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Tantriqu -> RE: Questions to Ask at the Onset of a Sexual Relationship (6/8/2008 9:51:53 AM)
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Good grief! I agree, the questions should be about STD test results and the last time he had sex with someone else in the room. quote:
ORIGINAL: fungasm F'r instance: *Do you like fingers in your ass? Never had a man who didn't; a good way to start is just stroking between his ass cheeks when his knees are spread. Eyes rolling back and ass pushing back are good indicators; no words required. *Do you like anything else in your ass? Never had a man who didn't; *Do you like like to have anal sex? Never had a man who didn't dream about a strapon. * Do you like your nipples kissed? Never had a man who didn't; *Do you like nipple clamps? Never had a man who didn't; *Do you like clothes pins? I prefer something with variable pressure. *Uncirmcumsized: pull back the foreskin and/or cover the tip? Wouldn't consider a man not circumsised, so that's easy. *Clit question: suck, lick and/or kiss? Never had a man who didn't BEG for same. *Blindfolds? Never had a man who didn't. *Do you want to be tied up? Never had a man who didn't, but one of the things that is discussed, usually non-verbally with a bunch of silk ties, velcro bands and a wicked glint in My eye, followed by a swallow, a nod and an erection on his part. *Do you want to tie me up? Would never, ever, come up in conversation let alone action. *Do you like giving spankings? Would never, ever, come up in conversation let alone action. *Do you like being spanked? Never had a man who didn't. *Do you usually need more lubrication? I always use plenty on and in him, never had any complaints or requests for more. *Does twisting, groping or pulling your breasts hurt? Never had a man who didn't like his pecs very deeply massaged. *After sex: talking/no talking? Easy; except for some panting compliments, if they've done their job properly, I'm asleep in seconds. *How do you feel about being given directions during sex? Never had a man who didn't love obeying: oooh, harder, gentler, there, there, there, don't stop. Easy. So there are very few things on your list that require verbal communication between a Domme and a good straight or sub man, although worded correctly and said in a low whisper to a bound and blindfolded man, they can be VERY sexy.
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