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Madame4a -> I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 5:52:12 AM)
I try hard not to complain publically -- here on CM anyway, about submissive men, but this one just got me... I have just encountered the 5th submissive male who's former dominant up and moved to London! Its amazing isn't it? What's the draw? Should I go too? Anyone else thinking of moving there? [sm=yeahright.gif]

LadyLynx -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 6:48:25 AM)
It might be the same guy. another popular one is: my Mistress died of cancer, or in a car wreck. (trying to get sympathy.)

LadyPact -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 6:59:43 AM)
I hope you don't mind. I'll just sit here, chuckle a bit, and say I know your pain. The submissives in London must be very happy with all of the D's who move there from the US. Then again, I hear that many of the British Dommes run off to Brazil. Maybe there's another explanation of those 'disappearing Dommes'. [sm=abducted.gif]

DiurnalVampire -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 7:22:20 AM)
Ad theres also the ones who's Mistress decided they were really vanilla and got married and left them high and dry... Or had to move to a different state for work and they couldnt travel to be with her...(which amusesme since I am usually not in their state either, so traveling to me is out of the question too by their own logic)

chezzy71 -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 7:37:25 AM)
Actually,my former did die in a car accident but what really kilkled her was the stroke previous to wrapping her car around a pole.No sympathy necessary...she was a lover of life and would have wanted me not to wallow..and so i am here.

LadyEllen -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 7:52:19 AM)
Sympathies Chezzy - but does it not also anger you that you will not be believed, because of all the idiots out there claiming the same and similar for their situation? And whilst we cant possibly know the stats for Domme death rates vs other women, I feel its fairly safe to assume that were the number of bereavements discernible from the many contacts received accurate, then being a Domme must be on a par with military service in war zones in respect of risk. And we know from the fact that many posters here have been posting for years that such a leve of risk cannot be accurate, or we'd be losing one poster every month. E

Madame4a -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 7:56:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen Sympathies Chezzy - but does it not also anger you that you will not be believed, because of all the idiots out there claiming the same and similar for their situation? And whilst we cant possibly know the stats for Domme death rates vs other women, I feel its fairly safe to assume that were the number of bereavements discernible from the many contacts received accurate, then being a Domme must be on a par with military service in war zones in respect of risk. And we know from the fact that many posters here have been posting for years that such a leve of risk cannot be accurate, or we'd be losing one poster every month. E Yes.. the key here is, I rarely believe anything anymore. What I don't get is, what's the point? In any case, the last few I've had have sounded so far out there (their stories of previous experience), more like fantasies than reality. But yes, being a dominant female is fast becoming a risky job, along with king crab fishing in the Alaskan Sea... [sm=ofcourse.gif]

undergroundsea -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 8:06:44 AM)
With me, my former mistress lost her phone line and internet connection. I have tried numerous times to reach her but have not been able to get through. It's heartrending to think about the havoc and misery these utility companes and ISPs can wreak upon innocent lives. I mean, it's no different than a hurricane or hemorrhoids, right? Anyway, I firmly believe that tragedy makes us stronger and that's why I am here--to become stronger yet. Cheers, Sea

chezzy71 -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 8:06:49 AM)
Thank you Lady Ellen for your kind words.Unfortunately,i can only control what is in front of me.Maybe in a skewered way,everyone else who gets their rocks off fibbing is forcing me to go that extra mile for a Domina..not that i wouldn't anyways but one can no longer think that a Domina in today's society will just be like a 1950's housewife and believe everything that comes from someone's mouth.There have been standards set by amazing women who just happen to be Dominas and that is what we as subs should strive to attain..those standards.

Madame4a -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 8:09:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea With me, my former mistress lost her phone line and internet connection. I have tried numerous times to reach her but have not been able to get through. It's heartrending to think about the havoc and misery these utility companes and ISPs can wreak upon innocent lives. I mean, it's no different than a hurricane or hemorrhoids, right? Anyway, I firmly believe that tragedy makes us stronger and that's why I am here--to become stronger yet. Cheers, Sea I suppose this won't go over well.. but if that was your only connection and she didn't find another way to reach you ... well... what would you tell a friend if they told you that story... the day my boi forgot to pay her bill ahem the first thing she did was call me and say.. the phones are out.. they will be on later today.. see ya tonight...

LadyHibiscus -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 8:18:57 AM)
Well I guess that means I should get me some kevlar....... lol

Dnomyar -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 8:53:34 AM)
Throws coffee cake at LH and watches it bounce off of her.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 9:12:08 AM)
Difference being, Chezzy, that I somehow doubt that you start correspondances to new dommes teling them you are looking for someone BECAUSE your Lady died. I find that distasteful, whether or not it is the truth. I have had significant others die and after I grieved I moved on. I have never even considered telling someone "Oh, I am looking for a new boyfriend becuse the guy I was was killed and I hate being alone". Like with a lot of other things online, those who really do live/do/enjoy things are looked at differently becasue of the number of peple who lie about and fake those same things. Crying wolf doesnt just damage YOUR credibility, but it makes someone judge everyone else by standards not relavent to thm necessarily. DV

MamaDomme1 -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 10:16:57 AM)
Funny enough, my daughter (also a Domme) moved to England this past winter. She left a few submissives here in the States but went to her main squeeze fiance in the UK.

darchChylde -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 10:20:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Throws coffee cake at LH and watches it bounce off of her. You evil, evil man. To think, wasting perfectly good coffee. winks Oh, hi; LadyHibiscus.

Madame4a -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 10:37:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1 Funny enough, my daughter (also a Domme) moved to England this past winter. She left a few submissives here in the States but went to her main squeeze fiance in the UK. I wonder did she leave these five? and wow, she lived in a lot of places simultaneously... I guess.. grin

MamaDomme1 -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 11:51:36 AM)
teehee-- nah, the ones she left were in Tennessee.

chezzy71 -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 12:16:50 PM)
You are right DV...i have never brought up the death of Mistress in any intro i have ever made.I just took exception because there are some of us whom have lost their Doms,Dommes thru death and i certainly don't like being told i am using it to find another and seek sympathy.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 12:45:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Throws coffee cake at LH and watches it bounce off of her. You evil, evil man. To think, wasting perfectly good coffee. winks Oh, hi; LadyHibiscus. He just wants to retrieve the crumbs! heh.[sm=flash.gif]

LadyPact -> RE: I do try ... really... (5/14/2008 1:02:15 PM)
Cheezy, I hope you understand that very reason is why it is so 'easy' to use the plausible story. It sucks that some would use that as a way to live a fantasy 'past' to get in with someone who has a bit more experience under their belt. I'm not as gracious about it as you. It's a terrible thing to lose a partner, BDSM or otherwise. Those who feign the experience, to Me, are quite apprehensible, but I have My own logic for that.

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