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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 5:39:56 PM   
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Yea, I used to only date guys older than me, at least two years.  I felt a huge maturity gap between me and guys my age.  Then now that I'm getting older, more and more men who are younger than me, are mature.  Plus more of them now dont need you to support them, and I like a guy who can take care of himself, that's my definition of a man, and that's attractive.  An independent confident man is just sexy.  I take care of myself, and want someone with as much energy and zest to do stuff, we'll both beable to do stuff we enjoy.  So I guess as one gets older, only the younger will have that energy, plus more of them will be mature.  Also, maturity counts, been through a lot in life, so don't want to be with someone who is immature in the way he handles things.  Just not sexy. 

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 5:48:11 PM   
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I tend to be far more compatible with men younger than me than I am those my age or older. Both my boys are younger, Angel by 8 years, and Fox by 10. I dated older a few times and always felt like they prefered me as a trophy than a partner. I wanted to go out and do things and they would talk me out of it. Younger guys never seem to have a problem wth spending a weekend running around an amusement park or playing frisbee in the park.
Eye candy is great, but my boys have brains too, which is just the way I like it. Mature younger men, rather than older, so I can have my cake and eat it too.

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 6:24:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JulieorSarah

This is in response to a thread posted by nycc22m ... younger men and older women ... he posed the question if there were other men like him who were attracted to older women and why.

So ladies, are you attracted to younger men ... not the obvious eye candy reasons ... but for a sustained relationship .. and why?

for me i'm 48, and have always preferred older men, but i'm now discovering that for many males, once they've hit 50 or not much older, they are 'too old for ...' most activities ... those that are in their early 40's still want to live, do stuff, try new things ... am i alone?


Younger men are absolutely yummy as long as they don't have a big stick up their butts and try to act all old and stuffy.  Their appeal is that they are younger...mentally and physically.

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 6:35:41 PM   
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love them! love them! love them!   --- I eat them up.  (wicked grin) --- for all the reasons stated above:

energy
enthusiasm
stamina
curiousity
sex
looks

yep, that about sums it up....

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 6:49:30 PM   
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It's not that I don't like or refuse to meet much younger men, it's more the way they see "older" women. I don't want to be some "throw-away" experience, or to worry about when I'm going to be replaced by some hot little cutie.


My thoughts exactly.  I get the offers all the time.  The majority think we are desperate old ladies that welcome anything..and we'll "teach" them a thing or two...so we are just around until they can find someone closer to their age.  

The ones that are serious and actually do want a relationship with us are few and far between..and since there is no "detector" for these guys, I'll pass, even though I am attracted to younger before older.  Guess I'm just trying to guard the old ticker...lol

youngest I'll go is eight years...but there is an exception to every rule...LOL

come on prove me wrong guys.....LOL

edited to add:  on the flip side, a lot of guys my age or older look and act waaaay older than they are...so that is not attractive to me....I guess I am royally f*****ed...lol

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 10:17:42 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JulieorSarah

This is in response to a thread posted by nycc22m ... younger men and older women ... he posed the question if there were other men like him who were attracted to older women and why.

So ladies, are you attracted to younger men ... not the obvious eye candy reasons ... but for a sustained relationship .. and why?

for me i'm 48, and have always preferred older men, but i'm now discovering that for many males, once they've hit 50 or not much older, they are 'too old for ...' most activities ... those that are in their early 40's still want to live, do stuff, try new things ... am i alone?


Well, I certainly can't speak for women on this subject....however....might I suggest a cuckold ?

They're fabulous pets, they don't tend to get cold in the winter...and frankly, while I'm not entirely certain of their miles per gallon....I can most absolutely attest to their efficiency

(And I'm informed they always put the seat down!)



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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 10:22:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JulieorSarah

This is in response to a thread posted by nycc22m ... younger men and older women ... he posed the question if there were other men like him who were attracted to older women and why.

So ladies, are you attracted to younger men ... not the obvious eye candy reasons ... but for a sustained relationship .. and why?

for me i'm 48, and have always preferred older men, but i'm now discovering that for many males, once they've hit 50 or not much older, they are 'too old for ...' most activities ... those that are in their early 40's still want to live, do stuff, try new things ... am i alone?


Man, i must be meeting a whole different group of Doms than the Op.  All of Them have been about 50, and all of Them have been quite able to enjoy 'most activities', unless by that you mean bear wrestling or s'thing.
 
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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 10:27:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

quote:

ORIGINAL: JulieorSarah

This is in response to a thread posted by nycc22m ... younger men and older women ... he posed the question if there were other men like him who were attracted to older women and why.

So ladies, are you attracted to younger men ... not the obvious eye candy reasons ... but for a sustained relationship .. and why?

for me i'm 48, and have always preferred older men, but i'm now discovering that for many males, once they've hit 50 or not much older, they are 'too old for ...' most activities ... those that are in their early 40's still want to live, do stuff, try new things ... am i alone?


Man, i must be meeting a whole different group of Doms than the Op.  All of Them have been about 50, and all of Them have been quite able to enjoy 'most activities', unless by that you mean bear wrestling or s'thing.
 
pinksugarsub


(Hey...if it increased the odds of me getting laid...at 49....I'd be in for some bear wrestling!)


Hell....I'd even go for some double cheeseburger wrestling, or some turning left in a no turn lane....I live on the edge baby.....you can't fuck with me....I'm in it for results......



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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 10:46:06 PM   
pinksugarsub


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ORIGINAL: Griswold

quote:

ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

quote:

ORIGINAL: JulieorSarah

This is in response to a thread posted by nycc22m ... younger men and older women ... he posed the question if there were other men like him who were attracted to older women and why.

So ladies, are you attracted to younger men ... not the obvious eye candy reasons ... but for a sustained relationship .. and why?

for me i'm 48, and have always preferred older men, but i'm now discovering that for many males, once they've hit 50 or not much older, they are 'too old for ...' most activities ... those that are in their early 40's still want to live, do stuff, try new things ... am i alone?


Man, i must be meeting a whole different group of Doms than the Op.  All of Them have been about 50, and all of Them have been quite able to enjoy 'most activities', unless by that you mean bear wrestling or s'thing.
 
pinksugarsub


(Hey...if it increased the odds of me getting laid...at 49....I'd be in for some bear wrestling!)


Hell....I'd even go for some double cheeseburger wrestling, or some turning left in a no turn lane....I live on the edge baby.....you can't fuck with me....I'm in it for results......




LOL.  Gris, if Ya wanna increase Yr chances of 'getting laid' (Man, i love Your vocabulary, lol) there are other things You can do that will increase Yr chances.
 
Certain things about a Man make me all gooey...lmao.

1. Dominant.

2. Big Men. i am 5ft7in, and i love a Man to cuddle me on His lap.

3. Intelligence and curiosity.

4. Wit.

5. Man smells. (All four; 1st; out of the shower; 2nd, dressed for work; 3rd, home from work; 4th, sexually aroused. Not every Man smells good.)

6. Compassion.

7. Kindness.

8. Desires me.

9. Good manners.

10. Uniforms (cops; firemen, garbage men, UPS guys, etc, etc.).

11. Desires His woman.

12. Drives well.

13. Big hands with long fingers (coarse or smooth).

14. Accents.

15. Does well at His job.

16. Dresses well for work (stockbroker; construction worker, etc.).

17. Mowing the lawn (but riding mowers do not count.)

18. Man Fur.


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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/10/2008 11:36:06 PM   
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Pinksugar's "list is almost like a questionnaire. Und so, in the spirit of self-revelatory inventory-taking, I'll treat it as such. I'll just give the "answers".

1. Yeah, I guess, whatever you say, dear.
2. 6 feets. 36 waist jeans. 9-1/2 shoe. Hands perfect for FF.
3. Almost have my "times" tables figured out. After that, division! Yay! for me!    Wonder how all this stuff works, and why I need it, though.
4. Half there.
5. Can't tell. I'm always upwind of myself.
6. I even give spare change to Republican panhandlers. I know they'll just go spend it in airport restrooms, though.
7. I'll help old Republicans find the airport bathrooms. That's kind, right?
8. Pic first.
9. I never pick my nose until after the dessert course.
10. Birthday suit.
11. Which one?
12. Yep, me and my trusty old trike are accident-free.
13. Just how stretched-out ARE you?
14. Ja, natürlich.
15. What is this "job"?
16. What is this "work"?
17. You mean mowing my weed patch? Expert at that.
18. I'm a regular Wookie, I am.

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/11/2008 1:52:23 AM   
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Thank you one and all

You've assisted me with my dilemma greatly ... and my comment about those over 50 being to old for most activities, i wasn't even thinking of the bedroom/play.  Just living and being active ... trying new things ...

So many of you really considered your answer, and there is no better perspective in these situations than a truly subjective one.

You've opened my eyes. I've always been rather age-ist ... but now i'm expanding my 'limit' in both directions ...

Who needs a shrink, counsellor, etc when there's such a wondeful resource as this ...

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/11/2008 8:04:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

LOL.  Gris, if Ya wanna increase Yr chances of 'getting laid' (Man, i love Your vocabulary, lol) there are other things You can do that will increase Yr chances.
 
Certain things about a Man make me all gooey...lmao.

1. Dominant.

2. Big Men. i am 5ft7in, and i love a Man to cuddle me on His lap.

3. Intelligence and curiosity.

4. Wit.

5. Man smells. (All four; 1st; out of the shower; 2nd, dressed for work; 3rd, home from work; 4th, sexually aroused. Not every Man smells good.)

6. Compassion.

7. Kindness.

8. Desires me.

9. Good manners.

10. Uniforms (cops; firemen, garbage men, UPS guys, etc, etc.).

11. Desires His woman.

12. Drives well.

13. Big hands with long fingers (coarse or smooth).

14. Accents.

15. Does well at His job.

16. Dresses well for work (stockbroker; construction worker, etc.).

17. Mowing the lawn (but riding mowers do not count.)

18. Man Fur.


Copyright 2008

pinksugarsub
 


(Hmmmmm....seems like cheeseburger wrestling would be easier).

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/11/2008 9:22:59 AM   
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um Gris...does the winner of the cheeseburger wrestling get all the cheeseburgers?  can i have mine with mayo and tomatoes on a sourdough bun?

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/11/2008 3:17:58 PM   
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um Gris...does the winner of the cheeseburger wrestling get all the cheeseburgers?  can i have mine with mayo and tomatoes on a sourdough bun?


Well....tha'ts the funny thing about wrestling for cheeseburgers with Gris....see....I get all the cheeseburgers....and I get to watch all the wrestling.

(It's a pretty sweet little gig, if I do say so m'sef :) )

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/11/2008 3:20:24 PM   
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now, how are you going to watch the wrestling if you're wrestling with me huh?

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/11/2008 3:31:44 PM   
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now, how are you going to watch the wrestling if you're wrestling with me huh?


Easy schmeasy....I just hand you a cheeseburger, tell you to cuddle up on the couch....'cause "we go'n watch dem two chics over there now".

(Gotta have a working plan at all times :) )

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RE: Older Woman and Younger Men - 6/12/2008 4:34:36 AM   
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Pinksugar's "list is almost like a questionnaire. Und so, in the spirit of self-revelatory inventory-taking, I'll treat it as such. I'll just give the "answers".

1. Yeah, I guess, whatever you say, dear.
2. 6 feets. 36 waist jeans. 9-1/2 shoe. Hands perfect for FF.
3. Almost have my "times" tables figured out. After that, division! Yay! for me!    Wonder how all this stuff works, and why I need it, though.
4. Half there.
5. Can't tell. I'm always upwind of myself.
6. I even give spare change to Republican panhandlers. I know they'll just go spend it in airport restrooms, though.
7. I'll help old Republicans find the airport bathrooms. That's kind, right?
8. Pic first.
9. I never pick my nose until after the dessert course.
10. Birthday suit.
11. Which one?
12. Yep, me and my trusty old trike are accident-free.
13. Just how stretched-out ARE you?
14. Ja, natürlich.
15. What is this "job"?
16. What is this "work"?
17. You mean mowing my weed patch? Expert at that.
18. I'm a regular Wookie, I am.

Did I pass?



ROFLMAO.
 
Hippiekinkster, sounds like You'd be well-able to make me very gooey...but that Man Smell thing is non-negotiable...so i can't give You a definate 'yes' yet.
 
i dun know what shoe sizes mean in Men's shoes.  But 'big feet' are not a requirement, lol.
 
The thing about hands is NOT about fisting or anything, lol.  You are a total perv to jump to that conclusion!
 
*hugs*
 
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