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Level -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 2:13:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp quote: ORIGINAL: Daddyslilpookie quote: ORIGINAL: Level No sex, just service, it sounds like. That's it in a nutshell, can you say boring? i know right? i can do that at home...if i clean some guys windows, i'm hoping to get some good deep anal later on at the very least! But OP...really there are people who desire and want only this kind of service...and although it's definately not my particular kink...at the root of it is a need to serve, and that is what it's all about in D/s for me...so it is something i can understand. ~slut who likes to get "topped" in her bottom My kinda woman........[:D]

lronitulstahp -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 2:37:35 PM)
Lemme guess, it's the bit about me cleaning windows that got your attention, right???? Typical....[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image]

Griswold -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 2:55:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slave4abbw when a domme advertises for a no strings attached housework and handyman duties what excatly does that mean It sounds to me like they're offering "no strings attached housework and handyman duties". (It's just a gut feel, but I'm going with it).

CalifChick -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 3:03:55 PM)
I could pretend to be a Domme if it would get someone to come over with a rug cleaner and clean my carpets for me. Hunky-dude-with-no-shirt would be a bonus, but not a requirement. I'm just sayin'. CaliDomme

KnightofMists -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 3:50:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slave4abbw when a domme advertises for a no strings attached housework and handyman duties what excatly does that mean It means your not getting laid!!!

DesFIP -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 4:15:48 PM)
NSA normally means casual, no relationship. As to whether you can negotiate some play in exchange, ask about it. Some will occasionally reward a sub, others at best will pat you on the head and say good boy.

petpete -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 4:23:11 PM)
Its funny how the OP has put a question like this cause it does intrigue me too... i had a story once with a Lady that somehow we got to communicate so She asked me to go and clean Her backyard from the weeds.. When she asked me that it was a very hot day here in Melbourne and generally we had a hot spell at the time. Anyway, i kinda got a little suspicious, when She asked me to do that as when i noticed Her profile She did have already an {alpha} slave and they where a couple, so here i was thinking what sort of a fool i would be to go on a hot day and clean "THERE" backyard while mine was a real mess and kept on putting it off. i also pictured myself having to serve a "male" which i strongly categorically detest!!! i was also used to having the nice treatment from my ex Mistress who She always cared for me... Anyway, when we got to know each other better it wasn't as bad as i thought first and i got the picture a little latter, so it can be a little deceiving at first but i would recommend to the D's to take it a little easier in the beginning so people don't think they are being fools.. Its all about communication this game, (i suppose what isn't??)

SummerWind -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 7:21:26 PM)
...it means she's too cheap to pay for a cleaning service and a plumber.....

hsagnev -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 10:41:33 PM)
One would anticipate domestic house work and performing odd jobs. It is probably best to ask the dom what the job entails if that is possible.

StormsSlave -> RE: is it true (3/29/2008 11:38:12 PM)
I want to know: where do I find one of these selfless, housecleaning, repair doing men???!!! I am positive the Domme in me can be tapped if only, ONLY we can find ourselves someone who will do my bidding, clean my house, and fix the trunk button on my car. sigh Where the housework is concerned, I can be Domme enough for all of us!! Also, he doesn't have to cook, but a willingness to scrub the dishes in exchange for outstanding food would be a bonus. Not to mention...muscles, tanktops....maybe I should change my profile to looking for NSA housework and overall handyman. hmm... Of course, I could just call Merry Maids and pay them for same.

KarbonCopy -> RE: is it true (3/30/2008 12:04:32 AM)
Its just another way for women to use the lifestyle as a way to get what they want. (chores)

MissMagnolia -> RE: is it true (3/30/2008 12:12:42 AM)
It means what it says she means. One of the slaves I use provides service and he is rewarded by something he loves very much which I don't find sexual, but he does. He massages my feet, which is all he wants in return and is something I enjoy. No slave should EXPECT sex for anything. If it's a part of the agreement between a slave and Mistress/Master, lovely. If sex is expected by a slave for doing a bit of housework, well he/she needs to rethink what they are really doing it for.

Level -> RE: is it true (3/30/2008 3:10:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp Lemme guess, it's the bit about me cleaning windows that got your attention, right???? Typical....[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image] Yes, you nude, except with a collar around your neck, cleaning my windows......[8D]

StormsSlave -> RE: is it true (3/30/2008 3:33:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia It means what it says she means. One of the slaves I use provides service and he is rewarded by something he loves very much which I don't find sexual, but he does. He massages my feet, which is all he wants in return and is something I enjoy. No slave should EXPECT sex for anything. If it's a part of the agreement between a slave and Mistress/Master, lovely. If sex is expected by a slave for doing a bit of housework, well he/she needs to rethink what they are really doing it for. I'm sure I could find it in my heart to allow someone to rub my feet in exchange for allowing them to clean my house. Somebody tell me where to find these men!![:D]

Mercnbeth -> RE: is it true (3/30/2008 6:42:21 AM)
quote: ...Of course, I could just call Merry Maids and pay them for same. this slave would advise NOT using Merry Maids. your idea of tapping your inner Domme sounds like a much better plan. it really isn't the same when they send over not one, but TWO clueless twits who plan to spend at least 2 hours in the house and leave a tiny barking dog in the car in the driveway...it was 85 degrees outside. they never made it in the door, their supervisor was immediately called and they no longer service Master's house. finding someone willing to do quality work is a treasure..."payment" for that work doesn't always equal $$$. this slave did a LOT of no-strings service work when she was single/un-owned. accepting $$$ for it felt uncomfortable, as she didn't need or want monetary compensation for her time and effort, so she sought out those who wouldn't feel obligated to compensate her as primary targets. it wasn't sexually stimulating, either...just immensely internally gratifying to help someone else out.

HerLord -> RE: is it true (3/30/2008 3:21:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StormsSlave I'm sure I could find it in my heart to allow someone to rub my feet in exchange for allowing them to clean my house. Somebody tell me where to find these men!![:D] Now quit looking here for Ideas. It aint happening.

CalifChick -> RE: is it true (3/30/2008 6:47:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia If sex is expected by a slave for doing a bit of housework, well he/she needs to rethink what they are really doing it for. Ptttbbbbbbbbbtttttttttt! If I'm doing housework for someone, it's because I want to get laid. [sm=tongue.gif] Cali (at least you never have to wonder what my motivations are)

LadyPaige -> RE: is it true (3/30/2008 11:48:55 PM)
When I was looking for a sub male I met one that seemed to genuinely only want to serve. The problem was that I'm a generally clean, neat person who lives in an apartment and I couldn't have possibly given him enough chores to make him happy. I guess I could have loaned him out to my friends. Most of the men were willing to serve if it meant getting some kind of play, but I wanted to use the time of service to get to know them and see if I was interested in more play than service and protocal. Luckily I met my boy at a local party and it didn't take long to determine I was definately interested in playing with him.

petpete -> RE: is it true (3/31/2008 1:36:20 AM)
Just look for foot fetishists SS!! i would gladly do something like that to any Domme or Woman. i have taken reflexology courses for applying massage. i'm sure there are many men like myself and the one that MM has in Her service.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: is it true (3/31/2008 2:03:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah I think the OP has the idea that something else is at play. No usually it is someone who sees boys and subs as items that give blind devotion. Rarely have I seen this role last for any considerable period of time unless there are other desires being met. That doesn't mean it can't work just that I personally haven't see it yet. Steel I have been extremely blessed to have had this kind of relationship. he would mow, do laundry and clean every weekend, many times without me there. In two years, he missed two weekends. He also often went up during the week (about an hour's drive) to check on my cats if I was out of town. Most of ya'll know that I don't see subs and boys as items that give blind devotion. However, I will conceed that we met each other's needs in some way. We have common interests and could carry on decent conversations. So, we mutually enjoyed the conversation we had when he would come to serve. I genuinely care about him as a person and made an effort to show this. he wasn't able to move with me when I moved. I've told him that if he changes his mind and decides to come out this way, I have a collar for him. What I find odd about the situation is...he's having a hard time finding someone he feels is genuine to serve. he wants to be treated with respect and to be appreciated. Of course, other things would be nice. Apparently, finding that is harder than it sounds. Master Fire

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