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Thadius -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 1:33:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop snort I like you, Thad :) Hmm... damn that means my plan to win the other thread, might have had a chance. Besides I think it's a reasonable request to prove they are real..[8D]

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 3:57:11 AM)
Funny You should ask this. 2 days ago I met a very nice slave in the making on , she's very keen and sincere......but she too nervous to go out and explore what she needs, last night when I spoke to her last night she said it had taken her an hour to pluck up the courage to come into the chat room. I told her I was off to a pony play event later this month and that I go to fetish fairs regularly. The reason I say this is because when I thought about what she said I realised that I'll only ever meet people in the lifestyle who do something, and they're the ones who have bitten the bullet and gone about finding what T/they want/need. I think the bottom line is (I.M.O) those who will do have already done, those who won't, surf.

pettingdragons -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 6:20:50 AM)
would you like some cheese with that whine? *and no it wont be served by this slave....good luck on finding another or get it yourself*

sweetpeasmiles -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 6:56:26 AM)
ok.. read all the posts and all i can do is sit here and giggle.... wanders off to get coffee

RedMagic1 -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 7:12:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HalloweenWhite I realised that I'll only ever meet people in the lifestyle who do something, and they're the ones who have bitten the bullet and gone about finding what T/they want/need. There's a lot of truth in this. If someone likes me, and I like her -- online -- then if she's not willing to meet me within two weeks, I move on to someone else. I'll meet her anywhere she wants, and she can bring five of her friends. I have now met 10 women (12 if you count Tulip and GT, who are "just" friends) online-to-real between CollarMe and Alt since May 07, and it could have been more, but I stopped looking because I was in a relationship for a while. And I swear, the only thing I do that's "different" is to talk to women in a way that sounds normal. I barely discuss sex or fetish. This whole thing irritates me, because I just got a letter from a female submissive, saying that she had lost three months of her life because of a master who kept on saying he would meet and never did. There really is a dividing line between online and real life. And the bottom line is, unles she is willing to do more than surf, she can talk to somebody else.

candystripper -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 7:19:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littledevil1966 I am getting SOOO tired of the game players out here that talk for ever and never stick to what they say. When they say there looking for a Dom and let you take them on as a sub but only want to chat on line and never meet. All i'm looking for is a TRUE sub or slave who REALLY wants to be trained. So i ask you is that to much to ask for? Depends. I haven't looked at your profile, so I can only answer for me. I don't meet a man simply because he sends me an email. It takes awhile in email and on the phone to feel enough trust and interest in meeting. If you are encountering resistance, maybe you are rushing things too much for the submissive. Doubtless you have also encountered people on CollarMe who aren't what they say they are, or for some other reason, never want to meet in real life. It happens to us all. It's a free D/s dating site, so you really have no right to complain. Just relax and keep on sending great intro emails; hopefully someone will eventually respond and want to meet. candystripper

Twicehappy2x -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 9:15:00 AM)
Your profile is very sparse for somebody who is looking for a partner. You list no vanilla interests, no info on what you are offering, no info on your current female partner, nothing at all about what type of person you are searching for other than she needs to be a submissive. You are looking for what a huge group of people are looking for, a female submissive to join a couple, so your search is going to be hard. Women who fit that criteria can afford to be very choosy about who they respond to so you need to go out of your way to let them know more about you. What is a "fore love"? (from your profile)

GreedyTop -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 10:13:15 AM)
waves at Twice I think 'fore love' may be a fancy way of saying foreplay?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 10:15:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop waves at Twice I think 'fore love' may be a fancy way of saying foreplay? OOOH I want some of that!!

sassysexygirl -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 10:16:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance I'm not sure I could take a guy seriously who has a profile pic with bad make-up, cheesy costume, who states that the sub has all the power. ...... Try a different marketing strategy, would be my recommendation. amen!!! couldn't have said it better myself [:)] gemmie

GreedyTop -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 10:17:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop waves at Twice I think 'fore love' may be a fancy way of saying foreplay? OOOH I want some of that!! soon ;)

AquaticSub -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 10:36:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littledevil1966 I am getting SOOO tired of the game players out here that talk for ever and never stick to what they say. When they say there looking for a Dom and let you take them on as a sub but only want to chat on line and never meet. All i'm looking for is a TRUE sub or slave who REALLY wants to be trained. So i ask you is that to much to ask for? I'm sorry, but the last shipment of TRUE subs and slaves went out last month. Each one was taken up by a pre-order so you won't find them on the shelves either. So sadly, we are breaking the mold to keep the limited addition status. Happily, we will be making a new mold (bigger bust!) but production won't start for another... five or so years. Our suggestion is to worry less about the brand label TRUE and find someone that matchs up with you in all areas of life.

Twicehappy2x -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 12:41:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop waves at Twice I think 'fore love' may be a fancy way of saying foreplay? Lol, waves high cutie pie. That is a relief i thought it was new kind of play involviong a foreskin or something like that.

LaTigresse -> RE: Just me thinking aloud (7/3/2008 1:50:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littledevil1966 I am getting SOOO tired of the game players out here that talk for ever and never stick to what they say. When they say there looking for a Dom and let you take them on as a sub but only want to chat on line and never meet. All i'm looking for is a TRUE sub or slave who REALLY wants to be trained. So i ask you is that to much to ask for? And your point is what? (oh yeah.......the above is ME thinking in type)

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