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shaobaihu -> Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 3:53:03 PM)
I have a problem with physical punishments due to my past. What effective punishments are there that do not involve physical pain?

KnightofMists -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:03:26 PM)
some non-painful punishments mmmmmmmm made to read some of the threads in CM... oh wait.. that could be rather painful at times.... becareful how long you make the person read the thread... make them suffer but don't inflict pain.

dcnovice -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:04:23 PM)
quote: mmmmmmmm made to read some of the threads in CM... oh wait.. that could be rather painful at times.... becareful how long you make the person read the thread... make them suffer but don't inflict pain. Surely that violates the Geneva Conventions.

dominapain -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:20:18 PM)
stand in corner on toes while raw eggs is put under heels and told not to break them

Kirren -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:22:15 PM)
The catholic school trick of sitting in an imaginart chair holding two arms out to the sides? Um....extra domestic work? Em....Writing assignments? Those seem to be good.

Daddyslilpookie -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:23:18 PM)
My Master does not give me physical punishments because if he gave physical ones well that would defeat the purpose of the punishment because I like it.Some examples are recording desicion 08 and making me watch two hours of it, or making me watch war dvds on world war 1 for 3 hours.[:'(]

UncleNasty -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:29:26 PM)
I rarely dole out physical punishments. In essence using my sub partner in the dungeon is something I/she/we enjoy. Kind of like punishing a child with chocolate ice cream. The exceptions to this are the things she really hates, which can be a challenge to find. Once discovered though can be very powerfull. I tend towards something similar to what some parents do: "Go into your room and think about what you've done" kind of stuff. I might tack on a writing assignment geared towards learning, growth and elimination of the "inappropriate" behavior.

Kitte9 -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:29:47 PM)
List everything you dislike and let him go from there.

stella41b -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:36:25 PM)
Being restrained and made to watch or listen to this... http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=jQYQTFudrqc Repeat as necessary..

slaveluci -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:37:37 PM)
It's pretty simple actually. If we are to assume you are being punished for inappropriate behavior, then whatever punishment is going to most closely address that violation and cause it to CHANGE for the better is what I'd recommend. Punishment doesn't really work for me. Teaching, guidance, correction and direction does. It's not about paying me back for what I did or failed to do. It's about ensuring that the next time, appropriate behavior will replace inappropriate. That's not fun and kinky, but that's what works with us[:)]. But, to answer your exact question, a couple things that have worked for me were (temporary) extra rules, restriction of privileges and writing assignments pertaining to the issues that caused disobedience.............luci

shaobaihu -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 4:42:03 PM)
Thank you for your insight. I shall try some of the things that have been posted.

LadybugBlue -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 8:34:11 PM)
another option would be silent time. Either you are unable to speak, or your Dom/me/others are to ignore you completely for a period of time

Leatherist -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 8:59:46 PM)
Counting 100 pound bags of beans.

Ladylocks -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 9:00:13 PM)
I am pretty new to all this but so far I use cornertime or chain him up to the stair handrail. I want punishments that give him quiet time so he can think about his wrongdoing and isnt getting my attention. Oh and I really enjoy chaining him up so theres usually bondage involved. I might as well be enjoying it some right? I am still working on new ideas.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 9:04:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ladylocks I am pretty new to all this but so far I use cornertime or chain him up to the stair handrail. I want punishments that give him quiet time so he can think about his wrongdoing and isnt getting my attention. Oh and I really enjoy chaining him up so theres usually bondage involved. I might as well be enjoying it some right? I am still working on new ideas. Enjoying that your training and discipline isn't as solid as you thought? Enjoying that you now must doubt their ability to follow through on orders? Enjoying that you now have to rethink and reconfigure your methods and figure out why they haven't been working? Enjoying that you have to work on communication on basic understandings and obedience?

TracyTaken -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 9:09:15 PM)
quote: Enjoying that your training and discipline isn't as solid as you thought? Enjoying that you now must doubt their ability to follow through on orders? Enjoying that you now have to rethink and reconfigure your methods and figure out why they haven't been working? Enjoying that you have to work on communication on basic understandings and obedience? Is the fulfillment of training and discipline only in the success then? I don't know (my relationship doesn't work that way), so I'm asking.

Leatherist -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 9:10:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: Ladylocks I am pretty new to all this but so far I use cornertime or chain him up to the stair handrail. I want punishments that give him quiet time so he can think about his wrongdoing and isnt getting my attention. Oh and I really enjoy chaining him up so theres usually bondage involved. I might as well be enjoying it some right? I am still working on new ideas. Enjoying that your training and discipline isn't as solid as you thought? Enjoying that you now must doubt their ability to follow through on orders? Enjoying that you now have to rethink and reconfigure your methods and figure out why they haven't been working? Enjoying that you have to work on communication on basic understandings and obedience? But true punishment consists of making a sub go dig up any thread that could possibly relate to thier horrible wrongdoing, then read and post every last one![:D]

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 9:11:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TracyTaken Is the fulfillment of training and discipline only in the success then? I don't know (my relationship doesn't work that way), so I'm asking. For me, not completely. But if it's gotten to the point where actual time and energy must be taken for punishment, then to me that's a sign that somethings seriously going wrong and I don't enjoy that.

Daddyslilpookie -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/16/2008 9:21:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadybugBlue another option would be silent time. Either you are unable to speak, or your Dom/me/others are to ignore you completely for a period of time Another thing my Master does do punish me, because I love to talk and I am quite a chatterbox lol[:D]

adoracat -> RE: Physical Punishments (3/17/2008 12:50:15 AM)
the classic ones that i've used on UM's many times before involves pennies. hold a penny to the wall with your nose, hands clasped behind your back. sadistic version: have barney singing in the background. hold your hands out to your sides, back of the hands upwards. a penny is placed on the back of each hand. dont drop them. this one gets one's attention VERY fast. for me personally? i dont need physical punishments, i am crushed enough if i have to be reprimanded. although i have been given writing assignments that are designed to teach me, not just to make me repeat something ("write this sentence five hundred times!") kitten

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