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CelticPrince -> RE: Has "submissive become a misnomer? (5/27/2008 5:51:17 PM)

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Perhaps looking at the word submissive in a wider light is the key. There are those folk who naturally prefer, want or crave to follow orders and have a set routing to follow. This makes them happy and secure. If they then focus this submissiveness on one person or a small group of people such as a home we start to see the submissivres in the D/s and M/s arena. In this simplifies example, I am taking a slave as being a submissive first and then by the terms of her submission and dynamics into which she wished to enter she becomes a consensual slave. So no I see no weakening in the term submissive as it describes the mental, emotional and personality of a group of people many of which are mundane folk and non kinky.


IronBear,

tis a broad brush that you lay on the canvas / thanks for your input.

CP




CelticPrince -> RE: Has "submissive become a misnomer? (5/27/2008 5:54:05 PM)

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Why is it the only 'twue' female submissive skill is said to be cock sucking?


Des,

Roars with laugther / thanks I needed that!

On the other spectrum however, it is an asset that makes you so more important then simply giving head on demand.



CP




CelticPrince -> RE: Has "submissive become a misnomer? (5/27/2008 5:58:14 PM)

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The question in the topic was, "Has "submissive become a misnomer?"

Perhaps to some extent it always was.


Padriag

Grins, Well having personally roamed the hills and vallys and town of Ireland, I can appreciate that premise

CP




VMistressV -> RE: Has "submissive become a misnomer? (5/27/2008 10:42:52 PM)

I generally use submissive as a general term. While designating specifics where necessary, such as slaves.




slavegirljoy -> RE: Has "submissive become a misnomer? (5/28/2008 6:59:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

I generally use submissive as a general term. While designating specifics where necessary, such as slaves.

"Slave" is a very generic term, too, even within the context of BD/SM.  Personally, i prefer to use the term, "Voluntary Erotic Servant", to describe myself.  But, that's not listed as an option on the pulldown list on CM  And, to my Master, i am His property and His slave.  Of course, He and i both understand what that means, within our particular relationship.
 
Words are just tools to help reach a better understanding.  Relying on a single word to do that isn't always wise. 
 
joy
Owned servant of Master David





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