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SugarMyChurro -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 3:45:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Zensee Busy being adored by the multitudes... Dude, there's a chair sneaking up on you from behind! Probably wants to hump your leg... [:D]

FullCircle -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 4:48:57 PM)
Some people can read me like a book damnit.[:D]

Pyrrsefanie -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 5:10:17 PM)
Welcome to the Intarnetz. Take it with a grain of salt. At least you haven't had any crazy guys threatening to track you down and kill you and your entire family just because you've politely declined their offer of "ur cunt my face." :D Those are always the fun ones.

stella41b -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 5:34:48 PM)
I actually think the OP is making a very good point here. The level of apartheid and fascism found on this site sometimes gets to me too. This isn't just one thread, but a few of them and it's about time someone stood up and called a spade a spade. If the fascists and sanctimonious neonazis who infiltrate this site can have their opinion and decide who is 'real' and 'true' and who isn't, then I for one feel perfectly entitled to have my say also. I don't care whether it's online, offline, real time, pixels on a screen or whatever, the fact remains the same that we are all using computers and software such as Internet browsers to be here.. like it or not it's a means of communication. But you know each and every profile name is someone, and at the end of every computer - no matter whether you regard them as real or not - is a real, live human being, with thoughts, feelings, emotions. And yes, some people are shy, some people are more sensitive than others, and some people do take to heart what is written here and do take it serious and they can be upset, they can be offended, and they can be intimidated, made to feel inferior, and they can be discouraged from seeking help, finding information or other people, some of the reasons they come to this site. This isn't 'just some teenieboppers' or merely 'assholes' - these are fascists, pure and simple. I think the situation is pretty clear. This is an adult website, run by adults for adults, for anyone interested in kink or BDSM. Anyone who has got a profile on this website for whatever reason to me is valid. They have the same right to be here and take part in these threads as anyone else. This site has a team of Moderators. We don't need a self-appointed team of Thought Police to decide what is acceptable and what isn't, thank you very much. Nor to decide who is real and who is fake. Some of us have enough problems dealing with hostility and prejudice out in society without having to deal with the same crap here. WIITWD by its very definition inplies tolerance and acceptance of others, not prejudice and hostility towards other people on the basis of 'my kink is okay, your's isn't'. The TOS mentions clearly 'negative' and 'critical' references to other members using this site. Just because it isn't directly aimed at someone doesn't mean to say that it's acceptable. It isn't. I don't care who it is or how long they've been interested in BDSM, if they have taken it upon themselves to decide who is real and who is fake, who is acceptable and who isn't, then they are fascists. Just my 0.02

CalifChick -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 6:16:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlelass1987 But to those who see my profile and dont believe who i am, please keep your snide remarks to yourselves. Let me give you a visual. Imagine a minister standing in front of the church. The church is filled with the regular Sunday crowd. He starts lecturing them about "all you sinners who don't come to the Sunday service, you're going straight to hell." Pause and let that sink in. That's what you just did. You're preaching, but you're not reaching the sinners. The sinners are out there in the streets (in your case, on the other side, and most likely, will never venture on this side). Cali

cjan -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 6:54:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stella41b I actually think the OP is making a very good point here. The level of apartheid and fascism found on this site sometimes gets to me too. This isn't just one thread, but a few of them and it's about time someone stood up and called a spade a spade. If the fascists and sanctimonious neonazis who infiltrate this site can have their opinion and decide who is 'real' and 'true' and who isn't, then I for one feel perfectly entitled to have my say also. I don't care whether it's online, offline, real time, pixels on a screen or whatever, the fact remains the same that we are all using computers and software such as Internet browsers to be here.. like it or not it's a means of communication. But you know each and every profile name is someone, and at the end of every computer - no matter whether you regard them as real or not - is a real, live human being, with thoughts, feelings, emotions. And yes, some people are shy, some people are more sensitive than others, and some people do take to heart what is written here and do take it serious and they can be upset, they can be offended, and they can be intimidated, made to feel inferior, and they can be discouraged from seeking help, finding information or other people, some of the reasons they come to this site. This isn't 'just some teenieboppers' or merely 'assholes' - these are fascists, pure and simple. I think the situation is pretty clear. This is an adult website, run by adults for adults, for anyone interested in kink or BDSM. Anyone who has got a profile on this website for whatever reason to me is valid. They have the same right to be here and take part in these threads as anyone else. This site has a team of Moderators. We don't need a self-appointed team of Thought Police to decide what is acceptable and what isn't, thank you very much. Nor to decide who is real and who is fake. Some of us have enough problems dealing with hostility and prejudice out in society without having to deal with the same crap here. WIITWD by its very definition inplies tolerance and acceptance of others, not prejudice and hostility towards other people on the basis of 'my kink is okay, your's isn't'. The TOS mentions clearly 'negative' and 'critical' references to other members using this site. Just because it isn't directly aimed at someone doesn't mean to say that it's acceptable. It isn't. I don't care who it is or how long they've been interested in BDSM, if they have taken it upon themselves to decide who is real and who is fake, who is acceptable and who isn't, then they are fascists. Just my 0.02 [sm=applause.gif] Well said, ty. Toasts a cuppa virtual tea brewed in a virtual samovar. Cheers. OP, as has been said here, there is never a shortage of assholes anywhere, sadly.But many people on this site are real and who and what they say they are, I'm finding. That's why I come here. Best wishes to you.

domiguy -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 6:59:36 PM)
This is normally the spot where I tear in to you for being so naive. However, your doooability is the only thing that prevents this from transpiring....Please forward some tit and gash shots to let me know that my act of kindness has not gone unacknowledged.

Aneirin -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 7:07:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlelass1987 Okay, as some of you may know im real new to both this site and the lifestyle. I joined this site to chat and learn from more experienced members. But i just got on today and checked out the mail box (a torturous enough activity) where i found 2 not so nice messages. On went in to detail about how "fake" i was and how this site doesnt have time for "wasters" like me. Now not only did i find this surprising behaviour from someone who has never spoken to me, but also very rude. Mainly due to the fact im not a fake, i am a young scottish female living in england who is an engineer and YES thats my picture. Im an honest lass and quite shocked at the behaviour of these "older, wiser Doms" im only 20 and i know that its not ok to verbally attack those who i don't even know. Id like to thank those who have been kind and helpful, and i apologise if i haven't gotten round to replying to some messages yet. But to those who see my profile and dont believe who i am, please keep your snide remarks to yourselves. im hear to learn, if i wanted to be annoyed id cover myself in honey and sit near a beehive.... which i dont. thank you for reading and i dont mean to sound disrespectful, but ive pretty much just been told my life is a lie....and that aint right.... littlelass1987 Ignore them, a known fact with this place as with other places, you have to wade through a sea of sticky shit and pus before you find what you are looking for, which makes it more the worthwhile when you do find what you seek. There are Doms, and er, dimdoms, not quite the same thing. This also is a free site, it attracts all sorts, I mean, just look at...no perhaps not. Advice perhaps, don't give in to the filth, you are what you are, you know that and those that get to know you know that. If you must post a picture, be comfortable in what you post, by no means do you have to display anything of yourself other than your face.Maybe with those that pester you, you might like to do the BAD thing, block and delete. Good Luck, just to let you understand though, not all men on this site are assholes.

DesFIP -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 7:10:51 PM)
I'm assuming the people sending the nasty emails are those older than your preferred age range. Unfortunately that's usually the cause for this. These types know they don't have a chance at a pretty young thing like you and they lash out. Of course, it's because they act like this that they don't have a chance at anybody. Ignore the twits, and join the boards. Welcome to the zoo.

subrob1967 -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 7:29:35 PM)
How does one become a 20 year old engineer? Engineer student, I could understand.

domahpet -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 7:30:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: littlelass1987 But to those who see my profile and dont believe who i am, please keep your snide remarks to yourselves. Let me give you a visual. Imagine a minister standing in front of the church. The church is filled with the regular Sunday crowd. He starts lecturing them about "all you sinners who don't come to the Sunday service, you're going straight to hell." Pause and let that sink in. That's what you just did. You're preaching, but you're not reaching the sinners. The sinners are out there in the streets (in your case, on the other side, and most likely, will never venture on this side). Cali seriously dont think shes gonna get that Cali, but im too lazy to spell it out right now. maybe Domi can take over for me? [:@]

MissMagnolia -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 7:36:25 PM)
We ALL get those emails, both doms and subs. You're not special or being targeted. Try putting your thoughts on the subject in your profile or journal. The people who post in the forums are the very ones who DON'T do that shit, so there's little point in telling us.

cjan -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 7:57:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy This is normally the spot where I tear in to you for being so naive. However, your doooability is the only thing that prevents this from transpiring....Please forward some tit and gash shots to let me know that my act of kindness has not gone unacknowledged. He's a funny mo'fo' and, yes, Im sure he means it'

Maya2001 -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 8:18:50 PM)
I guess we better warn all those domly doms to quit picking on you

CalifChick -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 8:26:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cjan quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Please forward some tit and gash shots to let me know that my act of kindness has not gone unacknowledged. He's a funny mo'fo' and, yes, Im sure he means it' Yes, we are all sure he means it. Just don't expect any sort of pleasantries in return, and you won't be disappointed. I'm just sayin'. Cali

lighthearted -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 8:27:44 PM)
well, welcome to CM, with any luck you will learn to hit that "block sender" button quicker than they can...[:D] edited cuz I'm lame

MusicalBoredom -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 8:35:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xBullx I'm pondering relocation to Nigeria and building a new home. My God the amount of needy slave sluts over there is alarmingly high. They neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed me. I'm thinking the same thing especially since every single citizen of the county has $23,000,000US in some bank that they can't seem to get out without my personal help. And to the OP, don't worry about it. Welcome and keep on coming. Personally I prefer the forums but I guess each section on the site has it's own appeal (and share of ok people and assholes and people that are both).

lusciouslips19 -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 8:40:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: cjan quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Please forward some tit and gash shots to let me know that my act of kindness has not gone unacknowledged. He's a funny mo'fo' and, yes, Im sure he means it' Yes, we are all sure he means it. Just don't expect any sort of pleasantries in return, and you won't be disappointed. I'm just sayin'. Cali Ya. So true. Pretty much a "do me " Dom. hey, that reminds me of a frank sinatra song. Do me do me do,dododododo, do me do me do.....

bipolarber -> RE: some not so pleasant people... (3/15/2008 10:15:13 PM)
To the OP: just look at their foolish emails as a public service. These sad lonely types are flagging themselves early on, so that you know not to bother wasting your time with making conversation. An engineer, eh? Brains, beauty, and judging by your very polite initial post, a young lady who is a product of good parenting. You shouldn't have any problems getting attention on this site! Good luck to you!

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