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MasterFireMaam -> RE: Control Mechanisms (5/21/2008 11:04:23 PM)
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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar
Ok teach me something. What are control tools?
The means of generating behaviour in line with your expectations; for example, empowerment, discipline, supervision etc.
For the most part, this is how it works: I state what I want. I wait. The depth of the relationship is determined by the slave surrendering to what I want. Yeah, sometimes this means I wait for a while...that's ok. I waited for two years for anne to finish an assignment. I learned more about her feelings surrounding that assignment and about what she thought about the content in those two years than I ever did from the assignment itself. Our relationship deepened because of THAT much more than because of the assignment. In the end, I got what I literally asked for, but along the way, I got what I was really asking for. I think that makes sense.
Master Fire
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