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RE: Definitions ?: 24/7? - 1/14/2007 10:29:09 PM   
mtumwawaBwana


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to me, and i know im just a slave,

24/7 means that there is a vested interest in honouring enslavement vows to my Master, thereby holding my vows to Him in earnest....throughout the deepest regions of my heart, soul, mind, and spirit.

what i do for Him in a tangible physical way is another form of showing Him my commitment to Him in all that i do........how i think, how i feel, how i respond to Him....etc

so to me...24/7 isnt about being chained and whipped every second of every hour of every day.........its about having my heart .....my mind......my soul........ my spirit in the right place.........always under Him in all...

please keep in mind...this is just my view.....doesnt mean it is the right view for you.......

what matters for me ......it is the right view ......the view my Master demands of me......

what ever view you hold dear to your heart should always be what your Master demands of you....

(or what You demand of Your slave)

< Message edited by mtumwawaBwana -- 1/14/2007 10:31:21 PM >

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RE: Definitions ?: 24/7? - 1/15/2007 9:02:23 AM   
Kondolinni


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The inherant problem with responding to a post like this lies in the very nature of what makes this lifestyle so appealing to those of us who treat it as anything more than just another excuse for kinky sex. Ie: anything goes.

 MisterCorvidae, you obviously understand the various uses of this term. I also understand that your post was not rendered in order to have someone like myself respond with standard definitions or interpretations.

Unfortunately, 24/7, like other terms we all use to various degrees and for various reasons, shall continue to be subject to individual interpretation. It is the reasons this is true that interest me. I think a much more interesting discussion would involve trying to decide, as a community, how we define our specific, intrinsic brand of nomenclature, how important defined and universally accepted definitions are, and what do we do to achieve a universal standard if we decide such is desireable.

For myself, the term; 24/7 is relevant in light of the fact that I am ultmately seeking a permanent love relationship with a submissive. When I use the term, it implies that such a relationship would be D/s or M/s inclusive every minute of our shared lives.

Like yourself, I am aware of, and, generally respectful of the limitations the vanilla world places on public displays of  the D/s or M/s dynamic. For me personally, the term suggests the mindset I want a potential candidate for my affections to have regarding the depth and intesnity of a bond between us, should one come to be developed.

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RE: Definitions ?: 24/7? - 1/16/2007 5:21:32 PM   
SlaveSubtoserve


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24/7 means to me practically speaking being in a type of  live-in relationship/marriage with Mistress where what is D/s-M/s is your constant tie whatever you may be actually doing at the time or even elsewhere---- not sure how it could really be described as 24/7 if you aren't together all the time though i guess people have the spiritual connection across the distances but......

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RE: Definitions ?: 24/7? - 1/16/2007 5:33:42 PM   
mountainpet


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My master and I were 24/7 for about a year before we lived together- we were about 700 miles apart.  To me, it doesn't have anything to do with where you reside; it is whether you are submissive all the time or not.  The alternative, in my humble opinion, is the person who turns it on and off- i.e., a weekend submissive, or a "geographic submissive", where you are submissive only when you and your dominant are together. 

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RE: Definitions ?: 24/7? - 1/16/2007 5:42:50 PM   
aSlavesLife


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I see 24/7 as literal. My slave lives with me and is available for use 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I can and have woken her from a dead sleep in order to make use of her. If she lived halfway across town, in another county, or out of state she would not be 24/7.  If she had a career in which interfered with my making use of her she would not be 24/7. If she had children that required her attention she would not be 24/7. I am not saying that my lifestyle is better than those people that have vanilla lives, children, or jobs. I am just saying that in my opinion those people are not 24/7. I have yet to see any rational reason to change that opinion, and until I do it will stand as is.
 
Someone on a different thread once mentioned something that stuck with me. She mentioned that a slave or sub could be 24/7, but not an owner or dom. I really have to agree with that. My daily routine interferes with me being able to make constant use of my slave. . I can drop what I am doing and make use of her, but responsibilities make doing so impractical and sometimes impossible. Therefore it works better for me to say that I am involved in a 24/7 relationship than to say that I am 24/7.

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