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midgetmafiosa -> New to the boards (3/23/2008 5:36:30 PM)

Hi, I am a 28 year old woman who has recently become quite curious about the BDSM lifestyle. I am looking for friends and mentors here. I appreciate your experience.

-midge



YourDomNow -> RE: New to the boards (3/23/2008 5:38:12 PM)

Greetings and welcome to CM...most people here are willing to lend a helping hand in any way that you may need...dont hesitate to ask anyone whatever it is that may be of concern or question for you.....everyone here is quite wonderful in the ways of the lifestyle.....good luck, be well and dont hesitate if you need or want something.
 
~M



midgetmafiosa -> RE: New to the boards (3/23/2008 5:53:52 PM)

Thank you. I think, based on the research I have done recently, that I would define myself as a switch, but I would love a nurturing Dom(me) to train me in the lifestyle. I think I lack discipline, and therefore, the ability to dispense it. Any suggestions?



YourDomNow -> RE: New to the boards (3/23/2008 6:13:59 PM)

more reading, asking questions to someone on both sides, spending time discussing with Doms/Dommes, subs, slaves, and what not. There are plenty of resources on the net in regards to everything as well. Most folks on here will be more then glad to assist if you seek something in particular based on what you want and your needs. Things are gradual and takes time, but well worth it if this is the lifestyle you commit your to....any of us on here im sure will be more then willing to help, just be careful and keep a watchful eye on some.....some are more interested in selfgratification and taking advantage of lessor experienced persons.



YourDomNow -> RE: New to the boards (3/23/2008 6:15:08 PM)

Also, add some things into your profile about yourself, what you seek, and some honesty about yourself. Will give more people that view your profile some insight into you as a woman and person.



ominousdominus -> RE: New to the boards (3/23/2008 6:20:04 PM)

Welcome to the boards-OD



midgetmafiosa -> RE: New to the boards (3/23/2008 6:50:27 PM)

I tried to add to my profile, but I'm not sure what I'm about (as far as this site is concerned). I guess I'm looking to expand on my vanilla lifestyle, and dip a toe at a time into the lifestyle until i am submerged to my contentment. I am not a shy person, and tend to be very assertive. The idea of discipline not only turns me on, but allows me a window into my personality.



ominousdominus -> RE: New to the boards (3/23/2008 7:10:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: midgetmafiosa

I tried to add to my profile, but I'm not sure what I'm about (as far as this site is concerned). I guess I'm looking to expand on my vanilla lifestyle, and dip a toe at a time into the lifestyle until i am submerged to my contentment. I am not a shy person, and tend to be very assertive. The idea of discipline not only turns me on, but allows me a window into my personality.


Dipping a toe at a time...........sounds like a reasonable approach to me.-Be Well-OD



YourDomNow -> RE: New to the boards (3/23/2008 7:12:08 PM)

Midge, i sent you mail to ur profile for some helpful suggestions



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