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rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 6:24:20 PM

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gone-again Finnegan! Fleebing idjut sub who says "I want to be your sub, your slave, I'm yours"...when he's flying in subspace, and when I text him to ask if he got home safe after a long drive and a day-long intense session, he responds 36 hours later, and tosses the busy excuse. (I know exactly how busy, don't think I don't.)

But this flicker-like incredible invisible profile that he sets up long enough to send me a message on CM, get what he wants, and exit, stage left... no. Fool me twice, shame on me.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......boy, does he have a new name, and his name is MUDD.

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 6:33:55 PM

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Run, Finnegan, run!

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 6:34:49 PM

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wax on wax off

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 6:38:56 PM

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Angel was like that for a while. He'd be all "I love you, this is where I beling this is what I want" in scene and then Id not talk to him for months. Thankfully, though, his was legit busy problems. He pushed your buttons once and got what he want. You arent a vending machine, dont let him push them agian and get more of the same.

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 7:28:37 PM

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Thanks, DV, he was on his second chance, and the blocked text messages sealed his doom. Finnegan WHO? BLOCK.

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 7:30:27 PM

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Though, it might be mildly amusing to let him think he had a chance if he contacts you again, and then tell him no and show him that opener right befor eyou block his ass
hehe

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 8:36:04 PM

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Though, it might be mildly amusing to let him think he had a chance if he contacts you again, and then tell him no and show him that opener right befor eyou block his ass
hehe

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Or along the same lines, let him believe there is a chance, even allow him to try to schedule some more play time, give instructions on when and where (preferably a hotel/motel room that he has to pay for), and then start operation block. If nothing else it will teach him the value of somebody else's time and efforts.

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 9:33:53 PM

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Or along the same lines, let him believe there is a chance, even allow him to try to schedule some more play time, give instructions on when and where (preferably a hotel/motel room that he has to pay for), and then start operation block. If nothing else it will teach him the value of somebody else's time and efforts.

Yeah, plus it'll make you the same kind of low-down liar and time-waster that he is. Don't sink to his level. You'll be a better person for it...............luci

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/28/2008 10:10:53 PM

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I just got back from a short walk down the street, around the corner, then back. Me and my flashlight and my trusty old cane, trying to keep in halfway decent shape. Wasn't a long walk, less than a mile. I had to find a place to sit down just after the halfway point; even with oxycontin and a muscle relaxer in me, it was just too painful to keep walking.

Then I got home and read this thread and thought to myself, "Holy fuck! And I thought I had problems! Really dodged that whole headcase subby bullet!" Man, am I lucky. Whew!

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/29/2008 3:05:43 AM

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hey FTG - use spell check. that should read = 'wacks' off !

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/29/2008 3:48:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DelilahDeb

gone-again Finnegan! Fleebing idjut sub who says "I want to be your sub, your slave, I'm yours"...when he's flying in subspace, and when I text him to ask if he got home safe after a long drive and a day-long intense session, he responds 36 hours later, and tosses the busy excuse. (I know exactly how busy, don't think I don't.)

But this flicker-like incredible invisible profile that he sets up long enough to send me a message on CM, get what he wants, and exit, stage left... no. Fool me twice, shame on me.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......boy, does he have a new name, and his name is MUDD.

Lady Delilah Deb

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As a submissive I have always envied Dommes. Male submissives are apparently legend; they are silly or desparate enough to offer Dommes 'financial domination'; there is a common Dom fantasy of dominating a Domme and 'turning her into a submissive' so They get chased by Doms as well as submissives, etc., etc., etc.

Evidentially quantity is no guarantee of quality. My Dommes friends complain about the utter disinterest of most male submisssives in a real D/s dynamic; instead they want to 'serve' almost immediately by licking the Dommes' boots or something. In short, male submissives seem to treat Dommes as wanker material and not as real people who are dominant. I've got one Domme friend who's about ready to leave D/s behind out of disgust and frustration.

Life isn't easy for anyone. *Sighs* We all want a shortcut, and instant gratification. We all want to be in a quality D/s dynamic of our choice. So few of us are, and those who've found it should thank their lucky stars.

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/29/2008 4:34:58 AM

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Please allow me to chime in with my support. Yesterday a rehearsal didn't happen due to a couple actors not showing up. No advance warning, the same not answering texts and switched off cellphone crap, Not the first time, not the second, but the third.

I did something uncharacteristic for me - I exploded. Yesterday in London July 4 came a bit early, I decided to be a drama queen for a change and I let some people really have it. I've cancelled all dates, folded a production, and decided to start all over again with new people.

I've put out the ads, but am seriously considering charging my new actors and making it into an acting course. I could use the money and I figure that if someone pays me $300 a month to learn how to act they'll make damn sure they make it to rehearsals.

I bet you all that those whiners who bitch about Dommes asking for tributes probably won't be reading this thread. This is the problem with such people isn't it? Isn't it one of the most annoying things to happen? They claim a commitment and then poof! They're not there, usually miles away and there's not a thing you can do about it. Probably just as well, because I really wanted to throttle people yesterday.

I wonder whether the problem is the Internet. Here you can be anyone you like, say something and you know people have to take you at face value. You can be like a dog in a meat shop. But when it comes down to reality, you know, that often turns out to be a different story altogether.

I'm generally an easygoing and tolerant person, I can put up with most things, but flaky people just get on my tits. And they get on my tits in ways that would be impossible for most people and they can wear down my patience very very quickly.

Just thought I would share if only to make the OP feel better. I'm okay, back in my usual emotional state. I just figured that I would probably make more progress working with new people than struggling with the previous ones. The fact that I lost three months of hard work isn't an issue, I'm not in any hurry, and I guess it will happen at the right time.

That's the only consolation really when it comes down to it, isn't it? Some people just aren't worth it.

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RE: rant...off-again, on-again, out-again, in-again... - 6/29/2008 11:49:55 PM

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Hippiekinkster, there are days when I resemble your remark, alas.

Stella, I enjoyed your shared reciprocal rant! I like the acting lessons idea.

The silly twit who annoyed me so has the joys of my having plenty of opportunity to compose the most accurate and scathing termination letter for when he does stick his head above the radar again. And even post-stroke, I'm a hell of a writer, I just can't do it to deadlines any more. (Pity the poor cluck, I'm going to define his errors in as much detail as *I* feel like, and I know what makes him tick better than *he* does.)

luci, no, I'm not going to sink to his level, in some ways he's just a clueless newbie, and he almost deserves the "scuzzy" domme that he nearly hooked up with before I gave him that second chance. Idjut. But he doesn't deserve me.

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