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RE: Playing outside your primary relationship - 4/7/2008 11:49:03 AM

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Fabulous Post!!!

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RE: Playing outside your primary relationship - 4/7/2008 12:01:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I read this on the other site last week. I still wonder what caused this. Could you email me and let me know? I don't think this is something that you just 'happened' to think about.

ummm you replied to me, but i am guessing your are talking to someone else? or are you talking to me? i am confused?

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RE: Playing outside your primary relationship - 9/25/2008 5:57:56 AM

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Hisfurandfeather----
It seems you have your personal code down quite concisely: kudos and best of wishes. :>
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RE: Playing outside your primary relationship - 9/25/2008 10:36:57 AM

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There can be a conflict though if one half of the primary couple really doesn't want to know who he's getting involved with, where or when and a third who insists on talking to her and getting her approval. Some people when they say they don't really want to know, really don't want to know and are going to be upset if some stranger comes up asking for their approval.

I do know of a monogamous woman married to a poly man. Her line is that she isn't to know anything about it. In that case someone trying to get her approval is breaking their rules. And she won't give it simply because they didn't accept that she will not talk to his playmates.

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RE: Playing outside your primary relationship - 9/25/2008 10:55:34 AM

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Awesome post. Thank you for being kind and sharing.

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