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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 3:03:17 PM)
Probably? I work pretty hard at avoiding entanglements. I still think of the married client where I was sorry he was a client AND sorry he was married..... what a hottie... Generally the people I have the most interest in leave me, so it's not a problem. [&:] Abandonment issues much? Why yes, thanks!

CalifChick -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 3:04:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JohnWarren It's "slut" but you'll have to settle with being the West Coast Slut as long as I'm here I am honored to share. Cali Resident West Coast Slut

lally3 -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 3:12:08 PM)
at art college this totally awesome looking guy would go out of his way to walk past me or sit next to me, if he looked at me and smiled i just panicked and moved off........ he really was stunning and i was just way too insecure about myself to give him any encouragement - looking back i think he was way too much up himself to risk asking me out and getting the no he thought would come cos i never smiled back. so probably no loss.

afterforever -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 3:15:51 PM)
I don't think anyone has ever asked me out in real life, but online sure, I generally convince myself that everyone who shows an interest in me is a mass murderer or going to run off in disgust when they see me in real life.

Sandyshores29718 -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 4:39:28 PM)
All the time. i offen find it hard to believe they are interested in me because of how i view myself, which is something im working on.

NeedingMore220 -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 4:51:17 PM)
Yes, but only because I was in a monogamous relationship at the time.

Prinsexx -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 4:58:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stella41b ... been presented with the opportunity to be with someone (for play, for a scene, for a relationship, for whatever), this someone being very attractive to you, and then talked yourself out of it or left before things could develop? If so, why? Yes. This happens far too frequently really. The reason I say no is usually for the same main reason. That the D type turns out to be married (and slow to admit it), the D rtype turns out to be with another s-type who 'doesn't need to know', the d type is looking for a third but his sub will need some work doing......variations on a theme. Sharing is a turn on but no matter how chemical the attraction, no matter how smart the Dom, no matter how attractive and persuasive I just don't do 'marrieds', I won't be used to put spice into a failing relationship but above all I will never ever cross another woman.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 6:10:34 PM)
I've been too shy on occasion to capitalize on certain opportunities. But I can't recall talking myself out of something that really was a good thing and I knew it.

HornyToadsMI -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 7:28:12 PM)
Yes, once. I was 15, he was 17 and very passionate. It freaked me out. I walked away. We started back up 4 yrs down the road.....didnt work out. Usually, I go after what I want, so when it comes to missing opportunities.....I dont let it happen. ;)

GreedyTop -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/16/2008 7:31:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Generally the people I have the most interest in leave me, so it's not a problem. [&:] Abandonment issues much? Why yes, thanks! hah. me too.

stella41b -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/17/2008 4:55:04 AM)
Thank you all for your responses.. I was just asking out of sheer curiosity.. I'm another one who's been abandoned quite a lot or let go suddenly and I reach the point when I think 'What does that other person see in me?' Usually this is something which isn't voiced or shared but lies deep within me, and though I'm getting better at it it can still colour my thinking..

TNstepsout -> RE: Have you ever...... (6/17/2008 5:37:57 AM)
Yes I have, and like others who answered, it's due to insecurities. I've actually been pretty annoyed with myself lately, so it's nice to know I'm not the only one.

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