harleygirl72
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I myself have a problem with this, not just when I am being submissive but as a Domme. It isn’t a matter of being stubborn, but usually a deeper underlying problem. One of my problems was I was told my teeth were in the way. That made me very insecure.
Also, I had a lover that smoked and that bothered me. Taste was a problem not with just the smoker, but with one that didn’t. I had an ex help me with this. He changed his eating and drinking habits for a week. He cut out the sodas, the junk food, and ate fruits, veggies, and drank lots of water. I could swallow then. The taste was different. Help her and praise her. Being punished for something is going to make her more and more uncomfortable with doing the act you desire.
Also, from a totally female side, I found it easier and more rewarding if a guy is doing me as I do him at the same time. It takes the mind of what you are doing and the more pleasure you get the more you give.
Good luck you have someone willing and truly wanting to please, don’t let this one thing hamper you or her. 
< Message edited by harleygirl72 -- 10/28/2005 12:53:04 PM >
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!! But, if he can get her to enjoy it, it will be easier for her to obey.
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