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PanthersMom -> RE: Slave's personality - how big ? (4/28/2008 12:06:39 PM)
intelligence, humor, a sense of responsibility and honor, a little adventure and a whole lot of love, that's what i want. lucky for me, i got it! PM

MistressDolly -> RE: Slave's personality - how big ? (4/29/2008 8:30:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubMaxMinn My own view of how a slave should behave is to be quiet, demure, respectful, etc. I have kind of been taught that a slave should most often speak when spoken to, and not try to be the "life of the party", or control, direct or initiate much in the way of conversation. This, however, might leave the slave as a sort of "boring" entity. So, my question is: how much "personality" do most Dommes prefer their slave to have and do your behavior expectations vary depending upon whether you are in a "play" mode or not? Sub Max Minnesota Being mindful and anticipatory hardly makes for a boring person; perhaps those that view slaves as boring entities are simply bored with themselves. The male slave can have any type of personality so long as he is amenable to his Female Keeper.

rubberpet -> RE: Slave's personality - how big ? (4/30/2008 1:20:12 AM)
Some dommes prefer the "seen and not heard" type of subby and others prefer ones that are more out there. Personally, I say whatever works for the domme and sub is pretty much what matters. I have a pretty out there personality. I can be loud, rude, crude, offensive, racist, a complete goofball, hell...I think I might have multiple personalities, too, because no one knows what I'll say or do till I do it. I consider myself the "Anti-Subby". I bicker with Mistress (respectfully and playfully, of course), but in ways that most subs would get jack-slapped by they prospective owners. I "challenge" Her authority (once agin, I know who owns my ass, so it's always respectful and playful). I love knowing She is in control and is the ONLY one with the power to bring me to my knees with just a simple look. It is who I am. I am submissive only to Her. Then again, She loves my feisty personality because while it may seem disrespectful to others, She knows my true feelings. She likes that I'm not a doormat, but loves the fact that I'll lay at Her feet and try to get lower than the ground She walks on so I can be that much more under Her.

LadyPact -> RE: Slave's personality - how big ? (4/30/2008 3:01:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thetammyjo How a slave should behave is entirely dependent on what the owner/master/mistress/dom wants and the two of them have negotiated. I'm sure some will disagree but I believe that until you are in such a dynamic you are not a slave any more than I'm an owner until I'm in such a dynamic. I can assure you that you are not the only one who feels this way.

MistressFaye1 -> RE: Slave's personality - how big ? (4/30/2008 5:36:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlackPhx If you are acting as a Butler, Maid or Majordomo I expect that personae to be everything they are. Unobtrusive, alert, knowledgable and capable of action without instruction every 5 seconds. Perfect service is rewarded. rewards are based on knowledge of the subject. If you are Furniture, well you get as much say as furniture does. Grin, grunt and bear it. I know your load limit. If we are Dancing, let me see the fire in your soul, iginite the passion in mine and see how hotly we can burn without burnout. The rest of the time, you had better be a human with all the quirks and personality traits of being human and not a woven doormat. I like having people to talk to, argue with and share things with...even my dogs and the cat talk back, they obey but they are allowed to speak. A snap of my fingers or a hand pointing and they obey even as they protest. Poenkitten aka MC Well said! The only thing I can add to this as my response is to be sure of who you are and what you really want in a D/s relationship and then let your behavior reflect that! Faye

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