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Hate to break the news to you. I'm an island unto myself ultimately in the end. I have my own thoughts, views, opinions and my own set of experiences. There are moments, when me and other people have things in common, and times when there are great differences.
Personal note: I've never accused anybody of being too vanilla to be involved in BDSM, even more so if they enjoy Handcuffs and scarves for play. That just tells me that they are not hardcore or extreme into Bondage. There is far more to BDSM besides Bondage alone.
Some people are here just exploring if BDSM is or is not right for them, how far they wish to take it, is so totally up to them.
It's ok to do your own thing, you don't have to become hardcore about it. It's ok to not be into extremes.
BDSM is more about what is right for you and your partner.
Hell, there are moments when somebody pops on here and makes posts about Creating Ice Hooks to shove up somebody's ass or asking questions about a few things. That well frankly I question the sanity of things. However, I am often sincerely interested in where they are coming from or got the ideas they have to begin with.
I'm not always a nice guy on here, I do have had made sincere smart ass remarks. At times a village looses and idiot or two. They come on the message boards, often to be GANG Tackled by an overwhelming majority of users. There must be a reason why so many people would honestly and sincerely gang up on other people at times.
It terms of being opened minded, we have are to an extent. We also all are rather closed minded. At times we get into heated debates with ourselves. I've learned a few things with the heated debates. It's actually made me open my mind at times. However, did not change the fact I was closed minded before getting into the debate.
Another thing, just because I can understand somebody's POV or perspective does not mean, I'm going to Adapt it as part of my way of life, or into what it is I do.
Give you a good example: Adult Babies who are into wearing Diapers. Yes, it totally turns me off, in fact sort of Squicks me out. Yes, It's a limit for me. Does nothing for my mindset. Not something I enjoy, nor will ever accept as part of my life. OK, some people are into this. I'm not. So at best I simple tolerate those who are into it.
I've actually had emails before in response to my profile, for having personally expressed.. "This Daddy ain't changing no diapers, take your Pampers and Beat it". Boo Hooo Hooo... type of email for me slamming it on my profile. Well La De Da... it's my profile and I'll honestly express myself if I want to.
I don't care if Adult Baby Girls became some strange trendy norm of BDSM land, I'm still not into Adult Babies nor seeing a pair of Diapers on somebody. Makes me want to literally turn my head away. Not a Good thing, you see.
Now all this that I have expressed, is my own personal taste and preference in regards to something. Perhaps I have just offended somebody, perhaps not. Perhaps, I'll be getting emails.. saying you were being a big bad mean asshole for slamming Adult Babies and Diapers. Perhaps, I'll be getting emails saying but you don't understand Adult Babies and Diapers.
Honestly, I don't know how many people I did or did not insult. It's not my intention to insult adult babies or those who have a thing for diapers. I'm simply expressing my own difference of tastes and my honest reaction and thoughts about it.
Now if somebody pops online here and bitches about why people don't enjoy Adult Babies or Diapers. I will be more then happy to share with them, my own personal reasons why. After all they are asking for it.
If somebody pops online and they've magical discovered a new use for the Cheese Grater out in the kitchen for abrasion play. I might raise and eyebrow for a moment. Hope that they are aware to the cause and effects of using said Evil Device. I will treat the topic seriously, since I've actually used said evil device before in my crazy past.
Now if somebody pops on here and starts talking about Meat Slicers and body parts. RED FLAG... I'm not holding back EXPRESSING to them what a Fucking Idiot they are. Trust me, I have Zero Open mind about that one.
I terms of the community, we are simply a group of people with a loosely coupled interest in basically the same thing. BDSM.
There are things that I'm into, well that I know are not for everybody, things that some people are into that are not for me. At times, we simply agree to disagree, voice ourselves. Perhaps bitch slap each other around a little. Then move onto another thread. What's ironic, we just might be in 100% agreement about things on a different thread.
I'm always happy to explain myself, my POV, and experiences with anybody. That's about the best I can do.
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