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slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 2:26:52 AM   
mons


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i know the title of the subject is not kind but i had the worse experince with a slave i talk with and went out on dates. i remember how what a really fun and kind person he was at first shy and so sweet. but i and my twin always  had a sense of when something was wrong or was going to go wrong . this time i did not listen to my sense . he would be kind and genlte but then he had a temper which shocked me and i made sure to smash it down when he would go off. he would make dates and then no show but would always say i old you i was going to do this or that . so i warn him and this last time i let him go.

but what was the strange thing for me was and i know this sound so damn strange but i thought he wanted to to kill me , he would question when my sister or anyone would be him , or when she would be him . we had a plan for a date two weeks ago and he wanted to go to the beach, i told him many times i can not swiim and i had not desire to go . but he made this plan he was so excited he mention talkinmg to god and i am a christians so it was not problem . but i had this feeling that made me feel so ill i did not want to go to a beach where no one was with us . yes i am a domme but i am still a woman no matter what a man in most times is stonger and no matter we agree on this as woman and man i told him i did not want to go at all and he was upset . there were so many other places to go bu tno he wanted to go to this beach, also he had moments of strange behavior that would come out at times but just enough where i would miss the sign , but i began to see things and feel something was not right . he would had made a wonderful slave if i were not for his strange ways . i could and would not take the chance on him i just had the feeling of danger that went beyond the norm. i am the one who had the voice warn me to lock my door and a man came and almost took my door down. i would not ever say his name or sn i do wish i could he may be a danger to someone. i self so , so sure that if i went somewhere with him i would be not coming back to home after i said i would notgo to this beach with him i have not heard from him again. not a call or anything, he also lied so much i had made a point to not see him , oh yes we went on one date and we talk for two years before we even meant which was ok for me i am not one to jump into anything fast. he had injure himself and it was so strange he had his mother called me but in the background i heard her say i told her. now from what he told me he was at the ER and she was at home . another lie i do not miss him nor do i want to even see or speak with him.

many of you will say oh you over reacted or he was jjust shy , but something was so wrong and i can not get that feeling from me . i never been wrong everyone about my feeling of fear and something was wrong or i was in danger . there should be a way for the women to be safe . he was also a racism that shock me . and he was mean about it . but he is gone i never knew f he said the place he live wa really his , or when he said he was an only child but then he would say my brother came ??????? i will look for another and have fun but i cut him loose and he know that this was it and no more . there was so much that he said that was not true and i would find him in lies,

he did start out as a wonderful date flowers fruit to surpise me in the morning but then something was so wrong later. i woudl say the last part of the second year. i will never know what happen but i just glad i found out his ways. this is not about control or beating someone to listen . he was not right in the mind and i talk for two years and he begin to change right befor my eyes

take care all i lucky to be safe
mons
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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 2:46:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds like he has mental issues.  That he needs professional help and that you did the right thing.

At times people are on their best behavior in the start of a relationship.  As time passes the more you see of their true colors.

For whatever reason (mental/physical) he either changed or was not the person he was making himself out to be.

He needs help and it's something you can't deal with.  You had to think about yourself and your own well being.  You made the right choice in my opinion, because you did what you felt was right.

I honestly can't find any fault, based on the things I've read. 







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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 7:54:20 AM   
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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 8:01:16 AM   
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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 8:59:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		WOW i so agree  RUnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn Mon's RUN !! also change your # , change the locks too . KooKOO.. yer so better off  sayin fare Theee well to that 1 

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 10:05:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		One should always trust their gut.  You didn't feel right about it mons....it's good you cut it off if that's what made you feel safer.

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 10:16:48 AM   
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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 1:59:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		many, upon many, years ago, i belonged to a man who was the best in every way possible!  though slowly but surely, he started to change, and in a very bad way.  the more i gave him, the more he wanted; i could never measure up to his tastes for s/m and other such things...

it's like once he got a taste of something, he wanted more, more intense, more dramatic; more dangerous.  so of course, since i wouldn't give it to him, he would try to take it from me and call it an accident...

i came to fear him, so i dumped his happy ass.

fast forward to two years later, and he had landed his butt in huntsville state prison for murder...

evidentally, he got to the point where he crossed the line; that line where he couldn't differentiate between fantasy and reality and killed the poor girl...

it could have been me.

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 2:51:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mons



he did start out as a wonderful date flowers fruit to surpise me in the morning but then something was so wrong later. i woudl say the last part of the second year.


This has little to do with him being a submissive than his underlying mental health.
IMHO he was able to hide those issues beneath the role play at the beginning of the relationship. The 'nice guy' romantic approach was the disguise. Try to think of i as 'cocktail party' behaviour. An antempt to look normal (within the role of submissive)? An attempt to imitate others? An attempt to hide the ill-health going on inside his head?
But also, and I don't know you so please forgive me if this sounds presumptious, you had that small voice of reason tucked away inside your head but didn't listen to it. You had that small voice that told you that this was not right.
Most of us wart that our relationships to be perfect. We most of us at one time or another have over-ridden our better judgments and gone ahead continuing with a relationship that deep down we know we should have pulled out of sooner no matter what the dynamic.
Also; please please don't blamer yourself. It is those of us who constantly question our motives, the role we played, the resposibilities we took in a relatioship who are the ones who have insight. Insight does not mean you should also take responsibility for him. He needs to do that and he can only do that to the extent that his mental health will allow hm to.
Please don't dwell. It was a long time developing but that doesn't mean it has to take a long time to resolve.

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 3:12:56 PM   
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alright....alright...I'll be serious.....Mons...here is my take on this. when they start talking to God,  and they display a violatile temper, and want their way no matter what.....and in your gut....they make no sense in the way they behave.....that is the time to show them the door....or the cellar bulkhead.....or if needed...a window.

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 5:06:50 PM   
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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 6:00:46 PM   
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he would question when my sister or anyone would be him , or when she would be him .


This was the only part I didn't understand, and I'm afraid my head might explode if I don't find out what was meant... because frankly, I'd go a little nuts to if someone's sister was being me. ;)


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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 8:51:22 PM   
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To Mons...you listened to your gut..how many times have we on here ,said..always listen to your gut!..You did the right thing..wether he was nuts or not..he was not an honest person...nor did he respect your wishes....both very undesireable traits anyway............Tempting

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/19/2008 9:45:51 PM   
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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/20/2008 2:01:47 AM   
mons


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i have a head injure and i wear specail  eye glasses i can not see well but it is ok that you could not follow along many other did and hey what can i say but thank you for answering the post

mons ( he was a nut and i thought he would kill me )

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/20/2008 2:17:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		i was a fool everyone when he ( i am a twin ) he would talk to me like i was my sister and i was like ok he said he had twins who played games on him and i was like so mad i told him to stop this and he new that it was me , then he would act as if my twin who is not into my lifestyle , he was like your the queen and she is the princess he was so nutty i just was scare and i know something was so wrong with him that it made my stomach hurt. and i am strong but he , he was not right at the last time i spoke to him he curse me out and i was shock he went off and then would calm down . there is a way to leave a person slowly and i did i the right way i slowly stop talking to him no more asnwering my phone no more speaking of anything i lost my feeling of anythin for him when you bother my twin that is it so we talk my sister and i and another friend and he is now gone i feel safe he was here only once more then ayear. i think he was on a mental heahtl disablity he did not work i thought he did but there were moment he did not work. then what made me see something was wrong is when i told a woman about how wonderful he was . he scream and told me i am not to say anything about him to anyone that was so , so strange what did he have to hide and he was so mad i had to hang up and that was the point where i never spoke to him again and he has not called at all thank god

thank you all for believing me it help me know this was something that frightening me so

take all and thank again all of you

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/20/2008 4:36:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Glad you got out mons sweet,. My only comment is that is one person becomes a Nut, the other person better become a Bolt or bolt like hell. 

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/21/2008 2:30:31 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		thank you all for writing and some have agree and others it is ok but he called me today and as always he acted as if nothing was wrong nor did he seem to see it had been weeks when he last called.  did not answer the phone nor will i ever speak with him. but he said the strangest thing " the world is like a wheel" i think he does not know i will not speak nor see him at all. he may now see that he has lost a very good domme but i am so glad i stop when i did .

but thank you all and he is now off my radar and now it is time to move on

good wishes to all

mons

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/21/2008 2:38:28 AM   
mons


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how i miss you if i had been speaking with you i would had seen so much more . i am not a chicken but this man has frighten me and i now do not answer my door and he curse and curse and was so crazy and thinking he would serve my twin the same as me and he never got it ironbear he would still bring it up "oh she will come around she will like it . my twin is shy and nothing like me . but he would say it again that and many other things just made me dislike him . my twin is most important to me and he was acting like he would make her change her mind lol i am glad you wrote me . so happy please write and let me know how you are , this wil be the last but my son did not like him and oh yes when i mention him to someone he went wild and it was as if he had something to hide so it over and i am either a good domme or i do not know right now . this is the place i know to come to to tell and ask for help thank you all so much

mons

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RE: slave turn into a nut - 5/21/2008 5:49:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sheez!  You really came across a nutcase this time.  I had some trouble following the logic of some of your posts (possibly because you have been so upset and confused by the whole experience), but overall it seems he managed to disturb you deeply, and that is not how it is supposed to work.  The lies tell the tale.  If he is not honest with you, AT ALL TIMES, then you have no way of judging anything else.  You did the right thing by kicking him to the curb.  SSC means Safe, Sane, and Consensual, and it looks like he dropped the ball on all three.

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