popeye1250
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ORIGINAL: hizgeorgiapeach You would think so, Level, but I have to consider the fact that I will consistantly loose money - money which isn't Mine, it's my dad's retirement which is paying a huge chunk of his nursing home and medical costs - until the market starts to pull out, at least 2 to 5 years down the road. If I leave it in stocks for the next year, at the current rate and with a deepening recession/imminent depression, it will lose so much value that it won't last TO start climbing again, since it IS being used to keep dad's bills paid since his stroke. If it were money set aside for MY retirement, which won't be for another 20 years (presuming civilization lasts that long lol) I would leave it in there to wait it out. Since it's dad's retirement, and my Larger obligation to him is to ensure that it actually lasts through the 18 to 24 months that he Might still have alive... it's a different story. Some might argue that if I want to ensure myself an inheritance, I'll leave it in to ride... but I have an obligation to him (both ethical and Legal) to see to it that his bills remain as caught up as possible until he no longer has any assets that Can be used to keep him out of debt. Oh so fun, when your parents stop being your parents and become your pseudo children... Georgiapeach, I know what you're going through. My mother got sick in '91 and lingered for 18 months. She had the assets to remain at home. I was the Guardian, hospice people, nurses, two "clean-up" ladies, I cooked for everyone, dealt with lawyer, doctors, nurses, stockbroker, accountant. My 4 siblings were useless! They had their own lives and had no time to help out. She died on Dec 21st '93. The very next day they found my stepfather dead in his condo. Double funeral. I of course had to make the funeral and church arrangements. I was the Executor for *both* estates. Probate, more stockbroker, accountant, lawyers, tax guy. One brother stole $30k from her; ATM card, court and restraining order. Phone calls from my siblings, "where's my money!" I had to handle both estates at the same time and was under the probate gun which had to be settled in 9 months in Mass. It went on for two years after they died. Bagloads and boxloads of paperwork! I never had the time to even greive. I had to sell a house and condo. Get various property appraised. Two of my brothers I don't talk to anymore. I hope they both get hit by a truck and die a painfull death. I won't be at their funerals. No good , lazy theiving bastards. Fun being the responsable one isn't it? Are you the eldest too? P.S. *HUGS*
< Message edited by popeye1250 -- 6/6/2008 9:47:18 PM >
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