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RE: is it ok to be disloyal - 3/21/2008 6:39:07 AM

thetammyjo

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm sure we're about to get into it, because we obviously have some different life views.

No, disloyalty is never ok. It means there is something basically wrong with the relationship that is shared. That there is something wrong with the trust, honesty, and integrity that should exist within a bond. These things don't only exist within monogomy, but poly as well. It comes down to terms and conditions. Limits and respect of those limits. Boundries, clearly established, and what they really mean.

Here, here!

Disloyalty is in the eyes of those in the relationship. No one else can define what it means, only they, because only they have formed that dynamic and can determine how it should work.

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RE: is it ok to be disloyal - 3/26/2008 10:57:00 PM

MissHarlet

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Each of us knows what disloyalty is in our relationship ..... if we are disloyal .... I think it is wrong ..... it may not be wrong to anyone else ... and that doesnt matter .... but we KNOW ... and we know when we are WRONG......

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RE: is it ok to be disloyal - 3/26/2008 11:20:10 PM

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My 2 cents...

It is not OK... if you want out of a relationship, then get out. Why would you hurt someone you at one point loved?

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