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chezzy71 -> RE: Ownership, really? (5/31/2008 2:35:34 AM)
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I take exception to the "June Clever"remark,in fact i take exception to almost everything.Nobody held a gun to a woman's head during the 50"s and said stay home and raise the kids and have dinner on the table when i get home.That was a choice.Times were different back then and to dismiss the culture of the times is not very smart.Which brings me to myself.I came from strict Italian Roman Catholic parents but not so fast my friends.There was one big difference than what the rest of the street was doing raising their families.Both my parents worked.Dad was on the road with the New York Central railroad and Mom worked ina nursery at first then behind a stove for the rest of her life or should i say working life as a chef.Now dad switched jobs so that he could come home everynight to be with me as i grew into adolescence but mom still worked and you know what..she had dinner on the table and did all the laundry and ironing and half the cleaning of the house and still went to work!!!!!She never bitched or whined about it and the only time she asked my dad to do something it was to hekp clean the house(mop the floor,do windows,etc.)bring the clean clothes upstairs and of course any other thing that needed to be done.He never waivered in doing what she asked.And rarely did they argue which is why they were married for 63 years till dad passed on first.No "June Clever"there do you think??Secondly,one can't have ot both ways.You either want a 24/7 relationship or you don't.I scoff at Dominas who say they have a 24/7 with their boy as he goes to work everyday to bring home the cash.If that is true,how on earth can he be by your side 24/7????That to me is utter nonsense.Look i seek a 24/7 myself but i am not stupid enough to believe it could happen and even if it did..too many nilla issues crop up that must be dealt with.By the way..i can't work and therefore am retired.So any acceptance for me would have to include this fact.I don't want a "June Clever" in my life..i want a Sigourney Weaver type.A strong woman with an equally strong mind.Ok i am done ranting..as for the OP...your bud is happy..let him be.
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