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some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:25:25 PM   
littlelass1987


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Status: offline 		Okay, as some of you  may know im real new to both this site and the lifestyle.

I joined this site to chat and learn from more experienced members.

But i just got on today and checked out the mail box (a torturous enough activity) where i found 2 not so nice messages. On went in to detail about how "fake" i was and how this site doesnt have time for "wasters" like me. Now not only did i find this surprising behaviour from someone who has never spoken to me, but also very rude. Mainly due to the fact im not a fake, i am a young scottish female living in england who is an engineer and YES thats my picture.

Im an honest lass and quite shocked at the behaviour of these "older, wiser Doms" im only 20 and i know that its not ok to verbally attack those who i don't even know.

Id like to thank those who have been kind and helpful, and i apologise if i haven't gotten round to replying to some messages yet. But to those who see my profile and dont believe who i am, please keep your snide remarks to yourselves. im hear to learn, if i wanted to be annoyed id cover myself in honey and sit near a beehive.... which i dont.

thank you for reading and i dont mean to sound disrespectful, but ive pretty much just been told my life is a lie....and that aint right....

littlelass1987
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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:27:37 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		This is the internet.  What in your 20 technology/internet infused years has ever led you to believe there weren't dumbass assholes online?  If you get this worked up over some internet stranger saying you're a lie, you're never going to survive.

And trust me, plenty of those helpful emails will turn worse than those two you got if you don't answer them the way they want you to.

Keep expectations low and be happily surprised when someone exceeds them.

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:28:04 PM   
Hippiekinkster


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Status: offline 		"...quite shocked at the behaviour of these "older, wiser Dims..."

Corrected.

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:31:45 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		they just saying that cause your profile doesnt have any booby shots or any naked shots or anything of you in provocative nature that turns them on. 

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:35:03 PM   
littlelass1987


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Status: offline 		I'll survive just fine thank you.

And just because the world has plenty assholes doesnt mean i have to view everyone as one, im merely pointing out to people if they have a problem with my profile, they can keep it to themselves...

All im saying is, perhaps these people should think a little before shooting thier mouths off, theres no reason for anyone to be mean to anyone... the worlds fucked up enough without fretting over my "reality"

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:36:02 PM   
freekalette


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From: Limitedburg, Ohio
Status: offline 		Hey, don't let the wankers get you down.  My inbox is usually filled with stupid messages.  (And a few great ones!!)  Just forget about those who try to judge you, and move on.  Just like in the 'nilla world, some people are nice and some aren't, but I've noticed that in "the Lifestyle," people tend to put all their expectations onto others.  If you don't live or act or screw like they do, then you're not "one of us."  I totally disagree with that mode of thinking, and there's lots of other folks here who disagree with it too.  I wish you luck, and hope you don't let the bad apples ruin your time here.  Cheers!

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:42:58 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlelass1987
I'll survive just fine thank you.

And just because the world has plenty assholes doesnt mean i have to view everyone as one, im merely pointing out to people if they have a problem with my profile, they can keep it to themselves...

All im saying is, perhaps these people should think a little before shooting thier mouths off, theres no reason for anyone to be mean to anyone... the worlds fucked up enough without fretting over my "reality"

But do you really think those sorts of people would either read this, or care about it?

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:47:38 PM   
vagabondduo


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Status: offline 		Face facts.  Many if not most of those you meet on these internet sites are not who they say they are.  Those Doms who are writing insulting mail could be teenieboppers who get kicks out of doing so and are hoping you'll react so they have something to laugh about and brag to their friends.  I won't tell you the names i've been called in my time around here.  I expect those who wrote to you actually did think about what they were doing, and had a great time doing it.  Probably were typing with one hand. 

The block feature here is wonderful and it works very well. 

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:51:56 PM   
searchin4love


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i like your quote ..the who is a band na?

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 2:55:54 PM   
kittinSol


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlelass1987

YES thats my picture.



*shameless drooling*

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:01:08 PM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlelass1987

YES thats my picture.



*shameless drooling*


yeah!! what KS droole...erm, SAID

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:05:12 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: searchin4love
@luckyalbatross
i like your quote ..the who is a band na?

In the same way that Google is "a search engine," yes.

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:08:35 PM   
Zensee


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Status: offline 		Who says CM is populated by assholes? Why several times a week I get messages from ladies who are so struck by my Domliness they don't even bother perving my profile or learning my name before they send me long and adoring letters, complete with invitations to join them at their exclusive webpages. The most recent was so love struck she sent me the same appeal twice within minutes, bless her lust addled little heart!


Busy being adored by the multitudes,
Z.


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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:10:16 PM   
searchin4love


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Status: offline 		yup..will listen to that for sure..

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:11:35 PM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: Zensee

Who says CM is populated by assholes? Why several times a week I get messages from ladies who are so struck by my Domliness they don't even bother perving my profile or learning my name before they send me long and adoring letters, complete with invitations to join them at their exclusive webpages. The most recent was so love struck she sent me the same appeal twice within minutes, bless her lust addled little heart!


Busy being adored by the multitudes,



I'm jealous.

< Message edited by kittinSol -- 3/15/2008 3:12:14 PM >

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:15:20 PM   
Hippiekinkster


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Zensee

Who says CM is populated by assholes? Why several times a week I get messages from ladies who are so struck by my Domliness they don't even bother perving my profile or learning my name before they send me long and adoring letters, complete with invitations to join them at their exclusive webpages. The most recent was so love struck she sent me the same appeal twice within minutes, bless her lust addled little heart!


Busy being adored by the multitudes,
Z.

I'm envious. All I ever get is "Hello Sir I am Ferengi slave girl in Ghana. I am nurse 23 and I long serve you any way I like. I am expert in all ways of sex slave. Please thank you for respond to me sooner."

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:24:50 PM   
xBullx


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Status: offline 		Toughen up sugar plum. LA is right, those you think are nice guys will turn into pricks when you don't consider playing with their's, prick that is.

Calling you a fake is an easy attack at your character; it tends to rile up the new folks that are trying to establish themselves. You're a new poster and member that was here hoping to find something "special", these "assholes" are used to testing young girls out and inspiring conversation using this drama tatic; I reckon sometimes it must work, they do it alot. That "special something" you seek might be here, but you'll have to wade through the shit to get to the shore. We all have too. There are girls out there that do the same thing from your side of the fence.

Don't sweat the small stuff, just roll on, learn to kiss my ass and you'll be just fine, I like my feet rub after dinner while I enjoy a glass of wine, and wear something sexy, hey can you play the bag pipes, I'll let you play my, but I'm sure about this squeezing my sack under your arm and all.

Serve well,

Bull

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:27:03 PM   
xBullx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlelass1987

YES thats my picture.



*shameless drooling*



you're sucha slut

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I'm not an asshole; I'm simply resolute...

"A Republic, If You Can Keep It."

Caution: My humor is a bit skewed.

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:29:38 PM   
xBullx


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Status: offline 		You too................

quote:

ORIGINAL: Zensee

Who says CM is populated by assholes? Why several times a week I get messages from ladies who are so struck by my Domliness they don't even bother perving my profile or learning my name before they send me long and adoring letters, complete with invitations to join them at their exclusive webpages. The most recent was so love struck she sent me the same appeal twice within minutes, bless her lust addled little heart!


Busy being adored by the multitudes,
Z.




I'm pondering relocation to Nigeria and building a new home. My God the amount of needy slave sluts over there is alarmingly high. They neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed me.

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I'm not an asshole; I'm simply resolute...

"A Republic, If You Can Keep It."

Caution: My humor is a bit skewed.

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RE: some not so pleasant people... - 3/15/2008 3:35:52 PM   
GrizzlyBear


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Status: offline 		There are people who just hate the whole world, who have this burning desire to let everyone else know just how pissed they are.  Some of them have found this site, and for some reason, think that being an asshole qualifies them to call themselves a Dominant.

It won't be the last of the nasty emails you get. Block and delete, and smile at their foolishness.  You will get over it.  They never will.


(edited for typo)


< Message edited by GrizzlyBear -- 3/15/2008 3:37:08 PM >

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