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mzbehavin -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/23/2008 11:01:17 PM)

It is my opinion that you should pay close attention to this dream.
There are several possibilities here.
She could be someone from a past life. Perhaps coming full circle upon past issues. DNA memories...Maybe a warning. Please try to note the surroundings in the dream. Is it day or night? Are you indoors, outdoors? Upstairs, downstairs? ATime period, the weather, etc.
Also, she could be a spirit helper with a message. What are the emotions in the dream? How do you feel when you wake?
If the dreams are negative, perhaps you may want to put a crystal glass with water beside your bed at night to absorb any negative energies around when you sleep. Do not drink the water in the morning. Dump it down the sink.
OR~ It could be an aspect of yourself you are dreaming of. Gender aside, are the things she embodies those that you admire? That you loathe?
Or yes, it could be a pre-cog. Or A distant link where spiritually you are connecting. Rarely do these stardancers meet in person. That would be ubercool if you did. grins*
Hope this is helpful. Yes dreams mean different things to different people, yet they can be powerful tools to knowing ourselves. Best wishes~ xox




MasterFireMaam -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 2:13:07 AM)

I know of two ways to interpret dreams. For lack of better terms I think of them as going from the inside out or from the outside in. For both, you start by writing the dream. This is very important. It helps you remember details and gives you something to reference later when you need to look again.

Once you've done that, you can pick one of the ways, or both, combining them. If you are going to combine, I recommend doing the inside-out way first, then the outside-in.

Inside-out: Go back and reread your dream and underline all the symbols that seem important. Then, write out what each means to you. How do you feel about the symbol both in real life and in the dream? Often, you will find contradictions. For example, maybe there's a tennis ball. In real life, you enjoy playing tennis and it's a great love. But, in the dream, you use the ball to smash windows or other negative things. So, how you feel about the ball in the dream is totally different than how you feel about it in real life. When you find a contradiction, that usually represents something important. Continue to do this with each important thing in the dream, paying attention to how you've described them. For example, if the lady reminds you of your Aunt, then aspects of your Aunt are important.

When you've gotten all this written down, you can start to look at the symbols and what they mean in the real world. For example, your Aunt is a loving, kind lady in the real world, but in the dream you saw her as a bitch. This means there is conflict in your waking life in some way where someone's true nature is being overlooked or misrepresented...and, given that the symbol is female, it probably has to do with your feminine side or your personal creativity. So, you look at each symbol like that.

Outside-in: Once you've written your dream out and underlined all the symbols, you go to a source (or several) for dream interpretation. Look up each symbol and see which definition rings true for you. The can then put them all together to get an overall interpretation. Some sites I use are:
Dream Dictionary
Dream Moods A-Z Dream Dictionary
Dream Dictionary - Dream Symbols for Interpretation & Analysis

Combining the two means you to inside-out, then outside-in and work to make them fit in a way that, again, rings true.

All of this is often just mental gymnastics to get you to analyze what's going on in your head. In other words, you're trying to figure out the message your subconscious is showing you. Honestly, it really might all be gibberish, but, I bet if you do the exercise, even if it is gibberish, you'll have learned something about yourself and that's the whole point!

Also, I think it's significant that you try to avoid your dreams. This means, to me, that you try to avoid your happiness in real life. What are you doing, or not doing, that is keeping you from following your bliss? We are often our own greatest obstacle.

Master Fire




Justme696 -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 2:23:56 AM)

I don't like all the dream explaination stuff..about symbols etc..myself.
But dreams are a way to handle emotions and stress.

I once had problems in forgetting  a special person....end of last year...I dreamed this person visited me...saying all was ok. And the next day I was calm and could leave the past be.
When I feel good in life..I hardly dream..only when I feel shit for a long time..then I Start to dream again. They can really help me to handle day time crap.

An example..are the wettdreams..they are having a bodily function. To get rid of old seemen in the body.

To me it is all functional..with out all the symbolic explainations. BEsides that...the tribes/groups using dream explainations...are not really having much help of it..they are almost extincs or living in 3rd world countries. So one should ask one self..how much use it has to try to explain more abstract dreams. They soemtimes give godly value to dream explanation...but sadly the indians...didn't have much use for these claivoyance messages.
Besides that... I find it very interesting...to read..




MasterFireMaam -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 2:28:10 AM)

Hence, I said, "Honestly, it really might all be gibberish, but, I bet if you do the exercise, even if it is gibberish, you'll have learned something about yourself and that's the whole point!"

Even you have learned something about yourself by examining your dreams, as you've admitted.

Master Fire




MidMichCowboy -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 2:33:05 AM)

Thanks everyone for the responses. I'm thinking them through. Yes, last night, I had the dream again.

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ORIGINAL: domahpet
if you know this, you already know whats up

Because, sometimes, we have wandered from our roots and are looking for paths to return us.
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ORIGINAL: Lady Hibiscus
Maybe you're ignoring something really obvious in your waking life and your other brain wants you to pay attention.

I agree with you. I am afraid I'm overlooking something. But, for the life of me, I can't find it.
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ORIGINAL: Staffroom
you start by writing the dream. This is very important. It helps you remember details and gives you something to reference later when you need to look again.

I've written about it, I've put it in my journal. I've sent off emails to old friends asking if anyone knew a woman who looked like .... they think I've gone crazy. :)
To all who took the time to write such detailed responses, I am looking over them. I'm trying to put my skepticism aside and open my mind to find out why this dream is haunting me. Thanks




Justme696 -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 2:36:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Hence, I said, "Honestly, it really might all be gibberish, but, I bet if you do the exercise, even if it is gibberish, you'll have learned something about yourself and that's the whole point!"

Even you have learned something about yourself by examining your dreams, as you've admitted.

Master Fire



I was talking in general though. Not directed towards you. Sorry for the miscommunication. But yes..agree..if it helps..then it helps..no matter how you explain it.





Rule -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 2:40:32 AM)

For lack of information nothing can be concluded about your dream. Recurring dream, a lady not your type, perchance you try to fight her? See? Lack of information.




LadyHugs -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 10:55:16 AM)

Dear MidMichCowboy, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
How powerful are dreams?  I would think that they are extremely powerful and history has provided a series of 'dreamers' who have gone onto succeed in their dreams, though it is more of goals to reach.
 
I am sure the many inventions we know of throughout history have come through dreams.  I am sure there had to be a dream in the mind of Michael Angelo, the dream of flight, the crude drawings and such for the helicopter and aeroplane/airplane, understanding the body as well as being an engineer that applied to his art, to inventions and quest for knowledge.  The same with the catapult--way before it's time and application in war.  The dreams of those who built rockets, the space ships and things for men to walk on the moon.
 
Yes--I think dreams can be powerful.  What you do with dreams is as important as having dreams.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs




LostLittleSoul2 -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 11:21:13 AM)

Dreams are a bit difficult for me to decide about.

At one side I am not too much believing into them (as my love of my life asked me twice into them to move on with him and he never did it afterwards....*lol* - and before someone suggests it would have been my inner wish, no it was not, as I was already happy to move on from him...)

However, on the other hand I had dreams where it came true. When I worked in a residential home, for whatever reason I dreamed that our vacant room will be filled with a woman. The next day my team leader said in a break from a meeting, that he needs to tell us something. I said "that we get a new resident?" He said "How do you know?" I said"You mean, that we get another female resident." He said again "Who told you." So there, for whatever reasons I did dream from it.

Also a friend of mine was desperate to get pregnant and last year in March or May we both dreamed that she would be pregnant now...we didn't dream it in the same night, but not far apart either maybe 2-5 days were between our dreams. And currently she is waiting for her twins to come, as she was pregnant soon afterwards...I told her with joking, that she therefore will get twins soon, as we both had the dream she is pregnant, and now she is expecting her twins...

Also once on a flight I had a nap where I woke up as I dreamed that a tooth crushed together flat when biting on it, which was so not a nice dream...soon later I had a tooth to be removed as another tooth did dig a hole into it (secretly) and as lovely my tooth looked from outside, it was not lovely at all from inside, so it seems as if this dream told me to be aware of this problem which was about to come up...

So also I do not believe too much into dreams, I do not dump them into nothingness either...

also regarding ownedgirlie's dream I had such nightmares around 5-8 years of my life, which included in the first few years to jump out of my bed on a fairly regular basis for 4-5 nights a week (later when I could cope with it better I managed just to turn around and not to be too bothered, but still had my heartbeat up at 720) when I was a teenager and young adult. I do know pretty sure where it was coming from and since I got over the reason for it it vanished. So well done for your Master to help you to get rid off it [;)]




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 11:26:54 AM)

i had such an amazing dream last night...one that felt quite real.  i was an anime character collecting souls for a devil in hopes of becoming a vampire...when i collected the required amount of souls.

fucked up isnt it? hell yes...




popeye1250 -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 11:33:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: heartcream

There are some cultures (I could go research it if I had to) that believe that dreams are the real thing. They get together and tell each other their dreams and make vital decisions for their community based on them.

I feel dreams are there to help process and understand all a human has to process/understand. The sub conscious is more powerful these days than the conscious mind, so that will tell you plenty.

I would suggest lying down and try to go into the feelings the dream is triggering in you, where ever they lead and I bet you will gain some insight. No matter what those feelings are-- annoyance that you are dreaming of a woman who is not your type, the frustration of wanting to dream about the woman who is your type, and on and on like that. It will allow you to possibly see where you are holding judgements in place. Maybe one could be something like, "I cant even dream of the woman I want so how am I ever going to really find her?" Or, "My preferences must be wrong since my dreams are telling me otherwise." It can then be reversed, "I no longer believe my preferences are wrong, I know what I prefer and I fully support myself in finding it/her."


I had a dream about KittenSol last night and when I woke up this morning my pillow was stuck to my stomach.
Is that "significant?"




CreativeDominant -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 11:47:15 AM)

I've always seen my dreams as a way of dealing with things that happened to me during the day or over the last several days...things that I was both consciously aware of and subconsciously aware (but not consciously) of.  Like bipolarber, some of my dreams have been pre-cognitive but in all honesty, I take note when I find something occurring that strikes me as having happened in a dream already but other than a heightened awareness and an ability to tune in to what the dream was about, I do not consciously try to follow what happened in the dream.  For one thing, I can never hold on to all of any dream I have.  For another...I do not want to live my life by dreams, I prefer to take what has happened in them, be aware that my brain has already processed it and figure that I may be living according to what my brain did with the information gleaned from the dream already.





LaTigresse -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 11:47:21 AM)

I dunno, I dreamt about being in bed with Russell Crowe, and happy about it...........weird.




CreativeDominant -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 3:51:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I dunno, I dreamt about being in bed with Russell Crowe, and happy about it...........weird.


You were happy about it because it was ME and not Russell Crowe...easy mistake to make.  [;)]




Smoothicen -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 4:07:46 PM)


I'm no expert on the subject but I do know that one's subconsious often speaks in dreams.

In everyday life when you're wide awake, you've trained your mind to think within certain rules. It's the dicipline that society, education and the world around you enforces and it's how you get things done.

When you sleep however and are relaxed, those barriers fall away. My guess is that this some deep submerged need you're feeling, especially since you mentioned that it's a recurring dream.

You may need to delve further and explore this need before you put your mind at ease.

If all else fails, you can always seek out a therapist [;)]

Best of luck.




ELUSIVE1 -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 5:13:26 PM)

I bought my daughter a really good book of dream interpretations at Borders a few years back...it has been well worth it...there is a message in your recurring dreams, it may be worth the investment (think it was around $30) to ease your mind




PsyVamp -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 6:02:28 PM)

MidMichCowboy,  I have had dreams powerful enough to disrupt my thought processes for days on end.  One in particular comes to mind, and the person in my dream isn't of any physical description, just pure emotion... a feeling like none I've ever had. 
A feeling so indescribably bad that it could only be love, and it rocks me - shakes me even though I haven't had that dream in years.
 
So you ask how powerful are dreams?  I think as powerful as our desires, as powerful as our mind lets them become.
 
Lady Jag




kallisto -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 6:19:36 PM)

I believe dreams are a powerful part of one's self.   I don't let them rule the way I live or the things that I do, however, I do think there are sometimes messages that I take away from the dreams I have.   Sometimes I think dreams can be "created" based on an event that has happened in our life.  Sometimes I think they are simply a replay of the days events.  Sometimes I think they are our fantasies coming as close to life as possible.  Sometimes I remember vividly my dreams as if the events had just happened.   Other times I know I dreamed something but can't remember a thing.   I go weeks and don't think I've dreamed anything and then I go weeks and can remember ever minute detail.  

The mind, imagination, and subconscious are all very wonderful and mysterious, don't you think? [:)]




MidMichCowboy -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 6:42:51 PM)

First: Let me thank you for taking this serious. I would have probably made some smart ass remark. I probably deserve some smart ass remarks .
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ORIGINAL: Shawn1066
I personally think dreams are gibberish.

Pretty much the way I've been the last 15 years. In my youth, I felt it was valid to explore all the mysteries of life and the universe. The last few years, I turned into that which I always despised ... one who had room only for intellect.
I still admire intellect, but hell, no one has all the answers. Those who act like they do, are idiots.
I still believe in the Big Bang, Evolution and even (cover your eyes) math and physics. But that doesn't mean there isn't more. I no longer buy the fact that the bible contains all we know about Christ. The book of Mary and much more were dropped for political reasons at a conference convened by a pagan to control this thing called Christianity.
I've seen too many similarities in too many religions, with the same story. We may have the facts wrong but the moral values still shine through. I do believe in a soul and not just some electrochemical  mess in the brain.
So, now I'm haunted. I'm looking inside and out .. and still, I"m haunted.
Thanks all for your help. If something helps or it stops, I will let you know.
Michael 




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How powerful are dreams? (3/24/2008 6:52:36 PM)

Dude.  You just need to get laid.  [:D]

Francine, Snark on Demand!




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