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thetammyjo -> RE: is it ok to be disloyal (3/21/2008 6:39:07 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I'm sure we're about to get into it, because we obviously have some different life views.
No, disloyalty is never ok. It means there is something basically wrong with the relationship that is shared. That there is something wrong with the trust, honesty, and integrity that should exist within a bond. These things don't only exist within monogomy, but poly as well. It comes down to terms and conditions. Limits and respect of those limits. Boundries, clearly established, and what they really mean.
Here, here!
Disloyalty is in the eyes of those in the relationship. No one else can define what it means, only they, because only they have formed that dynamic and can determine how it should work.
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