Darksyd -> Life long Dom new to site (3/17/2008 6:24:58 AM)
My name is Michael. Straight heterosexual male who likes to shop. (Go figure.)I have been a Dom all my life, even when I didn't know what it was and thought something was wrong with me. My first sexual experience was to have my girlfriend at the time crawl accross the floor and beg to suck me off. I believe that a true Dominant dosen't wake up one day and deside 'Hey I'll be a Dominant!" I believe they are born that way. Something in them, something indescribable causes them to not view sex the way others would. They don't look for just orgasmic release; they are driven by something more. True Dominants bond with their subs in a way a married couple can not begin to appreciate. (Sorry my mind wondered off. I have a passion for BDS&M. Again I appologize; this is suppose to be an introduction or a greeting) I stumbled across this site purly by accident. Thought I'd post a profile and meet some people. I enjoy meeting those in the BDS&M and sharing stories. So please feel free to drop me a line or share a few stories
bardtothebone -> RE: Life long Dom new to site (3/17/2008 8:53:23 AM)
Welcome to the site. It sounds like you believe a submissive is more than an inflatable doll with a pulse, and actually possesses a brain...which places you light years ahead of many of your peers here on CM. Good luck in your quest, and be kind to those who seek to know you better.
The Bard
nwcutie102 -> RE: Life long Dom new to site (3/17/2008 9:19:36 AM)
you are right, for submissives (speaking for myself really) it is also not about the orgasm. it is about the taking, the spanking, the demands from my Dom. soooo exciting! good luck and best to you!
Darksyd -> RE: Life long Dom new to site (3/17/2008 8:48:43 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Darksyd
My name is Michael. Straight heterosexual male who likes to shop. (Go figure.)I have been a Dom all my life, even when I didn't know what it was and thought something was wrong with me. My first sexual experience was to have my girlfriend at the time crawl accross the floor and beg to suck me off. I believe that a true Dominant dosen't wake up one day and decide 'Hey I'll be a Dominant!" I believe they are born that way. Something in them, something indescribable causes them to not view sex the way others would. They don't look for just orgasmic release; they are driven by something more. True Dominants bond with their subs in a way a married couple can not begin to appreciate. (Sorry my mind wondered off. I have a passion for BDS&M. Again I appologize; this is suppose to be an introduction or a greeting) I stumbled across this site purly by accident. Thought I'd post a profile and meet some people. I enjoy meeting those in the BDS&M and sharing stories. So please feel free to drop me a line or share a few stories