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Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/12/2008 7:06:47 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		Amazing as it might seem, I am having a difficult time putting something down into words.

The best I have been able to describe it to myself even is the look of devotion.  Almost like awe at times, listening to some small stupid story I'd share, or while just listening to me talk.   The moments when they did something that brought a smile to my face, to see the look upon their face light up and be full of life.  In another sense, the word attentive comes to my  mind. Perhaps admiration describes this in part.  All I know it's something that can't be taught, nor can it be forced, nor can it be demanded, nor taken, it just simply is.  

I'm at a loss to best describe it... it' is however something that matters to me.        




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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/12/2008 7:12:34 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		Oh I know the EXACT think you are describing, that look where they are almost peeking at you, when you can SEE the submission in their eyes and the desire for your dominion over them.  I live for that look.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/12/2008 7:21:16 AM   
OmegaG


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Status: offline 		my coworkers and kids laugh at me because they can even tell when I am IMing with m'Lord as they say my whole facial expression changes.

I would add adoration to your adjective soup.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/12/2008 7:35:23 AM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		My ex - Sir said i always had a hungry and animalistic look when in His presence. Others noticed it too. It was a very physical relationship so i guess i was just always hungry for more beatings and sex.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/12/2008 8:10:31 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		My co-workers always ask what Im smiling at.  I tell them that I saw my reflection.  Grins just kidding.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/12/2008 9:51:21 AM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		You mean that thing that removes crow's feet, brightens skin tone, softens the lips, calms every nerve and right's what's wrong with the world? 
it's priceless..............


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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/12/2008 2:07:16 PM   
TysGalilah


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Status: offline 		smiles
Tyson pops up on my "who's viewing me" thing all the time....I smile....He says its because he wants to stare at/see my eyes in that pix, that they tell him everything he needs to know and remember.
 
 

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/12/2008 2:24:39 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Dreamy-eyed, adoration, devotion, worship, love, reverance, veneration, idolization........ 


Sultry-eyed, torrid, fiery, searing, lustful, ardent, sizzling, horny........

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 2:10:02 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It's ok that you can't explain it, but I know that look that you mean.  I get to see it when he looks up at Me.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 4:44:06 AM   
VioletAshes


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Status: offline 		The eyes are very powerful. My partner can look directly into my eyes with so many words that neither of us could clearly express. I dearly love that I am able to interpret more and more his needs from a simple look. The unsaid between us is very important to me.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 5:44:56 AM   
BlackPhx


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Status: offline 		It goes the other way as well..that look of raw hunger and need as Master looks at me when he comes home from a business trip or we head into the Woodshed in Orlando to dance. He has danced with a couple of others, but that look never crosses his face with them.

Our friends say I always look happiest when I am with him.

poenkitten

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 7:01:10 AM   
softness


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Status: offline 		So as I am unable to comment on what look is on my face in his physical company ... I can only say that people notice when its a message from him, or a phone call

I light up, I glow, its a special secret smile .. i feel myself light up in one of those perfect little moments of happiness that you get from time to time, except that contact with him gets it for me EVERY time

now when I look him in the eyes for the first time, like dead on not via a terrible camera and unreliable skype connection - i know eactly what my eyes will say...

"please Sir take me home ..please Sir let me get us a beer... then please god Sir screw my brains out!"

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 7:34:53 AM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Master looks at me and calls me "goo-girl" ... i go as gooey as a melted caramel ... apparently

violet[A] aka Maam Jay (who is eagerly waiting to see such a look on a sub of Her own!)

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 7:42:17 AM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		call me crazy I enjoi the pained expression she gets when I'm taking her hard.  That's about as mushy as it gets for me

BadOne

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 9:57:39 AM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		If you speak of that attentive look of admiration and awe.  A look that is a mix of love, adoration and respect, then I know exactly what you speak of.  I have always thought it was the look of rapture.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 11:12:15 AM   
everhope


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Status: offline 		my eyes are very expressive. i doubt he would have any question as to what they are saying. "i am all yours, please Sir ravish me as you will."
 
his eyes, i hope they would express hunger with a dash of sadistic playfulness.  

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 11:25:57 AM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		I have given that look before, hopefully I will get a chance at some point in my life to do it again. 

It's just as incredible on the giving side of the look as the receiving side.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 3:04:49 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		My Sir tells me that i am more beautiful now than when he met me. He attributes it to my being comfortable in our relationship, to not having to stress or strain, and that i am fufilled.  I think it is the look of love.

I love the expression on my Sir's face when i get home from work, and i love the expression when he scenes me. It is intent and totally wrapped up in what we are doing.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 3:58:13 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		There's a reason some people literally worship their partners.

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RE: Difficult time finding words for this... - 5/13/2008 4:46:43 PM   
SirJohnMandevill


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Status: offline 		I saw something* of that look on my submissive lady's face the first time I made her safeword. Agreed...nothing like it in the world!
 
(*Guess I'll have to try harder in a couple weeks, lover....)
 
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