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hiswetness -> RE: How would you define the role of a Daddy Dom? (5/29/2008 6:01:55 PM)
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i would like to respond to Leatherist's comment about a Daddy Dom being an enabler. My experience with my Daddy is quite the opposite. As a matter of fact my Daddy is the first man in my life to tell me no and mean it. i have been quite spoiled. i have twisted the men in my life around and always got my way. My father (my biological parent), never told me no and if he did i would cry and get my way. i have always gotten by in life flirting and batting my eyes and having men give me what i want. i have always used my looks and personality to my advantage. i am an independent woman, my Daddy embraces this part of me and encourages it. i am a professional and i do very well in a male dominated profession in which the only other woman in my office is my asst, in a office of over 50 people. i thrive in my field, i have the respect of my peers in my field. My Daddy does not enable me in anyway and does not allow me to pout, cry or talk him out of anything. In fact he gives me the discipline and makes me face the consequences of my actions. He has given me what i always wanted...a man i do not have wrapped around my finger. So this would not apply to my Daddy. i would agree some Daddy's do have the knight in shining armour complex and want to rescue and save their little girls. i am not someone who needs this. i have craved a man who would tell me no and now i finally have him.
In response to MstrObjectmaker: i do have sex with my Daddy...as much and as often as he will allow. It is not age play. i am 42 and he is 51. It is more of a softer way to approach me. He is my Daddy and my Master. Daddy is his soft side and Master is the strict, firm side of him. i can tell by his tone of voice, the way he carries himself and the look in his eyes when he is in "Daddy mode" or "Master mode". He takes me to sub space quite often when we have sessions, he likes to describe it as Master takes me there and Daddy brings me back. i must say this fits for us. It doesn't for everyone. i would also like to say we (my Daddy and i) dont allow others to define us or our relationship. i think you make your relationship what you want it to be.
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