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KnightofMists -> RE: Does knifeplay involve real cutting? (3/23/2008 7:58:45 AM)
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Shawna I want to add to some already good comments that you have recieved from this thread. Specifically, I want to raise the issue of risk and intent. It's clear from you description of Knifeplay the intent is as you say quote:
I thought that knifeplay was when you don't actually cut the bottom, but rather get it into their heads that they are being cut (more psychologically, like showing them the knife, cutting through something with it to prove its sharpness, then blindfolding them and running the dull edge over them). More of a fear play thing than pain play. Even though this is your intent, it fails to recognize the risk that is inherent with knifeplay. This is the risk of being cut. It is foolhardy and even reckless to consider that one can do knifeplay without a risk of blood occurring. We can obviously minimize that risk to a great degree by the technique we use. Everything from not touching the person with the knife to using and exceptionally dull blade. But the risk of slipping, tripping is always there and even a dull knife can cut with enough force. With cutting their is the Intent to cut. However, with knifeplay a person can have an intent to cut as well. When we cut, with a scalpel, knife or other sharp tool, we open up a completely new realm of risks that a person needs to become aware of. As others have suggested, it is important to clarify what it is meant by knife play. I suggest that he discussion of any play should be more than a description of what you might or will do. But also what is your intent in the play and always have a discussion of risk that is associated with the play. Lastly, please avoid getting into a locked mindset. Just because you have had the discussion doesn't mean things don't change in the future. Always be open and encourage discussions of play with your partners. As we expand our interests... it is not uncommon for our intent and risks to change even with the same toys/tools that we currently use.
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