sweetwenchie
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Joined: 4/19/2006 From: Sacramento, California Status: offline
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First thing that comes to my mind is questioning whether giving up part of yourself is going to actually make you happy. i've given up part of myself in the past to please someone (okay, not a part of my anatomy, i like my pink bits where they are thank you) in the end, giving up part of myself made me anything BUT happy. If someone loves you, and wants you, they will accept you as you are. just my rambling disjointed thoughts. ~edited to add...~ i'm right there with you Christina! Far too often my ex would fall asleep with zero interest, not caring if i was begging for sex, and i'd have to... hmm... take matters into my own hands i should have run then... or when that same guy told me i couldn't give him head while he was driving anymore... LOL the scaredy cat!
< Message edited by sweetwenchie -- 6/24/2008 2:40:48 PM >
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"To make oneself an object, to make oneself passive, is a very different thing from being a passive object." - De Beauvoir "You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist." - Nietzsche
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