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RE: Do you have any degree of control over your subspace? - 6/3/2008 9:40:46 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: Prismfire
Or I can say that you and I have differing beliefs and that that is ok, Life would be way to boring if we all believed the exact same thing :) I enjoy challenging that which I believe with valid reasons cross questioning and tapping into how people experience things. It is what allows me to grow.

Sure. But saying you believe I'm a heterosexual when I know I'm a bisexual doesn't make much sense. Saying you believe what I experience as subspace is exactly the same as what I experience as trance all the time when I know it isn't what I experience doesn't make much sense either.

Feel free to keep believing it if you want, but it's not really a great or solid belief.

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RE: Do you have any degree of control over your subspace? - 6/3/2008 11:38:45 PM

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This is kind of a spin off of the "How do you know it's subspace?" thread on the ask a submissive board. I know the techniques I use to help myself get there and I am curious to know what kinds of techniques work for others. Are there things that you consciously do
to help get yourself there? Is there a well travelled and familiar path that you follow? Can you "fight off" subspace if you don't want to really go...say if you were playing with someone you don't know as well?

My Master likes me there. For me, getting there is a complete giving over to his control and letting myself go. I'm not allowed to hold back. I'm not allowed to try to retain control. And because he loves to see me in this place we call subspace, he guides me right there. I can do or say some of the goofiest things while there, and it cracks him up. I also portray a lot of raw honesty while I'm slurring out my sentiments while there. He says it's rather poetic to him.

So do I have any control at all about going there? Nope, none. He leads, I follow, and there I end up. Sometimes he will abruptly yank me right out, which is really hard on me. Sometimes he will ease me in for a gentle landing, and other times he'll just let me hang out there awhile. But as with everything I do, he decides.

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RE: Do you have any degree of control over your subspace? - 6/4/2008 12:00:38 AM

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I'll translate this over to "non-ordinary reality" for me. I can control, to a very large extent, whether I go there or not AND, to a certain extent, I can control what I do there. This is because non-ordinary reality is part of my spiritual practice. It's like meditation...the more you do it mindfully, the more you can control, or not control, as you see fit. Often, I ask a certain guardian to help me with something, but give the control over as to how and what they show me.

I'll have to admit, though, it's REALLY hard to NOT go there when the orgasm is particularly strong and good. It's actually painful to cut that off quickly, but I can do it.

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