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Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 10:14:03 AM

humiliandted

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Allowing Master to use my wife as his sex slave has always excited me. However Master now wants total control of us both. Part of this control is to take my wife (on her own) on holiday with him where I know he will allow her to be used by others. She has stayed alone with master in his house for 24hrs as his slave & everything was ok, but this time it will be 7 days. The thought does excite us & really turns me on. Should I let her go?

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 10:17:01 AM

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If you have to ask strangers this question then he really isn't your 'Master' and your not submitting.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 10:25:40 AM

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I'm with the dark here. If you have to ask strangers, then you're already lost.

If he is the "Master" of you both then I guess he's in charge.

Personally, be dammed if my spouse would be going on holidays with someone else but if that is already how your relationship is functionining which it appears to be seeing as she stays with him and is used by others under his direction anyway. So what's the problem??

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 10:33:17 AM

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Think carefully about what all the possible outcomes can be in the future as the result of your choices.

Your choices you make today can change your whole future.

Sure, you might be getting your kicks out of what is going on. However, what are honestly the limits to all this? How far are you willing to go.

Look at the big picture and the directions you are slowly headed in. Step by Step... what's next? First was 24 hours, Next is 7 days, then what after that?

He wants control over you now as well? How much control are you willing to give up there sparky?

Remember you and your wife together come first.. You both got married for a reason. You made a commitment to her and her to you.

Sure having somebody own your wife and do nasty things with her part time is a bit of turn on.   However, to what ends to you want to take this one?

To the point your marriage vows become, basically worthless? It's rather hard for me or anybody to give you clear advice.

Step back and think about the BIG Picture. Look at the pattern that's starting to happen?   How much of your life and her life are you willing to give to this guy?

There's a difference between weekend, part time play and things that well lead down to greater control.

What would you think about one day, if this Master decides he wants her to move in 24/7 with him, tells you to get lost.   What if he wants both of you to move in with him?

I'm just saying here. You and Her made a commitment, that's well. How to politely say this, On par with somebody being Collared.   Just it's with wedding rings and such.

Think about you and her first.   You might want to think about Limits. Figure out those limits BEFORE Hand, not after the FACT.   Kicking yourself in the ass, if or should he claim 24/7 ownership of her and she moves in with him, is not the time.

I'm not saying that will happen. However it could happen, unless there are understood limits in place.   Keeps everybody sane and on the same playing field.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 12:11:02 PM

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Short of you owning your wife, it really isn't up to you, is it?

Is this something she wants? Would she enjoy it? Is she willing to accept the risks? Would you want to remain in a long term marriage with her after she came back?

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 12:16:51 PM

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Ask her. Be aware that you two are toys to him, not emotionally valuable. So how much vested interest does he have in even talking to her ahead of time to see if she thinks she could possibly handle this?

After all, he isn't talking to her about it or you would have mentioned her thoughts. How well do you think she will handle knowing you set her up to r*ped by multiple people, possibly coming back with life threatening diseases? Think she'll thank you for it? Or have you and him arrested for conspiracy to rape, which would be my response.

This assumes this post is for real and not just wanking material. Considering there's no reference to what she wants, that it's all done through you, I'm betting on the latter.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 1:55:25 PM

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where I know he will allow her to be used by others

Hopefully she won't bring back one of those gifts that keeps on giving. How much do you trust her master to be selective in who plays with her?

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 2:22:53 PM

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Also could be a 7 day affair that manages to become a 7 month stay at this guys house. Until you get the 3am phone call from your wife who's became a complete emotional mess and now wants to come back to you.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 3:00:21 PM

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How can you give control of your wife to your master? Unless you are your wifes dom, its up to her.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 3:01:09 PM

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I find your lack of faith disturbing.

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RE:I have to answer Yes to all your questions Giving Ma... - 6/26/2008 5:46:01 PM

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I have to answer Yes to all your questions

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:02:12 PM

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No it wont be like that. No nasty gifts. this will be very selective personal friends in his bdsm circle
I do trust her master 99%

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:07:51 PM

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now you are saying "her master" seems an odd turn of phrase can you explain?

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:09:48 PM

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i think you should be there.... i would want my husband there. i would not go without him

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:15:25 PM

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Wanking material? I'm hurt
I do agree that it excites me, & that I no doubt I will wank while she is away as I did when she stayed the 24 hrs. but apart from that this is a genuine offer we have had. This guy is articulat, very well to do. He hs mega rich & I am skint. It could be the best holiday she will ever have.
Yes she is keen to go. The decision rests with me as I am the husband at the end of the day. He respects that. It is just supposed to be a bit of fun.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:19:47 PM

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Does he have a lisp? Maybe he wants control of your life, not your wife.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:20:43 PM

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Ummm so part of the reason you are letting her do this is because HE can provide something for her you can't? I mean no disrespect but to me... that is a pretty stupid way of having a realtionship. Either that or I have read it wrong and that is possible.. haven't slept much. Anyway... OP what would you do if your wife came to you after this holiday and said " I have fallen in love with Master, and I am leaving you for him?" Where would your trust be then ??

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:23:15 PM

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I find your lack of faith disturbing.

hehe....
im so sorry....i know ive said it before....but THIS RIGHT HERE is why i love you so.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:42:52 PM

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As has been stated by others i find You are NOT focusing on the bottom line. As "once in a lifetime" chance this vaca could be, and however ubber rich this gentleman maybe is not the point.
The facts are YOUR emotional well being and that of YOUR WIFE are priceless, and You cannot forsee the emotional toll of such a "once in a lifetime" vaca.
My best unto You all.
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ORIGINAL: humiliandted

Wanking material? I'm hurt
I do agree that it excites me, & that I no doubt I will wank while she is away as I did when she stayed the 24 hrs. but apart from that this is a genuine offer we have had. This guy is articulat, very well to do. He hs mega rich & I am skint. It could be the best holiday she will ever have.
Yes she is keen to go. The decision rests with me as I am the husband at the end of the day. He respects that. It is just supposed to be a bit of fun.

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RE: Giving Master Total Control 0f My Wife - 6/26/2008 6:52:15 PM

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I sense that you have already decide what you will do.
I can tell that you will enjoy her going and being with Him for the week.
I see that you are only "asking" here to show that you,even though you are married to her, are just as much of a slave to Him as she is.
I see that it thrills you to no end that He enjoys her as much as he does and that she basks in His attention.
I see that it makes you very happy that He desires your wife so much.

I may be wrong,,yet I may be right.

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