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Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 12:54:01 AM   
sirjohn666


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Status: offline 		Ive recently been told of a hot wax torture which i wish to try on my sub, it involves opening of the anus with a speculum and then pouring hot wax into the open rectum, has anybody ever tried this, advice needed please plus would the wax expel easily etc.
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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 12:56:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		This just doesn't sound like the safest thing to do, IMO.  I'm sure someone else with better experience can give you better advice than me.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 1:22:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

This just doesn't sound like the safest thing to do, IMO.  I'm sure someone else with better experience can give you better advice than me.


On top this advice and, having never actually done this so hopefully someone else can provide better advice...

Since you are pouring into the body and around some fairly delicate tissues, I'd suggest dropping some of the melted wax onto the inside of your wrist exactly the same as you might do to check the temp. of a bottle of milk before feeding it to a baby. If you wouldn't want in you, don't put it in her.

All things considered, I'd suggest using warm water in enemas and forget the wax completely.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 4:16:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		the tissues of the rectum are very vascular and thin it doesn't take much to damage them even during medical procedures it gets damaged unintentionally. if you are serious on doing this consult a gastrointeroligist and get the facts from a licensed MD.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 4:56:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		My advise would also to not attempt this due to the delicacy of internal tissue. Having friends in the medical field one is amazed at some of the cases coming into the ER. Appearing to be people dabbling in BDSM with no clue what they are doing.

Just my $.02 cents.


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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 5:51:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		MrDom, I dont believe we have met *sticks a hand out* excellent advice along with everyone else. I love the sig line BTW


My girl a surgtech that almost has to laugh at some of the idiots that dabble in SM with no advice from experienced people.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 6:12:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		If i had a pound for every daft idea that someone thought of and posted about i would be a wealthy woman indeed.

Having had my arse waxed along with my other pink bits, and a long association with wax play of all kinds i would never, ever recommend you try this, not unless you want to explain to a doctor just how your sub came by their strange injuries.

You have put one thing, speculum, with another, wax, and thought you had come up with a ripping new kink, and that's exactly what it would be, ripping. Apart from the damage to the tissues on the way in have you given any thought to the exit damage an irregular shaped piece of set wax is going to make? Just what were you thinking, that the wax would form into a nice turdy log shape and slip right out?

Well, it's the colon muscles that form excreta into a form that exits the body without damage, and to think you could withdraw a solid and very convoluted wax object out of someone without damage shows just how little thought you and all those who come up with such wheezes put into this.

i could call you a prat, but somehow i don't think it would do any good, so i won't.


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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 6:44:37 AM   
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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 6:52:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Looks like you got some really good advice here and I hope you listen.

Before going into any extreme forms of play, it is best to know all you can about the body and the medium you are using.

You could just do a "mind bender"...
have the hot wax in view but use warm water (like the enema was suggested)

Also, I'd not use the speculum, too much chance of tearing the tissue.

Play safe
Lady Jag

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 7:26:05 AM   
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never knowing who to cling to when the pain set in."

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Why yes, the oozing pus from the festering burn wounds should expel
the wax nicely.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 7:31:04 AM   
sirjohn666


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Status: offline 		Many thanks for the replies so far and i thank all those that have commented so far, i do have many uses for my subs back passage, but i think the idea and advice so far from internal waxing is a bad idea, but i still welcome advice and possible ideas.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 7:41:50 AM   
StrangerThan


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Status: offline 		Think it's a bad idea? You could try stretching your own ass and filling it full of hot wax first. 

I'm sure that would lend a unique perspective on the event. And besides, when she took you to the doctor, at least he wouldn't have two people standing in front of him trying to explain it. 

Silver lining everywhere there. 

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 12:42:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Try it on your self first, then you decide.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 2:38:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sirjohn666,
It would take a lot to convince me that this activitity is a safe and sane one.

You mention it was something you were recently told about?  Have you discussed this at great detail with the person that told you about this?  Do they or have they any experience with this activitity?

Some activities might sound great to try, however somethings are rooted deep in fantasy compared to reality.

Personally if a submissive expressed an interest in this, I might use their ass for a candle holder, while explaining to them the reality that NO I'm never gonna fill thier ass up with hot wax.

I might perhaps make them think it's really happening, perhaps with some nice warm water or some other trick.   The whole mind fuck factor, where what is really happening and what they think is happening is two different things.



 



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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 4:03:10 PM   
cutefreckles


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Status: offline 		Some of the responses are cracking me up. And as a nurse I have to agree with everyone that this sounds like a bad idea. The ER nurses would be talking about you guys for months. That said, if you both are aware of the likely consequences and both are consenting, who are we to judge. To each their own.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 4:21:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Here's how I decide if it's something I want to do to someone else's ass:

1) Would I be willing to have this done to my own ass?

2) The lining of the mouth is similar to that of the colon... If I did this to my mouth, would I incur damage there?

Try pouring wax into your mouth. Hold it there until it sets. Get back to us with your findings.

I've used a sub as a human candleabra before, tying her into an inverted position, with a taper candle in her anus. (especially drippy ones work well for this) but the wax cools as it moves down the length of the candle, and never actually entered her. Depending on how deep you intend this wax to penetrate, should it get past the colon and into the large intestine, that organ has a tissue consistency similar to wet paper towels. Should you rupture it, peritonitis (sp?) will be the result.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 4:31:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Being in the medical field.....not a good idea.  You can really do alot of damage. 

Panthera- great mindfuck idea. Keep the hot wax in sight but then use warm water.  i know that would make me freak out.

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 4:33:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		<spews Her martini>-----good gawd chia, you need a life.
 


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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 4:41:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MladyHathor

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Anybody got a light?

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RE: Hot wax advice - 5/25/2008 11:20:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sirjohn666

Ive recently been told of a hot wax torture which i wish to try on my sub, it involves opening of the anus with a speculum and then pouring hot wax into the open rectum, has anybody ever tried this, advice needed please plus would the wax expel easily etc.


Well, first I'd suggest you use a speculum designed specifically for the anus. JT's stockroom has a nice one for about 40 bucks. Second, I'd insert a condom into the anus to capture the fluids and last, I'd avoid hot wax because of the melting point and use something which simulates hot wax but at a much lower temperature. Maybe some warmed up Astroglide or something like that instead then if the condom bursts something is going into your ass which is actually okay being in your ass. Also, I'd be prepared to do a cool water enema flush just in case. If your liquid isn't too hot, it sounds very doable to me.

Personally, I'd rather just get figged but I'm all organic and stuff.

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