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parttimehotty -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:18:25 AM)
He's probably a wannabe who posted on a whim expecting online communication, never a RL. When you actually agreed on a specific day to meet him, he started to bite his nails as he backed up, up & away from you, latching onto the feeble excuse that he provided. NEXT!![sm=afraid.gif]

tsatske -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:23:56 AM)
Dnomyar, cute new icon. that is your own pic, right?

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:28:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG it's sounds enthusiastic enough as a stand alone. Sometimes people's priorities are different too. A friend of mine is good at making excuses to not do something in a what I think is a timeley manner but if you listen to her whole conversation you know it's an excuse, that she really doesn't want to do it regardless of her insistance that she does. Is it possible that anything said before that could indicate to him that you were putting him off? not at all. As it says in my profile, a relationship will not happen overnight. First there will be convos via CM mail, then email/phone then meeting for coffee etc. I make it clear, abundantly clear that i want things to progress at a very slow pace. Our C mails had consisted of feeling out each other's likes/dislikes, and i had responded with great enthusiasm to his messages as we are remarkably alike in what we like and don't like.

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:30:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: parttimehotty He's probably a wannabe who posted on a whim expecting online communication, never a RL. When you actually agreed on a specific day to meet him, he started to bite his nails as he backed up, up & away from you, latching onto the feeble excuse that he provided. NEXT!![sm=afraid.gif] You know i really have to wonder if that was the case...NEXT! indeed, i'm not sitting around moping, onwards and upwards! grins

Dnomyar -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:42:08 AM)
What is wrong with sniveling and begging. I think that is an admirable trait in a submissive. I think that some Dom/Dommes think that subs should do it more often.

amuzingtoyou -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:42:41 AM)
The bottom line is you didn't swoon and ooh and ahh over him quite the way that he wanted. He didn't communicate with you quite what he was wanting, and then decided on his own that you weren't what he was looking for. Its quite frustrating. Chalk it up to a learned experience, and try to stay away from those that act in such a passive aggressive manner.

OmegaG -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:47:13 AM)
I'm getting better at it. [:D] I also want to add to Phoenix that what others are saying may be right. I tend to be proactive in my own communications to see if I could be better in the future and if I can use it as a learning tool for myself rather then always just saying it's the other person's fault. And I'm just a natural Devil's Advocate.

Dnomyar -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:54:43 AM)
Devils Advocate. Grins. Pokes Omega with his pitch fork.

OmegaG -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 7:58:16 AM)
don't tease me like that.

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 8:04:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG I'm getting better at it. [:D] I also want to add to Phoenix that what others are saying may be right. I tend to be proactive in my own communications to see if I could be better in the future and if I can use it as a learning tool for myself rather then always just saying it's the other person's fault. And I'm just a natural Devil's Advocate. Devil's Advocate or just Devil? Oh i'm sorry did i say that out loud? [:D] Truth be told i enjoyed butting heads with you, i find it a nice challenge to find ways to defend my position...

Dnomyar -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 8:04:51 AM)
Sorry. pokie, pokie

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 8:07:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Devils Advocate. Grins. Pokes Omega with his pitch fork. Is that a pitchfork in your pocket or are you just happy to see her? [:D]

OmegaG -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 8:14:56 AM)
I also love to have the oppurtunity to evaluate my opinions for their validity. And I am glad that you see it for what it is and not that I'm just being difficult and obnoxious.

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Huh???? (4/2/2008 8:37:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG I also love to have the oppurtunity to evaluate my opinions for their validity. And I am glad that you see it for what it is and not that I'm just being difficult and obnoxious. smiles of course not. I've read enough of your posts here to know that's not how you are...relax, it's all good in the neighborhood..

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