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RE: sub jacking - 3/13/2008 9:00:41 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		I had one male Dom I had met once as a friend claim me on a site we both visited, as his submissive. Once I stopped laughing, I reported him. ASide from the fact taht I do not submit to anyone, ever, he and I had lunch one time and I had no intention of seeing him again even before I was alerted that I was obviously now collared property. This one hadgone as far as to have been, in is little fantasy world, getting ideas for my slave brand or tattoo, and planning my move to live with him as a 24/7 slave.

Sometimes, people jump the gun, and other times they are offensively overzealous.
Report him, let him know you are doing so, and you dont appreciate being claimed prematurely... and then block him. It doesnt look good to be blocked by your own property, and make mention in your profile there tat you are unowned and unclaimed, regardles of what certain people seem to think.  Thats should cover al the bases.

DV


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RE: sub jacking - 3/13/2008 10:41:08 PM   
petitespitfire64


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Status: offline 		Thanks! Great advice people! I reported the posts and they were immediately removed by the moderators. The guy in question was warned not to mention my name again!

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RE: sub jacking - 3/13/2008 10:54:47 PM   
Gwynvyd


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That is a lovely new pict DV. I *really like it*

Petite I am glad you go this straightened out.

Gwyn

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 1:39:21 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		i've never been 'sub-jacked' but have had my profile and/or my journal stolen more than once both here and on other sites.  And i'm not that great a writer!!  When i discovered the theft i contacted the individual and confronted them.

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 1:52:29 AM   
Justme696


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64

I recently joined a new BDSM site and found out that a so-called "friend" of mine was advertising that I was HIS submissive. He had posted serveral times, each time mentioning me as HIS.
We had TWO dates...and won't be having another one. I am INCENSED. Have any of you had this happen? How did you deal with it?

Daneene
"The RIGHT thing to do may not be the POPULAR thing to do."



How would you deal yourself with it?

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 2:07:33 AM   
faithfulfemme


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quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i've never been 'sub-jacked' but have had my profile and/or my journal stolen more than once both here and on other sites.  And i'm not that great a writer!!  When i discovered the theft i contacted the individual and confronted them.



whoaaa.........how does one have their profile and/or journal stolen?  Oh wait......duh.......sorry, it's the blonde hair.......you mean that they were copied by another person and then used as their profile and journal, yes?

.

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 2:23:02 AM   
eyesopened


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quote:

ORIGINAL: faithfulfemme

quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i've never been 'sub-jacked' but have had my profile and/or my journal stolen more than once both here and on other sites.  And i'm not that great a writer!!  When i discovered the theft i contacted the individual and confronted them.



whoaaa.........how does one have their profile and/or journal stolen?  Oh wait......duh.......sorry, it's the blonde hair.......you mean that they were copied by another person and then used as their profile and journal, yes?

.


Yes.  Too early in the morning and too blonde to spell plagiarised.

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 4:28:38 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		I have contacted him. We are going to have a duel. After that you are going to be mine. I am the only true Dom in Michigan. If anyone says different I will have my baby sister beat them up.

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 4:33:03 AM   
colouredin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64

Thanks! Great advice people! I reported the posts and they were immediately removed by the moderators. The guy in question was warned not to mention my name again!


thats good :D

glad its sorted


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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 4:42:22 AM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64

I recently joined a new BDSM site and found out that a so-called "friend" of mine was advertising that I was HIS submissive. He had posted serveral times, each time mentioning me as HIS.
We had TWO dates...and won't be having another one. I am INCENSED. Have any of you had this happen? How did you deal with it?

Daneene


He didn't want you... he wanted the bike.... I don't blame him one bit that bike is smokin.

BadOne


You and the bike are Hawt! BadOne is just too cool for his own good and would never admit to that. but you are!

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 4:47:32 AM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

quote:

ORIGINAL: faithfulfemme

quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i've never been 'sub-jacked' but have had my profile and/or my journal stolen more than once both here and on other sites.  And i'm not that great a writer!!  When i discovered the theft i contacted the individual and confronted them.



whoaaa.........how does one have their profile and/or journal stolen?  Oh wait......duh.......sorry, it's the blonde hair.......you mean that they were copied by another person and then used as their profile and journal, yes?

.


Yes.  Too early in the morning and too blonde to spell plagiarised.


Did I ever tell you about the time I googled myself and found my pic and profile on a UK lesbian dating site. The weird thing is it had me statistically listed as black, bald, straight, a heavy smoker from Manchester. I contacted the site and said "please remove or you'll hear from my lawyer". It took time but it was removed.

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Charter member of Lance's Fag Hags,
Member of the Subbie Mafia
Princess of typos and it's my prerogative

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 6:56:29 AM   
Justme696


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Did I ever tell you about the time I googled myself and found my pic and profile on a UK lesbian dating site. The weird thing is it had me statistically listed as black, bald, straight, a heavy smoker from Manchester. I contacted the site and said "please remove or you'll hear from my lawyer". It took time but it was removed.


curious what dirty words you used to find yourself   lollll  :P

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 7:20:17 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Don't contact him, if he was a decent guy he wouldn't have done this in the first place. Just write the site admins and ask them to correct this.

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 8:01:13 AM   
subtee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i've never been 'sub-jacked' but have had my profile and/or my journal stolen more than once both here and on other sites.  And i'm not that great a writer!!  When i discovered the theft i contacted the individual and confronted them.


eyesopened, how did you discover this??? Yuck.

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 8:08:23 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Forget the site. You have a Lawyer???  Mine will get in touch with yours. Your pic is pure sexaul harrasment.

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 8:46:44 AM   
SirJohnMandevill


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petitespitfire64

I recently joined a new BDSM site and found out that a so-called "friend" of mine was advertising that I was HIS submissive. He had posted serveral times, each time mentioning me as HIS.
We had TWO dates...and won't be having another one. I am INCENSED. Have any of you had this happen? How did you deal with it?

Daneene
"The RIGHT thing to do may not be the POPULAR thing to do."



I'm very specific about the way I characterize my relationship with a certain submissive who also is on CM. Although we've had one spectacular, orgasmic weekend together and are meeting again in two weeks, I don't consider her "my" submissive yet. I usually refer to her as the "submissive I'm courting." (Quaint, ain't it?) And always anonymously. When we get to the point where we're ready to register at Extremerestraints.com, we'll let you know!
 
Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 8:54:13 AM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		Aw...very sweet of you! Threatening to sue me like that...~hugs~

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 9:21:24 AM   
eyesopened


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i've never been 'sub-jacked' but have had my profile and/or my journal stolen more than once both here and on other sites.  And i'm not that great a writer!!  When i discovered the theft i contacted the individual and confronted them.


eyesopened, how did you discover this??? Yuck.


First time, a guy wrote to me to say that he was suprised at how much i was like his new submissive and to check out her profile (this was on a different site) and the text was word-for-word what i had written.  Hmmmmm

Second time was here, i checked out someone who had viewed my profile and saw that he had described himself using my journal "my ideal Master" as being the qualities he possessed.  Again, parts were word for word.  Bizarre....

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 9:51:23 AM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Did I ever tell you about the time I googled myself and found my pic and profile on a UK lesbian dating site. The weird thing is it had me statistically listed as black, bald, straight, a heavy smoker from Manchester. I contacted the site and said "please remove or you'll hear from my lawyer". It took time but it was removed.


curious what dirty words you used to find yourself   lollll  :P


I googled lusciouslips19 !

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RE: sub jacking - 3/14/2008 9:55:15 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		subtee I would'nt sue you. I have other plans for you. Grins

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