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lally3 -> less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 1:21:54 AM)

hi

does anyone know of any mildly kinky sites for vanilla women with mildly subbie, kinky needs.  i think this place probably would be too much and the same for bondage and alt.  i have two girlfriends, both looking for slightly more than vanilla but probably not full on BDSM.  one is married and wants to zing up sex with her husband and one is single.  something gently introductive, there must be somewhere.

thanks in advance.




missturbation -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 5:30:54 AM)

Have you tried informedconsent.co.uk
Its a lot tamer then here. [:D]




daddysliloneds -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 7:41:47 AM)

they could buy a book and read it with their husbands.  it's  by gloria brahms and called :  " the common sense guide of kinky sex"




SirDominic -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 9:27:32 AM)

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cantilena -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 10:38:57 AM)

It's a mixed bag, but www.takeninhand.com might have some articles of interest for mild sub reading.





faerytattoodgirl -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 10:44:23 AM)

quote:

i have two girlfriends,


are either of them gay and single?




lally3 -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 1:24:18 PM)

Have you tried informedconsent.co.uk
Its a lot tamer then here. [:D]

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erm, youre joking right[sm=jaw.gif] - !  some of the guys on there nearly put me off - and im a dedicated perv. xxxx




lally3 -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 1:30:46 PM)

.. fraid not faery, both straight.

thanks for suggestions guys. xx




califsue -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 4:32:37 PM)

i don't know if this is tame enough

http://groups.msn.com/NightsongDsSanctuary




SimplyMichael -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/24/2008 4:40:58 PM)

I don't know about fluffy websites but Midori's new book "the wild side of sex" is a great book.




Prinsexx -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/25/2008 5:06:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Have you tried informedconsent.co.uk
Its a lot tamer then here. [:D]

I agree. Informed consent just doesn't work for me.




missturbation -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/25/2008 11:07:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lally3

Have you tried informedconsent.co.uk
Its a lot tamer then here. [:D]

_____________________________

erm, youre joking right[sm=jaw.gif] - !  some of the guys on there nearly put me off - and im a dedicated perv. xxxx



Nope i wasn't [:D]
I found it pretty much not to my taste but only because it wasnt extreme enough [;)]




sasseeNshy -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/25/2008 11:15:27 AM)

I'm not sure if this would be something your friends would be looking for, but wifelovers.com offers some pic posting/sharing a personals section, vid clips and discussion board with everything from sharing couples to singles and everything in between.  It is mild (at times) but perhaps a great introduction into "opening up and exploring".......




jackriddle -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/29/2008 3:24:27 AM)

I personally agree that takeninhand is a great site for beginners. However, it is a 24/7 kind of DD dynamic that may not fit everyone, and especially not those just looking for "bedroom fun". But for someone wanting to explore a PE dynamic based on love, respect and LTR, yes, that is really the best start up point that I could imagine.

Also a good tool to breach the subject with a vanilla bf/husband.




ViceVersa -> RE: less is more for vanilla friends. (5/29/2008 4:48:16 AM)

You might check into the Erotic Challenge. They currently have 7 different challenges going on, plus the Challenge Archives (listed at the bottom of The Challenges page). I haven't tried them, but many look interesting, doable and non-threatening for non-kinksters.

Vice




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