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Ladies: feedback on my profile- pls - 6/27/2008 7:07:57 AM

intelligent

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Ladies- pls share your honest view of a poly communal lifestyle...and how my profile depicts same.

I can provide a wonderful 6-bdrm household, with many amenities (large private wooded lot w/ gardens, pool, spa, in-home gym).

More importantly: I am "clean-cut" & a successful businessman, open & honest, in-shape, attractive, told I am "intelligent and funny", and enjoy having fun (outdoors hobbies: gardening, landscaping, canoe, travel, etc; indoors: woodworking, cooking, wine, good movies - ie Man On Fire, Charlie's War,...see them?).

Sexually open but not severe (piss, feces, animals, torture, etc) and faithful w/in defined realtionship(s). Told I am "large"

& can provide "references" on that

.Say "hello" and I'd love to chat

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RE: Ladies: feedback on my profile- pls - 6/27/2008 7:26:59 AM

wandersalone

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"A “lady” in public, yet you also enjoy a drink-too-many on occasion. Maybe it leads to some lustful behavior, playful public display or some dirty dancing?"

I stopped drinking to excess a long time ago and don't need the excuse of being drunk to be .....lustful.

Your profile doesn't seem to really talk much about a poly communal lifestyle, and I imagine that it means different things for many people so perhaps clarifying what it means to you would be helpful.

Welcome to the forums.

edited to make the profile quote pink again.

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RE: Ladies: feedback on my profile- pls - 6/27/2008 8:47:19 AM

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quote:

I am "clean-cut" & a successful businessman, open & honest, in-shape, attractive, told I am "intelligent and funny",

Bragging, anyone? Real turn off.

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I can provide a wonderful 6-bdrm household

Does this mean you are seeking at least 5 ladies to join you and they are all monogamous to you?

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Told I am "large" & can provide "references"

More bragging....and if you ever read the message boards you'd find out that size doesn't count for many.

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Straight Dom offering communal-poly household. 24/7, LTR, visits, weekend fun…whatever seems “right”.

So..apparently just getting laid will do it for you...nothing special...a one night stand, longer...as long as you get laid. Can i ask where the D/s is in this household?

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A “lady” in public, yet you also enjoy a drink-too-many on occasion. Maybe it leads to some lustful behavior, playful public display or some dirty dancing?

Seems to me that a Dom might ask his submissive for a dirty dance on occasion and wouldn't need booze to do so.

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you are a wildcat or seeking to learn to be, you lustfully want to experience heart pounding and crazed-lust.

Still wondering how you will sexually satisfy your group of ladies. A man in his 20s couldn't do that let alone a man in his 50s.

In conclusion....i find your profile to have too much bragging and to be unrealistic. Quite frankly, it's a real turn off.

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RE: Ladies: feedback on my profile- pls - 6/27/2008 10:20:44 AM

Usako

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Pretty much what peppermint said. Bragging is highly unattractive. Plus, no face pic. I find that insanely annoying, of course some people don't want to show their face on here which is understandable but I usually over look ads without pics or with pics that don't show face.

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RE: Ladies: feedback on my profile- pls - 6/28/2008 4:59:00 PM

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On the right track, but needs to be fleshed out more .. Weighing in on the "D" side of things, Id say u might want to add more of what you mean for your household to be like in the parameters of a D/s relationship. You have a framework of info about u, a lot of what u are looking for in a person- now tell the potential members of your household what they can expect on a day to day basis. Thats the real question most 'potentials' have ..

Id say if u dont want to put a face pic up (which is understandable) .. then u are better off with no pic at all

and ..lol..the bragging doesnt bother me, but then again, Im a Domme ..

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RE: Ladies: feedback on my profile- pls - 6/29/2008 5:44:05 AM

came4U

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"I have a small pussy."

"I have a doctors note and (fill in number) men that would attest to that."

Is that what you meant by 'references?'

lol

no thanks.

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RE: Ladies: feedback on my profile- pls - 6/29/2008 6:24:29 AM

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I agree with the above, but also notice that the way it reads makes it seem unattainable with all of the contradictions. For example you say," A “lady in public, yet you also enjoy a drink-too-many on occasion. Maybe it leads to some lustful behavior, playful public display or some dirty dancing?", but then you ask that she displays manners and etiquette. Another example, is that you ask her to wear "feminine" attire and act in a "feminine" manner, yet wear jeans and get dirty (I assume under the definitions of your own profile that these are contradictions, you seem clear on what femininity means to you).
At least, that is what i saw

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