinion and how best to do so. I cannot care for and own one part of her and not another, I own all of who she is so long as she chooses to be owned by me. My slave's opinion will always count and will always matter. But will that affect my decision? I feel that part of being a good Master/Mistress is knowing what decision to make when the time comes. Because what it comes down to is this "Will this choice help our relationship, or hurt it?"

For me, it is most important to recogize both the body and the mind. For me, that is the best way. Is it wrong? No. This relationship will be governed by our rules, our boundries...all else be damned.

IMO it should be as simple as that for everyone. Isn't it?

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/15/2006 6:06:11 AM

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A slave/Master relationship is what you want to make of it. If all slaves were all the same then we could just look up the profile for a slave and say be mine, does it work that way, HELL NO!

you just be yourselves and the hell with the wannabes who only dream of what slavery is about. I think they have done to much reading with something small in their hands....

.....ponders that thought.......

Oh where was I...oh yeah just do what ya gotta do..........

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/15/2006 10:35:46 AM

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I response to Veronica...............My Dear lad, everyone is entitled to their opinion here.
You may not like the way this thread was presented, but it was a legitimate question.
I would treat a slave with the utmost respect and consider their opinions at all times. consider, being the opeative word here, but that is me and that is my answer to his question.
However, lets face it Veronica. There are many slaves that are very happy to be treated with disrespect and contsantly humiliated.....It's their desire to be treated this way...their kink, just as your is cleaning.

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/17/2006 12:46:19 AM

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In response to the original post question Are slaves allowed opinions

I will add my penny worth of thought ( mutterings )

First i state im to lazy to read all the reply posts to this question so this idea may already of been stated , and the following expression of thought is only my opinion and not the act of a God written in stone.

If you feel bad because someone tells you he does not respect your lifes choices as they do not meet his expectation of how you should live. You may find pleasure in sharing with him this thought

Your Masters allows you to have opinions as he is safe in his Knowledge of your Love , devotion , obediance and bounding as a pair. He feels no insecurity to require him to bind you , gag you and whip or beat you or gage you to stop you leaving . This is because he is safe in his Knowledge of your Love , devotion , obediance and bounding as a pair.

I hope you may find This of help.

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/21/2006 10:06:10 AM

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Master / slave relationship is as YOU define it.

The life a sub/slave has with his or her Master is defined by their relationship - no other opinion or comment is relevant.
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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/23/2006 12:16:03 AM

mons

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you just forget them you have a happy realationship with him oh lord woman do not care what anyone says your his slave you know, he know do not care what other think so many try to put doubt in your mind they live for it go and be the slave you master wants do not listen to other jealous folks love to make other doubt the love and trust you have with him

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RE: Are slaves allowed opinions - 1/23/2006 3:59:00 PM

RavenMuse

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Firstly, who's slave are you? His or some random idiot you meet IRL or on the net? He encourages you to have opinions, good, end of story.

However you asked for opinions....

Personaly I think some folks are too wrapped up in fantasy lala land. Even the most submissive slave has opinions even if she doesn't express them either because she isn't allowed to or possibly has problems expressing them even if she is allowed, but either way she will have them. Allowed or not, they will be there.

My own take is that I look for a person to submit to me, not just a body. That includes encouraging her to give her opinions (Appropriatly of course), her feelings, her thoughts. It gives me insight into how to train her to serve better (And helps me spot if there are any areas where I maybe not doing the right things, many Doms may like to think they are the 'perfect master' but the best and most experienced that I've met still acknowledged there where things he could still learn and improve on), helps me spot potential problems before they become actual problems, helps build trust in the relationship and most importantly I enjoy it.

If that causes a few to look on me as 'not-a-real-Dom' it realy doesn't bother me in the slightest so long as it works for me and for those I am involved with.

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