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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 2:43:56 PM   
masterdavid6669


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Status: offline 		speaking from the otherside of the flogger here, my (now ex) Sir LOVED the way I smelled and tasted, the way i smelled of sweat and leather after a session, or even a bit of blood thrown in there after a heavy session. He always said my perfume, leather and sweat were his ultimate aphrodisiac. That and the way he smelled? DAMN. I loved it, like I wouldent even have to see him walk into a room because his pheramones/calgone/leather were so ingraved in to my secne of smell after awhile, I knew he was there before he said anything. Even in crowded bars I can smell his distinct sent lightly under the smoke and beer smell and I just KNOW hes there. Its like a drug for me almost..

BWAHAHAHAHAHA, my friend dident sign out of CM!!!! and now this post is on HIS name...BTW everyone this is not Masterdavid....this is Sunnyfey


< Message edited by masterdavid6669 -- 4/1/2008 2:44:58 PM >

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 2:46:29 PM   
Sunnyfey


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Status: offline 		mwahahaha sorry dident mean to hijack the thread...just fixing the above statement!!! it's mine not Masterdavids!!! Im gonna get a spanking for that!

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 2:49:32 PM   
subtee


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Okay...Here it goes. Upon approaching said gash...I am rather tentative in my initial approach. Usually I am adorned in the latest hazmat suit and goggles....Once I have determined that the appearance is not overwhelmingly grotesque...I will remove my mask and take my right gloved hand and rapidly and repeatedly waive it over the snatch in an attempt to "waft" the stank towards my olfactory systems. If I find the aroma not too disturbing I might give the puss a nudge with me tongue.

Now blow me.


~sigh~

You had me at "gash."

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 3:26:37 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Ladies, I'm compiling a judging panel.  Who else wants to join me?

For the contestants, I believe I'll start with CD first, then CountrySong... the rest of you line up behind them.

BossyCali

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 4:06:00 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Amazing how people are so worried about fitting into everyone ELSE's idea of what's right rather than what they know they want.

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oral sex on a sub

http://www.collarchat.com/m_279010/mpage_1/key_oral%252Csex/tm.htm#279010
oral sex- a submissive act?

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Dom's ? - 4/1/2008 5:02:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Ladies, I'm compiling a judging panel.  Who else wants to join me?

For the contestants, I believe I'll start with CD first, then CountrySong... the rest of you line up behind them.

BossyCali


I'll be happy to join the panel to find the Domliest Cunning Linguist. But, be warned though. My standard's are very very high. I am a connoisseur of fine expert pussy licking

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 5:18:36 PM   
Daddyslilpookie


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ORIGINAL: BBWnNC72

quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

I agree that sight and taste and smell and touch and sound are all wonderful when playing with a submissive.

I'm not sure I share your concern for it being somehow submissive to participate in taste and smell.  How is it submissive if:

I tie her up and can take my time spreading her pussy and inspecting it, running my tongue from the clit as far back as I choose, whether it be the bottom of the pussy or the slightly bony tip of her tailbone or anywhere in-between?  She did not tell me to do it...though she may've asked...and it was my decision as to whether or not to do so.
I don't tie her up but tell her to stand over me and feed herself to me?  From this position I can look up and watch as she tries to maintain her balance as my fingers knead and probe asscheeks and pussy and ass as my tongue moves over her, as I use my goatee to touch her and tease her.
I don't tie her up but lay her down and by using the humiliation aspect of it, tell her to spread herself wide like the slut she is for my tongue, my fingers, my face?  When I tell her that the only movement she can make is in reaction to what I do but not to stop me?


Oh my, , that, that was really really good. i am off to take a shower now and wash my panties.


Ditto

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 7:49:26 PM   
CraZYWiLLiE


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I absolutely love licking pussy, sucking on her clit, licking her lips, and making her gush while sucking in her hot juices, then spit the warm gushing on her chest, across her breasts, then slamming my tongue deep in her and make her squirm, lapping her up.
To me she has given me a gift, a gift that few can give, a gift, that is mine, to do with as I want.

yes, yes, I love licking sweet smelling tasty pussy...I also have my red wings....

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 8:16:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Ramar

A question  -  I believe a session should involve all 5 senses – of touch, sight, sound, smell and taste.  That is when u can fully enjoy it.  For a Dom, the first 3 of touch sight and sound is always natural and can be achieved without much problem. However when it comes to taste and smell, I am concerned that Doms might have a problem ?   I mean for me se is more fulfilling if I can feel her smell and taste all her erogenous and most intimate body parts. However, while doing it, I do get the strange feeling of some ‘submission’ of ‘going down’ while doing it. Even the phrase for it is  ‘going down’ into her.  Essentially in a physical positioning, this makes the Dom’s body below hers in general and thus somewhat not “Top” ? Is this uncomfortable ?  but I do need these 2 very sensuous sensations for fulfillment. Have anyone felt the same and what answers have you arrived at please share them here ?  

Warm Regards


I still dont understand what having taste and smell involved in the scene has to do with going down on your sub.  If you have to have your face in her cunt to smell her, you have a pretty horrible sense of smell.

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 8:19:35 PM   
CountrySong


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Status: offline 		Domliest Cunning Linguist Contest - I'm in. Where are we holding it? Do we get a break every four hours or so or is it lick to you drop or beg to stop? Will there be a ready supply of backup batteries for the vibrators? Any bonus points for creativity? Oh, and is it most climaxes wins or who can delay her climax longest that wins? LOL

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/1/2008 11:17:57 PM   
Ramar


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Status: offline 		Thank you all who have responded and special thanks to those who made it a fun exchange with all the clever repartee.

I confess my question did not have an immediate present relevance. It was more like my experience and questions in the past. Frankly, my partner was not comfortable with my going down there she always thought somehow it is not right. For that matter she was not ready to give me head too at first and it took some years of training for her to become good at it.   So it may have something to do with the action itself but there is some element of her thought process which goes “how can I lie here and accept that He is down there ?”   As someone said here, I guess I am overanalyzing.  However, I have also seen some similar feedback from some of the sub women here.
Thanks to all and further discussion is also invited..

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/4/2008 11:29:28 AM   
xsassykatx


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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

It's my opinion that people who worry about what constitutes "dominant behaviour" probably aren't very secure.  So, don't worry about it.


This girl couldn't agree with you more.  When I was a vanilla wife, oral, both giving and receiving made me ill.  I felt dirty and humiliated while giving and a piece of meat while receiving.  Once being free and crossing over into the "dark" side, giving was part of my duties to tend to my owner just as it was mine to tend to the rest of the household.  However, while i would beg for him to "claim" me, "take" me orally, he refused saying it was a submissive act.  I never saw it because if he's holding me down and eating me out, how is that anything but him being in control and be submitting to his pleasure and desires.  My body belonged to him for his pleasure however he chose to achieve it.  But as time went on and everything started to slip away, his insecurities finally blew us apart.  So yes, his fear of appearing to be submissive actually was reveiling his fear of himself and his insecurities.

It is in the intent and how it is done rather than who is doing who that defines who is dominant and who is submissive.  Whether i'm on top riding away or on the bottom being split in two, this girl is total submissive slave at the whims of the Master she is pleasing.

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/4/2008 11:31:52 AM   
xsassykatx


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ORIGINAL: CraZYWiLLiE

oh my, one of my favorite subjects...
I absolutely love licking pussy, sucking on her clit, licking her lips, and making her gush while sucking in her hot juices, then spit the warm gushing on her chest, across her breasts, then slamming my tongue deep in her and make her squirm, lapping her up.
To me she has given me a gift, a gift that few can give, a gift, that is mine, to do with as I want.

yes, yes, I love licking sweet smelling tasty pussy...I also have my red wings....


Is it just me or have I read this somewhere before, Sire?

Probably just one of my deja vous moments. :)  *blush*

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/4/2008 11:44:21 AM   
tsatske


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I actually feel somewhat uncomfortable with Him going down on me, and from what I've read on here, that isn't an uncommon reaction from some submissive females.  I am slowly getting more comfortable with it....... first, because He enjoys it and second, because He is always in control.


I am also uncomfortable with being the recipient of oral from my Dominant, so, yes, i do think it's a common feeling for sub women to deal with.
What makes it a little easier is that, as a bi woman, i can tell you, most men don't know how to do it very well. So it's not like i'm enjoying it, you know?

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/4/2008 12:35:00 PM   
cjan


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tsatske"
What makes it a little easier is that, as a bi woman, i can tell you, most men don't know how to do it very well.


I'm sorry, dear, but I'm going to have to flag you on that generalization. It would be unfair to say "most" unless you had tried us all. The most you can claim is that many men "don't know how to do it very well".


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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/4/2008 1:38:35 PM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		cjan,
i will own up to that one. it is just a nasty generalzation. i am sure the world is full of men who enjoy it enough to learn how to do it very well.
i can certainly say, in the opisite direction, that strait women who are 'bi if Master says i'm bi' sometimes do it 'like a man', too - that is, not very damn well. Not the only reason i prefer not to be with strait and 'bi if Master says i'm bi', and other BUG and LUG (bi until graduation) women - but on the list.

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/4/2008 2:20:24 PM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: tsatske
I am also uncomfortable with being the recipient of oral from my Dominant, so, yes, i do think it's a common feeling for sub women to deal with.


Good lord I hope that's not a common feeling.  Maybe if you grabbed his head and mashed his face right into you, rubbing his nose on your clit, grinding your pussy against him... well, okay, all that might be fine too... but you just can NOT tell him "suck it like you mean it, bitch!".  Now THAT would be unsubbly. 

Cali


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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/4/2008 2:33:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cjan

quote:

tsatske"
What makes it a little easier is that, as a bi woman, i can tell you, most men don't know how to do it very well.


I'm sorry, dear, but I'm going to have to flag you on that generalization. It would be unfair to say "most" unless you had tried us all. The most you can claim is that many men "don't know how to do it very well".



I agree, that line is such a load of horseshit.  Ask any woman who has been "forced" by a partner to do a threesome and most have no fucking clue what to do to another woman.  Same goes for me, never given head and have zero idea what to do and don't plan on changing that.

However, like I am sure many other doms here feel, if I absolutely want to make a woman cum, I am going to go down on her.  Few forget it once I do.

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RE: Taste and Smell - bad for Doms ? - 4/4/2008 2:42:38 PM   
EVILDARK


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Status: offline 		For me, as a Dominant, her natural scents are something to be treasured, as are mine, why mask ourselfs with soaps, potions, sprays...thus covering up something that is natural and god given, too much pressure is placed upon society to fix the external, thus mask natural scents... I dont follow such rules, that is my opinion, and to add to that, pubic hair...its natural too, and something i prefer on a female...personal tastes...whatever floats your boat...etc etc.

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