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Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 12:32:48 PM   
littledevil1966


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Status: offline 		I am getting SOOO tired of the game players out here that talk for ever and never stick to what they say. When they say there looking for a Dom and let you take them on as a sub but only want to chat on line and never meet. All i'm looking for is a TRUE sub or slave who REALLY wants to be trained. So i ask you is that to much to ask for?
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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 12:34:49 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		Maybe they got tired of your whiney, desperate approach online, and decided to cut it off before it went any further. Just a thought.

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 12:36:50 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Why don't you meet them real time before "taking them on"?  

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 12:37:54 PM   
littlewolfe


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Status: offline 		what You say is true  but that all go for Dom/me also  this one has spent time with those who say that they want a sub/slave   talk online and on the phone  then when it is time to meet  They just disapear off the face of the earth  but people are just that way  a few bad apples don't spoil the whole barrel  repectfully littlewolfe

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 12:45:21 PM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		yeah.. and submissive and switch men too...

whining about it is really not very productive... and I noted from your profile, you're searching for the most rare creature.. a female submissive willing to join a well established relationship.. you might search the poly threads for more experience on that one...

bottom line:  do not use this as your only outlet to meet people

< Message edited by Madame4a -- 7/2/2008 1:00:17 PM >

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 2:56:09 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		thats your first contribution to the board discussion a whine moan ?online is fine for  many things but exclusive means to find someone u should also add some real life  with  community too for better results .The whole "true submissive/slave" ?? try seeking common ground ,compatibility ,attraction , desire , etc .

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 3:00:40 PM   
fluffyswitch


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Status: offline 		here's a tip: avoid words like real and true and you may have better luck.

and i mean that with complete seriousness.

subs are real, they just don't want your dynamic. find one that does.


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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 3:10:31 PM   
Shadow-tiger


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littledevil1966
All i'm looking for is a TRUE sub or slave who REALLY wants to be trained. So i ask you is that to much to ask for?

Well just for the sake of discussion, by your definition what is a true sub who really wants to be trained? Heck, what kind of training are you talking about? Or I dunno, how about even the things that simply annoy you?

So far all you've done is taken a blank canvas, scribbled the words real and sub in the corner then left the paints untouched.

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 4:41:08 PM   
daddysliloneds


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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 5:55:03 PM   
Prinsexx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littledevil1966

I am getting SOOO tired of the game players out here that talk for ever and never stick to what they say.

And this is your first post?


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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 6:03:43 PM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: littledevil1966
So i ask you is that to much to ask for?


Yes.

And no that doesn't mean they're game players. They don't feel sufficiently comfortable with you to meet. By pressuring someone, and not giving them what they need to feel safe you prove to them that you aren't trustworthy. And that's why they won't meet you.

Or they want a true dominant and you aren't him.

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 9:44:50 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure I could take a guy seriously who has a profile pic with bad make-up, cheesy costume, who states that the sub has all the power.   While I understand the sentiment, it just smacks of role play.  Role-play is fun, for those into it.  Many are into the text-based role-play, which I think may be the ones you are attracting with your approach.  Try a different marketing strategy, would be my recommendation. 

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 9:50:02 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		what they said.. and spellcheck is your friend...

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 10:04:07 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		Hey GT...i meant to tell you that i like the new pic...but miss the smiling farmgirl one....be well

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 10:05:27 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		thanks, Pers!! It's still on my profile...

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 10:12:26 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		You are on a public forum, game players are inevitable, you should know that from the AFF links I see in your journal.  This place should be heaven compared to your AFF experiences!

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/2/2008 10:39:41 PM   
SurrenderForMe


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Status: offline 		"TRUE sub", sorry I didn't check the profile, but that tells me you are so new or young you squeak.  You want to meet someone so do so many others.  If it was easy there wouldn't be endless dating site, matchmakers, phone chat, online chat, personals, etc. 

It takes work, risk and some luck to meet someone compatible.  It leads many to bitterness and depression.  Why would you expect to get any better results than the rest of the eight billion people on this planet?

Regardless, good luck with your search.

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/3/2008 1:04:15 AM   
SocialPerversion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fluffyswitch
here's a tip: avoid words like real and true and you may have better luck.

OP, listen to these words for they are wise.

~~conquer4love~~


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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/3/2008 1:13:03 AM   
Thadius


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That is why I only take on the ones that already have "REAL SUB" or "TRUE SLAVE" tattooed in block letters.  You just can't be toooo careful these days.

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RE: Just me thinking aloud - 7/3/2008 1:22:22 AM   
GreedyTop


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I like you, Thad :)

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