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RavenMuse -> RE: Non judgement (4/12/2008 5:32:34 AM)
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There is a big difference between giving an opinion and being judgemental..... unfortunatly all too often the former is reacted to as the latter.
There are many things around WIITWD that I don't personaly like... How questions about those things are phrased will determine how I answer.
"my Master wants to take me to a club and watch me suck off every stranger that asks for me"... maybe replied to with a basic "not My bag but if it floats your boat then fine and dandy"
If the same question is posed about if *I* would do something of that nature then the responce would be quite different, the answer would be from My perspective, My principles, the inherent danger *I* see to a girls self worth if such is done wrong, also the fact that I would get absolutely nothing from a bunch of john does getting a freebie with My property.
In the latter case, sure as egg's is egg's someone would react to it as a 'judgemental post'... yet it is far from it. It is a statement of opinion, a personal perspective. In relation to them and their actions directly, My attitude is the former, if I was being judgemental then thats where it would show, not in the latter statement of My PoV as relating to Me.
Why does such come up so often.... well We have far more to say about our personal PoV that We have about someone elses.... More can be said about the "not My bag" than about the "but if it works for you then great".
That isn't to say that I am not judgemental about everything, there are a few things where I am and I make no appologys about it...If people where honest there will always be SOME things each and every one of us ARE judgemental about..... even if only about judgemental people [;)]
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