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Daddysredhead -> RE: I love it when..... (10/8/2009 4:33:13 PM)
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*hugs pure and tammy* Thank you, ladies. It means the world to me to get such beautiful words spoken about me by the likes of you all and trapped. I love that you all are kind and warm and compassionate and loving... to so many, who think so highly of you all, too.
I love it when someone asks DB and I the nature of our relationship. She knows that we are D/s, but wanted to know how we "work" it on a day to day level and what I liked about switching, and if I had ever used a flogger. He asked me if I would like to reply and I said "yes." This is a snippit of what I wrote:
As to our BDSM lifestyle, it is more of the foundation of our relationship than anything. He is always the one I defer to, although he is very respectful and takes my opinion to heart. He does not treat me like a doormat. Also, in our play or scene time, he is always Dominant to me, and I am always submissive to him. In my other interactions with D/s types, I am switchy. I like to Top, and we have had a couple of women who bottomed/subbed to both of us. It was sexy and nice while it lasted. I think both of them have moved from the area now. I am pretty good with a flogger (very supple deerskin, or really nice rabbit fur since you say you like a light touch), although he has years more experience than me, and can do things that I haven't learned yet.
I love it when He reads my entire (lengthy) reply before He gives it the 'nod' and sends it out, thens IM's me a message "very well written." That made me feel really yummy. [:)]
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