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RE: Help a dazed and confused under-20 sub. - 5/29/2008 3:50:29 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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As long as you don't let your guilt keep you from communicating the full truth and keeping to the boundaries you need for yourself (whatever they may or may not be) then it's not really a problem.

My partner is 44 and I have no hope of stopping him from experiencing guilt every time he's decided he's "denied" me of something. But we've come a long way in not allowing that guilt to THEN control his actions and reactions.

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RE: Help a dazed and confused under-20 sub. - 5/29/2008 6:10:04 PM

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Look at it this way - if your dom damages you, then he won't be able to play with his toy - and most doms i know would be very put-out by this. Communicating problems to him will stop damage from occuring, and keep him happy. ...and i was one of the ones who didn't realise you were a male - *feeling very silly* - my only defense is that most teenage boys aren't very good at expressing themselves about feelings and emotions. My bad.

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RE: Help a dazed and confused under-20 sub. - 5/29/2008 8:25:14 PM

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2 words slow down

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