EchoPet
Posts: 5
Joined: 2/23/2006 From: Conway, Arkansas Status: offline
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Secondly, what is wrong with basic manners and following D/s protocol? Surely it is just plain wrong to make demands of an already owned slave. i would even suggest that it is bad manners to demand a free sub obeys You just because You are a Dom... Ah, i love old fashioned respect on both sides of the dynamic; it goes a long way in my book. This is not me being bratty, honest, though i admit to being moany lol! Gabrielle x Oh, agreed! My favorite phrase is "I may be a submissive, but I'm not YOUR submissive." I actually have had very few problems myself though. I mean, of course there have been some odd messages here on CollarMe and other kink-related sites, but it's easy enough to delete and block them. In offline life, when men find out I'm a sub, I think most of them just kinda go "lucky him" referring to my Master, or some want to know why. And of course I have a couple of friends who like to joke about the lock around my neck, one who even playfully tries to unlock it with all the keys on his keyring to "steal me away" (to which my Master just laughs everytime). And speaking of "Doms" who actually want you to top them... ugh. When my ex-husband and I first started dating, he knew I was submissive and had just gotten out of a D/s relationship. He was curious about it all, so I introduced him to everything, books, toys, etc. He tried to be my Master... but in the bedroom actually wanted to be the bottom. I was so upset when I showed him all the toys and he said he didn't want to use them on me, but wanted me to use them on him. It was so hard for me to top him... but I finally just had to because, at least in my mind, it was something my Master wanted, therefore by doing it I was still submitting to his wishes. It probably was a contributing factor in the demise of our relationship/marriage though.
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