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meetinng - 7/6/2008 5:45:00 PM   
mistressmagon30


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Status: offline 		ello out there hope everyone haveing good sunday.Iwould like some input i met guy on here last week yes i am one of t hem mistress who meet for one time tribute he sent then we were going to meet i was laying around it was on sunday he call back say i forgot i was haveing dinner with my mom dad i dont see how you could for get that so now he think i should just jump and meet him.PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK
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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 6:04:06 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		A little clarification please...
 
Do you mean that he forgot your meeting because he was having supper with his parents or that he called you back to say that he forgot he was supposed to have supper with his parents at the time you'd arranged to meet?  The answer could change the responses you get.

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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 6:05:44 PM   
mistressmagon30


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Status: offline 		he called me 10 mins after we got off the phone the frist time told me he for got that he has to have dinner

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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 6:10:01 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		In that case, I don't think it was terribly strange.  I've forgotten appointments any number of times.  It happens.  In his excitement over your upcoming meeting, it probably just slipped his mind.  In your place, I wouldn't give it a second thought unless he's unwilling to reschedule.  Even then, I wouldn't worry about it.  Just cross him off your list and move on.

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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 6:11:57 PM   
CallaFirestormBW


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Status: offline 		That could happen. I've had it happen to me, where I didn't realize the time, or forgot about something I had on my calendar. I probably wouldn't forget a dinner with my dad, since I have to go to another state, but when we were living close by and had dinner with either the parents or the in-laws relatively regularly, it would slip my mind occasionally. If he called you back 10 minutes after the first call, I'd hazard he may really have forgotten. Whether you choose to meet him on his new schedule is entirely up to you.


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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 6:43:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		At least he called. Instead of just standing you up.

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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 6:47:11 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		How about we lay off the new posters for 24 hours?

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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 8:03:50 PM   
chamberqueen


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To get back to the question, if he sent you your tribute already then I am sure that he was so excited that he truly did forget that he had a previous appointment.  I agree; it was good of him to call.

I got lost the first time I was to meet my Master in person.  I had to call the restaurant where we were to meet (after having a terrible time finding a pay phone because my cell was out of minutes).  He told me later that the only reason he waited was because I called.  It could have sounded like an excuse to him, but he waited to see what I was like in person.  We've been together ever since.  Sometimes a little patience from the Dom/me goes a long way.


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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 9:33:03 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		In all honesty, mistressmagon30, using standard English spelling and grammar will help you get the information you desire.  I don't say this to be rude at all.  It was very difficult to understand your OP.  In the spirit of helpfulness, I suggest using a spell-check program such as MS Word or OpenOffice include for any future posts you make.  Not that your typos are an excuse for rudeness (they aren't) but it helps those of us reading to understand and help you.
 
Best wishes to you!

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RE: meetinng - 7/6/2008 10:46:00 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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ORIGINAL: mistressmagon30

what do you got type good to post hmmm do you people really take look at the way you people act rude very rude


Your profile is equally difficult to read.  I'll refrain from any further comments about it.  If someone has to strain to read what you've written, they're a lot less likely to want to correspond with you.  If I were to receive a message from a submissive written the same way you've written so far, I would simply delete it.  Communication is VERY important for a dominant, male or female.
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RE: meetinng - 7/7/2008 6:29:52 AM   
Prinsexx


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ORIGINAL: mistressmagon30

ello out there hope everyone haveing good sunday.Iwould like some input i met guy on here last week yes i am one of t hem mistress who meet for one time tribute he sent then we were going to meet i was laying around it was on sunday he call back say i forgot i was haveing dinner with my mom dad i dont see how you could for get that so now he think i should just jump and meet him.PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK

I suppose it's like forgetting how to communicate in the English language, or punctuation.
Shit appens.


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RE: meetinng - 7/7/2008 10:25:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok,  I'm not trying to be rude at all, but I understand a lot of the responses you're getting.   Communication is key,  and you're not communicating very well in the way you present yourself through this forum.  But,  in answer to your question,  I have also forgotten meetings, appointments, even one of my kids at the park once.  It's a human thing.  Hopefully you're not a 1 strike your out type. 

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RE: meetinng - 7/7/2008 3:09:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mistressmagon30

ello out there hope everyone haveing good sunday. I would like some input i met guy on here last week yes i am one of t hem mistress who meet for one time tribute he sent then we were going to meet i was laying around it was on sunday he call back say i forgot i was haveing dinner with my mom dad i dont see how you could for get that so now he think i should just jump and meet him.PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK


Keep in mind that shit happens beyond our control and it is quite possible he actually did forget a prior commitment. It has happened to us all. I see two options here, you can either keep an open mind and chalk this goof as an honest mistake and try again or you can make wild assumptions and walk away. The choice is yours.


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