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DesFIP -> RE: Playing outside your primary relationship (9/25/2008 10:36:57 AM)
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There can be a conflict though if one half of the primary couple really doesn't want to know who he's getting involved with, where or when and a third who insists on talking to her and getting her approval. Some people when they say they don't really want to know, really don't want to know and are going to be upset if some stranger comes up asking for their approval.
I do know of a monogamous woman married to a poly man. Her line is that she isn't to know anything about it. In that case someone trying to get her approval is breaking their rules. And she won't give it simply because they didn't accept that she will not talk to his playmates.
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