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RE: Opposite of Vanilla - 6/7/2008 12:24:26 AM

L8bloomer

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Gee, all these food associations are makin' me hungry! *grin*

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RE: Opposite of Vanilla - 6/7/2008 12:27:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

I like the term conservative and non-conservative. The term traditional, however has a different connotation in my mind! Coming from a Southern Baptist upbringing, where women were expected to submit themeselves to their husbands, unto the lord - well to me, Traditional translates to D/s!

Well, i'm a conservative and i'm kinky and i'm in a M/s relationship. i was also raised a Southern Baptist but, as an adult, i converted to Methodist. And, like i said, "Of course, those terms probably aren't totally accurate, either..."

i believe every relationship has one partner who is more Dominant than the other, even if they're 'vanilla'. Sometimes, it's the wife who 'wears the pants' in the family. Marriages that are based on a "traditional male head of household" structure have a D/s character but, without the BD/SM. Christian Domestic Discipline relationships are based on those biblical "traditions" of the husband being Dominant over the wife.

These are just general terms, any way, since there are really no absolute lines between "vanilla" and "non-vanilla". It's rarely, if ever, all either/or. There is a whole lot of crossover. BD/SM couples are "vanilla", in many ways and, "vanilla" couples partake in, at least mild, forms of BS/SM, in their sex life.

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10 years ago, I would have said that anything that was kinky was the opposite of Vanilla. Now, I tend to think of Vanilla the way I do about words like sane and normal. Vanilla (Sane/Normal) is what a person is until you REALLY get to know them.

Absolutely!! The kink is in there, somewhere. It's just a matter of exposing it.......

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RE: Opposite of Vanilla - 6/7/2008 8:20:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: Skully7000

Lemon: after camp...I fully understand what you mean by that...

as for seeing me on the boards? where have you been? I've been on here fairly activly for almost a year now. but I'm still glad because it will be interesting to bounce ideas off each other:)

Oh I read them alot but don't always post much. Yes it will be fun to bounce things off each other. Glad to know that after being around us at Camp you get what being a Lemon means. We're a unique little family that's for sure.

You know I think in NYC most everyone is alternative somehow in someway .. so opposite of vanilla would be whatever the person who IS vanilla's opposite :) Then again is anyone truly vanilla?

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RE: Opposite of Vanilla - 6/7/2008 1:03:41 PM

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The most straightforward opposite of "vanilla" is probably "kinky". I would say "perverted", but for some inexplicable reason people have been known to get offended when I describe them this way - they don't seem to realise that I mean it as a compliment!

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RE: Opposite of Vanilla - 6/7/2008 5:41:31 PM

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Opposite of vanilla:

Cayenne pepper!

It adds zest to foods much like kink provides zest for life.

It has a total effect on the circulation and performs all the main actions required of a natural circulatory remedy. It prevents stickiness of blood platelets, considerably reducing the tendency to clot and has a resolving action on existent thrombosis. This is remarkable in view of the fact that it rapidly stops internal and external hemorrhage. It cleans the blood vessels making long term use or regular courses a rejuvenate of the circulation. It can have a wonderful effect on brain clarity and memory, especially for the elderly by its normalizing effect on the circulation to that most vital organ!

It has the capability to abort some types of heart attack and angina.

.It is actually good for the stomach. Indigestion, poor digestion and even stomach ulcers are all improved or rectified.

All in all, a good way to explain the benefits our our chosen lifestyles on our satisfaction and life.

(OK, it might be a stretch)

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RE: Opposite of Vanilla - 6/8/2008 6:23:09 AM

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I eat at Chinese buffets, so like your blonde friend, I too thought chocolate when asked the opposite of vanilla.. Love that soft serve! lol

Maybe its cuz I too am blonde. Maybe its cuz I think Ice Cream. Vanilla on one end chocolate on the other and Ben and Jerrys in between. So I dont see why the women seemed ditzy for that answer. I've got a Masters degree for crying out loud! lololololol

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