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Kitte9 -> Thought Provoking (5/21/2008 9:43:51 PM)
I am sure that the Ladies here have been asked and have answered thousands of questions from almost as many people. What one, or ones, made you think about your answer the most?

chamberqueen -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/22/2008 10:58:26 AM)
I am most likely to answer someone who notices something specific in my profile and comments on it, perhaps asking a question about it. I prefer answering questions to someone ready to drool at my feet any day of the week.

LadyPact -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/22/2008 12:05:51 PM)
Good to see you again, Kitte. It's an interesting question. I wanted to give Myself a few minutes to think about it, as I didn't want to feel colored by certain posts that I've made lately. I've almost felt like this has been 'meet LP' week. Seriously, I'd have to say that it would be those questions relative to My poly family, how we got here, and the way things work for us. That's really the simple answer, but it involves a lot of things. All kind of topics from 'is there love in a D/s relationship' to 'how does everyone get enough individual time' to 'can poly really work'. It's those, more, and all kinds of things inbetween. Of course, these things also relate to things like Me style of domination, how I feel about participating publicly in the lifestyle, and how I see Myself as a human being first, rather than just a Dominant. I do what I can to answer questions as honestly as I can, whether it be here or on the other side.

darchChylde -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/22/2008 3:57:32 PM)
not being a dominant or (let me check... ummm, nope; i has boy partz) a woman, i'll throw in my own answer The ones that i tend to be most careful about answering are, similarly to LP above; those emails i get asking about how polyamorous family works and how i deal with being polyamorous myself. Even more specifically; how do i, as a man raised to and leaning towards a monogamous lifestyle, handle being the subserviant male in our poly family. Edited to add: i tend to lean quite heavily on the negative or risky aspects of polyamory in my answers. It's a hard path i walk, and while i don't do so alone; i don't like the idea of sugar-coating the difficulties. Going into a polyamorous situation that eventually breaks down doesn't hurt just one person but the entire family, and i take that very seriously; considering it my responsibility to point out what pitfalls i can. along with the bright and cheery parts.

Vendaval -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/22/2008 4:27:28 PM)
Some of the more open-ended questions are - "Why do you like this?" "Are you dominant in all aspects of your life?" "Have you always been dominant?" "How do you feel about the reversal of society's expected roles?"

TermsConditions -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/22/2008 4:33:36 PM)
How about “Do you take American Express?” [:D] No set credit limit but they do skim 3.5-4.5% Quite the dilemma.[:D] ------------ TnC, “subbing” for faerytattoodgirl; dodging icicles, flames and lightning bolts as I flee to nearest exit. [sm=donttaseme.gif]

Mustardseed -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/22/2008 6:26:32 PM)
Questions asking me what I want out of domination, or out of a submissive. The more experience I get, the more the answers shift around over time. I find that the process of answering them helps me to be more conscious of where I direct my energies in my relationship with my boy.

TNstepsout -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/22/2008 8:34:07 PM)
ummmmm, this one....? I know I've been asked a few questions that were really made me go hmmmmm? but I can't think what they were.

AtlantaMistress -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/23/2008 4:39:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kitte9 I am sure that the Ladies here have been asked and have answered thousands of questions from almost as many people. What one, or ones, made you think about your answer the most? For me, it's usually the old "Pro Domme" questions, and trying to explain how I live MY life by MY rules, and although I take tribute, it must be about the Power Exchange. I know there are many "Pros" that give all the Pro Dommes a bad name - simply hanging out a shingle when they haven't spent any time learning the craft, and others that come very close if not crossing the line to prostitution. Often, I feel the need not only to defend the rationale of why Pro's exist, but more often - explaining how I am VERY selective and won't see someone simply because they can pay tribute. The majority of boys I see, I actually see on a regular basis, and have a very REAL D/s relationship with - the exchange of money doesn't change that...and if I won the lotery - I WOULD STILL DO IT BECAUSE I LOVE IT!!

Kitte9 -> RE: Thought Provoking (5/25/2008 4:33:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNstepsout ummmmm, this one....? I know I've been asked a few questions that were really made me go hmmmmm? but I can't think what they were. I was wondering who was going to say that. G

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