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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 10:38:48 AM

DominantJenny

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Hrm. *wonders if her grocery store carries shaved ice*
You are totally on a roll! *grin*
I'm thinking of binding (saran wrap would be best, I think, don't you?) some ice to various parts of his body, making him endure it while we play or possibly while we just sit and watch TV or porn...

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 10:45:23 AM

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Hrm. *wonders if her grocery store carries shaved ice*
You are totally on a roll! *grin*
I'm thinking of binding (saran wrap would be best, I think, don't you?) some ice to various parts of his body, making him endure it while we play or possibly while we just sit and watch TV or porn...

Oh you are so wicked! I love it. Watching porn would be best, he will be soooo uncomfortable lol
We do try our best to make them comfy do we not? <g>

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 10:48:49 AM

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*grin* I do try. Mmmhmm. Porn it is, then! Yay for new ideas!

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 11:02:36 AM

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What is that sound? Is that crickets chirping or is it the grass growing?

One last piece of advice.... S-P-O-N-T-A-N-E-I-T-Y

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 11:43:27 AM

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Jenny,
You hadn't mentioned forced fem. His. Thoughts?

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 11:53:19 AM

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My submissive and I really enjoy rope bondage, and chain bondage. (We're working Our way up to suspension; I've installed several heavy-duty I-bolts in My basement ceiling, and her basement has a lovely exposed steel horizontal support I-beam. It supports the top two floors of her home; it'll have no problem supporting her meager weight.)

One of the things We most enjoy about this kind of thing is that it takes a lot of time.

But, if Y/you're not that patient, you might try simply ordering him to lay still, or to hold his arms (or other body parts) out of Your way. Just having him hold his hands over his head (or behind his back, or lace his fingers behind his head) could be a thrill. I love having My sub hold her arms straight out from her shoulders. It gives Me access to her breasts, butt, etc.. Since she cannot hold her arms there forever, the tension of not knowing when I'll allow her to drop her arms, can be thrilling, too.

Have fun!

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 12:01:05 PM

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Since she cannot hold her arms there forever, the tension of not knowing when I'll allow her to drop her arms, can be thrilling, too.

Floggings,
I like this one a lot! I can imagine the thoughts going through pup's head as he wonders how long I will keep him standing there like that. He wouldn't dare ask me if he can put his arms down. Great idea!

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 12:10:48 PM

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We're both not into forced fem. If I want a girl, I want a girl. :)

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 12:14:01 PM

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You know, I love mental bondage, and you've made me realize that I don't take NEAR as much advantage of it as I could. Thank you!

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 12:46:16 PM

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ooo! I have an idea! you can bind ice to him, eat pizza naked, watch porn, and use him as a footrest! If the pizza isn't too hot you could also use his back like a tv-dinner table. just a thought!

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/25/2008 1:00:10 PM

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*laugh* Sounds like a fun afternoon!
Actually, he hates being used as furniture, and not in a fun way. Gets boring. (Yes, we are apparently exceedingly easily bored people. :P)

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/27/2008 7:26:09 PM

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Wow, so what did you do??

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/27/2008 11:44:44 PM

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How about ice? I haven't tried it, but I imagine there are some pretty nasty things one could do with a tray of ice cubes and a good imagination.

EDIT: Oh, whoops, you already thought of that...

If you have saran wrap, what about using him as a human platter for food?

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/27/2008 11:49:15 PM

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Dress up as godzilla and destroy tokyo?

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/28/2008 2:04:02 AM

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Hmmm OK here goes:

Firstly, unless someone is a real bondage junkie, I've never found bondage on its own all that exciting. But combining it with other activities makes it more interesting. So here's a few ideas:

1. Alternative wax play ... use a small artists paintbrush and different coloured candles (check their melt temp, they may differ). Have him nicely bound laying down so he can't inadvertently move too much. Then get painting ... You can come up with artistic designs, or just do graffitti ... one of My faves is "MJs slut ASS" on the appropriate part ... painting into the crack gets great responses! Getting it off ... the butter knife will do it ... stand him on a tarp or old sheet. Alternatively ... flog it off (that will get most off) and then use the knife to finish it off. Or you can sign your name, put wide clear sticky tape over it and have him go out to dinner with your name on his arse. For added fun, add ice to the mix ... drip of hot wax, drip of ice water. MMMMM!

2. Mummification - wrap as much as you like, arms and legs together or separate, can wrap them to something like a pole or a chair, or free-standing. If you do it near a bed, can wrap them all up and then tell them to lie down ;-) ... be on hand to make sure they don't crash their head though! Other nice alternatives can be to wrap around the dangly bits but leave them out for a bit of torture. Don't so much wrap the ice in ... wait till they're getting nice and warm inside the wrap then pull it aside a bit and slip the ice down the back. woohoo! Can also flog them once they're wrapped ... You can hit much harder than bare-skinned and it feels quite different for the floggee. Tell them to stand still ... they can't do much else while wrapped ... then drip ice water on their feet. (Yes I can be a bitch at times!). Again hot and cold can be good, hot water on one foot and ice water on the other.

3. Predicament bondage can be good ... tie someone so if they move one bit, another gets tugged. And don't forget that adding vibes under the ropes can make the bondage interesting, esp if You leave it for a while so the vibrations gradually spread through the ropes. And if they're getting good at stabilising ... a quick squirt of cold water will make them move!

4. Consider bondage as a handicap. For example, come home from doing all the grocery shopping. Take a few moments to tie his hands behind his back ... then tell him to put the shopping away! Absolute hilarity guaranteed. Or any other activity You can think of.

5. And have You tried puppy play??

Also pain play can be more of a mindfuck if You do painful things to one side of the body and pleasurable things to the other eg pinch one nipple and kiss the other. Same with hot and cold. And one of my best floggings as a sub was when Master was hitting my shoulders hard and then coming up between my legs softly. i was just praying "don't get out of rhythm!!" It was a total mindfuck and i spaced very deeply.

OK so the weekend might be over ... but keep the ideas in Your mind till the next time! Have fun!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/28/2008 6:25:07 AM

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*fans self* Oh, several of those are good...I like the predicament bondage quite a bit! We've tried a bit of pony/puppy play...it's more of a "moment in a long scene" kind of thing for us. I am totally saving this thread for next time! Thank you. :)

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/28/2008 6:31:18 AM

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I was going to update! But thanks for the prompt.
Sadly, the babysitter called (at a MOST inopportune moment), so I never got to the ice idea. We talked about the role-play switching, but remembered that we had indeed done that before and it had been (to quote him) weird.
I DID use a tiny bit more mental bondage than I usually do, but, I have to admit, we mostly just went all out with all the toys we rarely get to use. He has a VERY sore bottom today, and my arms got a heck of a workout. :P
I think that just spending time here, though, helped put in a better headspace; I was much better at getting and keeping him in subspace than I usually am. :)
Thanks, again, everyone, and I AM going to use some of these things next time! (I may even work the ice idea in on a regular kid-at-home night. If he can keep the yelping to a minimum, anyway. ;))

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/28/2008 6:41:18 AM

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Wow! What a fantastically generous post!

I had not even considered wax play before reading this. Woof!

Thx!

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In a word: WAX

Get some white, unscented wax (emergency candels work quite well for this; they don't burn too hot), tie him to a table (after spreading a sheet or shower-curtain underneath the table...and tell him you are going to encase him in hot wax...little by little. I'd have his eyes covered; tell him it's for his own protection (but don't drip the stuff on his face).

Then...drip away. Try it on the inside of your forearm and experiment with the temperature when dripping from different heights. Then...knowing how hot it will be from whichever height... drip it on him.

I'd bite his nipples a few times first...pinch his breasts and pull on 'em a bit; to perk up the skin. Then...drip the wax at the lowest you safely can...right onto his nipple. You might be 'preparing' his other one for the same treatment, as you drip.

Perhaps have some music playing (I like soundtracks from various Vampire movies...or some of the ButtBoy music)...so he can zone out while you play. I'd lean over him a lot, brushing your own breasts on his body ...'accidently'. Always keep one hand on him...that helps keep a person relaxed. But, sometimes let the wax puddle a bit on the candle if you can...and then pour it all at once; perhaps in a line right down to his belly button.

Keep dripping...all over his torso...gradually adding more and more wax. Encase him...let it drip down his sides... When you head for his cock...make sure the first couple of drips are right on the head...and warm enough he feels it's heat, buy not hot enough to actually burn him). Cover his whole cock in wax...cock, balls...let it drip down underneath and kiss a bit at his little sphinxter, too. Heh heh heh

Then...when he's got a good, solid coating...tell him to hold VERY VERY still, as you get your knife out. You should have had the knife out before you began, so that he knows which one it is and just how sharp it is... Then... drag the edge of the blad over his ribs...removing some of the wax that has run there.

Gradually remove bits of wax untill you get a good edge that you can 'peel' off him. Slide the knife along his skin in such a way that you are NOT cutting...but more like shaving his body. Let him feel the knife slide along the wax as you pull it back; he will have the sensation you are filleting him. It's awesome.

You could fuck with his head in all maner of ways. I love to poke a nipple with the point...and tell him to hold his breath for this part...as I wouldn't want to accidently slice the thing off!

Anyway... you get the idea. I bet you can take it from here!

When you are finished, take the sheets outside and shake 'em before you put them in the wash. If it's particularly warm out, you might want to wad 'em up and put them in the freezer for a bit; then the shaking will dislodge the wax and not clog up your washer.

Have fun!
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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/28/2008 4:32:28 PM

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Alright, alright. Quid pro quo, here. I mean everybody here is fishing for ideas, inspiration, whatever. I'm gonna give you some and then you send me some, OK? I do NOT want to hear the newbie accusation as a way to get out of it so...here goes. Get yourself some rubber bands of all sizes. They really allow a controller to focus hi\her energy on the slaves body part. Get yourself some diving gloves, the kind with the sandpaper grit on them. I love to leave my hand mark on a sub! So wxquisite it is in grit! Get a bow and bend his pathetic ass over. Put the front of the bow in front and the string in back, transversing his slave ass. Now pull and pop. Cut strips from a watsuit. That'll leave a mark. Get beach sand and put it in his pants before you go out to dinner. Make him duck-walk (squat) around the garage and pick ten things he wants put up his ass while someone else watches and the two of you decide if the items meet with your approval. His thighs and ass will tell him you are in control for three days. Wanna know some humiliation tips. Gimme a "call." message.

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RE: Inspiration needed! - 4/28/2008 6:52:28 PM

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Alright, alright. Quid pro quo, here. I mean everybody here is fishing for ideas, inspiration, whatever. I'm gonna give you some and then you send me some, OK? I do NOT want to hear the newbie accusation as a way to get out of it so...here goes. Get yourself some rubber bands of all sizes. They really allow a controller to focus hi\her energy on the slaves body part. Get yourself some diving gloves, the kind with the sandpaper grit on them. I love to leave my hand mark on a sub! So wxquisite it is in grit! Get a bow and bend his pathetic ass over. Put the front of the bow in front and the string in back, transversing his slave ass. Now pull and pop. Cut strips from a watsuit. That'll leave a mark. Get beach sand and put it in his pants before you go out to dinner. Make him duck-walk (squat) around the garage and pick ten things he wants put up his ass while someone else watches and the two of you decide if the items meet with your approval. His thighs and ass will tell him you are in control for three days. Wanna know some humiliation tips. Gimme a "call." message.

Ouch! Rubber bands would be a LOT of sting! Hrm. I'll have to look for those diving gloves. Bow sounds painful! If I ever see a beat-up wetsuit at a garage sale or something I am totally picking it up.
The others are not so much my thing. Thank you!
My best discovery was already mentioned in my initial post, using a click pen (push in, click while pushing, unclick, release)...butt is nice, nipples are WAY painful. I have favorite toys...the "nightstick" available at Adam&Eve, sold as a dildo but makes a GREAT hitting tool, for example. Those little bamboo back-scratchers that you can find all over make a nice hitting tool as long as you don't use enough force to break them, that is.

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