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RE: The nose knows? - 5/3/2008 9:52:15 PM   
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The sense of smell, like any other , can be more acute in some folks than in others. On the other hand, our senses, in my experience, can be consciously, deliberately cultivated. For example, I'm a massage therapist. It took me time, focus and effort to develop my sense of touch and palpation to the point where it is now. A person who loses one sense (or when it is diminished) often compenstaes, unconsciously, by refining other senses. Imo, there is something one might call a "sixth sense" or, an overall awareness, a wider focus, which allows one to be more sensitive to ...life.

And, OP, don't be so self conscious about how your pussy smells, if I may say so. Good, naturally clean, pussy smells just yummy, potently aroused or not, and is a major turn on for any man with any sense. Your man seems to have plenty of that.

As to your last question, about someone sniffing you out at the supermercado, unles you've been freshly fucked,I wouldn't worry about that. That kind of olfactory awareness, imo, is focused only on those whom we, ummm, focus on...yanno ?


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RE: The nose knows? - 5/3/2008 10:07:28 PM   
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Typically  women have a sense of smell about twice as strong as a man's.  However, if you are in tune to someone you can start to pick up subtle signals like that.  I'm impressed that he is the one that smells the change on you and not the other way around.

I have an odd body chemistry.  When I was a teenager I could only wear about three different kinds of perfumes because all of the other others would start to smell like Off, the mosquito repellent, when they hit my skin.  It got better as I matured, but even a week or so ago I was shopping with my daughter and put on some vanilla scented perfume.  (Women in the old West used to dab vanilla behind their ears as perfume, and supposedly it is one of the single most intoxicating scents to a man.  My personal theory is because it smells like sugar cookies - ha ha.)  It had such a bad reaction that the store clerk immediately pointed me to their sink and had me go scrub it back off.  My guess is that because of this odd body chemistry that I must put off a strong scent of my own.  Ironically, I can smell myself when I am a combination of excited and very secure and happy - and it is similar to vanilla.

It did make a funny mental picture to think of someone going through a grocery store trying to sniff out whether anybody was aroused. 


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RE: The nose knows? - 5/3/2008 10:44:17 PM   
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Typically  women have a sense of smell about twice as strong as a man's. 


Bullshit, imho. We are the hunters after all, you are the gatherers.

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/4/2008 2:24:51 AM   
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Wow, so many people who seem to have this gift! I thought my nose was pretty good....I can smell the scent that he leaves on the pillow for example. But I can't tell he is aroused from smell alone. Good thing that there are other rather obvious signs of that...lol.

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/4/2008 10:50:13 AM   
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My Master also commented recently that he can smell when I'm aroused (in fact we were in the pub and even with all the other people there he claimed he could smell me, the fact that he'd done something utterly unconsciously that had made me melt just confirmed to me that it wasn't BS), I'm very comforted by his smell also, love it on the pillow and often dig out his shirts from the laudry to wear in bed on the nights we can't be together it makes me feel safe and loved.

Apparently smell is also a very strong trigger for memory so perhaps the connection is stronger for people who have been intimate already?

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/4/2008 11:08:40 AM   
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GAWD, that was hot...

keep talking like that...please!

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/4/2008 1:00:18 PM   
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Every person has a scent and the scent changes slightly depending on their mood. Since I quit smoking several years ago, my nose has become hyper sensitive. I've grown to love and appreciate the scent of a woman. Yes, if you are privileged to get to know a woman well enough, you can begin to tell her moods by her scent. There is nothing like experiencing the various scents of a woman you know intimately, happiness, sadness, arousal and fulfillment. It helps me sleep at night to have her in my arms, my nose in her neck, finding a sense of peace.

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/4/2008 1:24:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

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Typically  women have a sense of smell about twice as strong as a man's. 


Bullshit, imho. We are the hunters after all, you are the gatherers.


ok Cjan, you hunt me and in the process i'll gather.......well something rofl.

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/8/2008 10:22:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

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Typically women have a sense of smell about twice as strong as a man's.


Bullshit, imho. We are the hunters after all, you are the gatherers.



It's a whole lot easier to find a moose by smell than it is to find wild strawberries. So acute smell would be more helpful for the gatherer types. Same reason we have better color vision (although you fellas have better night vision).

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/8/2008 10:40:49 PM   
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GAWD, that was hot...

keep talking like that...please!


What's really fun is when you can just lean in, in a nice public place...........and whisper in her ear.........and you can smell it getting wet. And she squirms.
 


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RE: The nose knows? - 5/9/2008 3:21:41 AM   
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Honestly, just for expressing this fear I'd have the OP put something in her pants that mimicked a hard on.  Have a carrot or something pitching a tent, then have her stand in front of class or walk around. So what if people can tell when you're horny?  Levels the playing field.

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/9/2008 4:29:57 AM   
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i am sensitive to all sorts of smells....colonge and perfum being the worst of the bunch....personal smells are a close second....some people just stink! though Master smells like earth and the soap he uses.....

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/9/2008 9:11:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

Could this really be true or is he just yanking my chain? He does seem to be pretty damn accurate in his timing. If it is true, can others smell this? Like at the grocery store or standing in line or something?(Please say no or I will be blushing every time I'm in public from now on) I can't remember ever smelling someone and thinking "Wow, they're aroused!".


Actually, he might just be like me….lol

I have a real issue with the scent of a woman. For some reason the way my brain is wired I can really pick up on the scent of a woman more so than I can food for instance.  If my girl is cooking something like a turkey or a pot roast or something I can just barely make out the smell but damn I can smell a horny woman some 15 feet away no problem…LOL.  So its not that I have a super sensitive nose its just that its geared differently.  I have always told my woman about it and its always been put to the test and its always one out…lol.  It kind of makes life screwy.

The way my sense of smell works is that woman of course fall into the three categories like really bad get away from me to yeah or wow!  The wow reaction is really strange because my mouth literally waters and my stomach growls just as if I was around a hot cooked meal and I was starving.  I have an oral fetish so you might be able to imagine what this does to me. I  can be standing in front of a woman for instance talking to her and the smell coming off from her body makes my mouth water so I cant stop thinking about what she might taste like and then the stomach starts going and then my cock starts going…lol. 

To me, everyone has an individual smell.  Some woman smell so hypnotic I just cant describe it. Others … well lets just say I remember when I was in my late teens… had the gorgeous blond that was model material but never really could hit it off with her… got her in bed and was going down on her and got about 4 inches from her pussy…. And lets just say I sent her home never to be seen again…..LOL (poor thing I always felt so bad for her but I never told her the reason why)

Now here is the thing.  If a woman smells good she will never smell bad unless she has been contaminated. The things that woman do that they think makes them smell bad can actually make them smell just incredible.  Lets put it this way… you don’t want me hanging out at your gym because woman exercise those inner thigh muscles…LOL watch out. I actually complain to my girl that she douches too often because frankly playing with her on and off all day making her wet actually makes the house smell like heaven to me…lol but the funny thing is that no one else can even notice it.

Once I get to know a woman really well then there is a lot of things I can tell about a woman by her scent.  For instance, when a woman is sick very often her scent will change to a muskier odor because often woman have more of a discharge without actually being aroused.  Arousal to me is a sweeter odor while moisture without arousal tends to be muskier with the exception of about two days before a woman starts her period. 

The scent of a woman on her period is not bad for the most part except the products that are used to control the odor.  I can honestly say I smell the woman’s pad about twenty feet away.  The smell of a period only gets bad when a woman has not washed the outside in a day or so.

I have really gotten into the subject since I found out as a young teen that others were not like me and I have found that the smell of men can actually make me vomit. Kind of a bad thing to find out in a group sex environment.  When a man has sex with a woman he totally screws up he odor and I have even at times asked my girl if a man has hugged he because some men’s scents are so overpoweringly strong to me that just a simple hug will leave his scent behind.  But anyway,  I’m weird….LOL

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/9/2008 10:38:12 AM   
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Good gosh, I hope I'm never in line at the grocery store in front of you...lol.

Maybe more men are like you than they realize. Whenever I hug a man I almost always get a response along the lines of "Wow, you smell good. I love your perfume". Usually though....I'm not wearing any.

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/9/2008 10:48:49 AM   
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Yeah, you would make me hungry as hell and I would end up buying everything in the isle and then wonder what the hell I was thinking when I got home.... hate it when woman do that to me...lol

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Good gosh, I hope I'm never in line at the grocery store in front of you...lol.

Maybe more men are like you than they realize. Whenever I hug a man I almost always get a response along the lines of "Wow, you smell good. I love your perfume". Usually though....I'm not wearing any.

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/10/2008 4:23:25 AM   
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Just to continue this thread and slightly go off on a tangent I discussed the ability to smell me with my Master and he has a lot in common with FRSGuy it turns out (heaven for me as my previous partner of 10 years hated giving me oral so I've been somewhat starved of a favourite activity! BONUS!!)

However last night's session was very hot (both ways as the weather in the UK is lovely right now), he told me whilst I was chained and blindfolded that he loves the taste of my sweat when we're in a scene, apparently it's different to just plain old "I've been working all day and need a bath" sweat and tastes sweet and arousing.  Do other men / women here find this to be so also?

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RE: The nose knows? - 5/10/2008 5:19:13 AM   
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Well, my nose is always running especially on cold days... i had that problem since i was a kid... Sniveling little creature i was and still am!! Yes the knows that nose and pets know best.... (hey did i write all this myself??)

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